Hospice Volunteer Spiritual Nourishment

angel2 angel This has been a long and winding road,sadness and pain but most of all gratefulness that a beloved has been spared for yet another day. My voluntary caregiving is not over yet as I have taken a few hours to come up take air and rejuvenate.Hospice volunteer work is not about death. It is about life. It is about the moment, the hour, the time you spend serving. When I signed up to train as a volunteer, I did not know if I could do it. Our society does not spend much time, money, energy, or thought on our last days, thus my knowledge of the process was minimal. Having trained and experienced firsthand the process, feelings, and journeys of others’ ultimate passage has made me a much more thoughtful and wise person. What is really important has surfaced. My life has more value.As my life and schedule have changed during my volunteering, people ask me if I plan to continue to volunteer, or if I have time to volunteer still. My answer is that I cannot imagine not volunteering. It is a part of me. It is an intricate part of my life--my spiritual nourishment. It is a great gift to me. My greatest hesitance or fear is that I am getting more out of it than I am giving.Hospice has clearly put so much into their organization, and that makes me feel as I do about volunteering. The training is thorough, and the staff is superb. The best part of my day is when I meet someone and share that I am a volunteer at Hospice. There is usually a pause, a clarity in their eyes, as if refocusing, and then the conversation continues almost on a different level. They automatically know something about your heart and about who you are. They know you are real.
I was not able to wish anybody for the festive season as I would have`loved to but the blog I posted became nasty and I did not want this to effect me in anyway as to rub off on the patients I was going to give my love and attention to.I now wish each and every living being,be it human ,animal,friend,acquaintance or those that dont like me grin “Follow your passions, believe in karma, and you won’t have to chase your dreams;they will come to you.teddybear bouquet lips
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teddybear lips lips thanks precious,there is something in your inbox,sorry I missed the christmas wishes ,still working,but am taking a break,to rejuvenate the brain cellslips lips lips lips gift
yes ..just seen it....thanking you ..my hearts dearesthug cheers teddybear very happy to be your friendwine
Hi Candy. I know the feeling you are describing. smitten

My volunteer work with the horses and the kids who come for equinotherapy brings great joy.

As you say, you end up receiving more than you give in the long run.. it´s following our passion, believing in karma and, most importantly, filling your soul and your life purpose.

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It's so nice to have you back Candy. You were gone for a few days and I honestly missed you. This place gets boring when you don't drop by.teddybear

It's refreshing to be able to read some intelligent and original thought. You march to your own music and if others don't like the sound sometimes, who cares? dunno

I trust you had a wondeful Xmas. It appears that you spent it helping others...very commendable indeed.
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Candy, I hope you had a very nice Christmas. Believe it or not, I am involved with the volunteer programs of St. Vincent de Paul in my hometown and it does give a very rewarding feeling to be able to see how many people appreciate and truly need these programs.

At St. Therese assisted living where my mother in law is in, also made me sign up for at least once a week to go and do anything that requires this call.

God bless you my dear.teddybear teddybear bouquet
teddybear Thanks Veritatis, for the welcome,it give me warm fuzzy feelings of comfort after my system has been drained from giving all my love and caring to the desperately ill.I will be returning at 6am in the morning and will work until after the new year with breaks inbetween if we manage to get enough voluntary workers.I hope you had a peaceful Christmas and if you are anything like me I am not a person with great expectations as far as the gifts go. Knowing myself I will be passing the gifts on,with the givers not knowing but sure to thank them. kiss gift P.S. Hope the shadows down under never came out to tyrannize you too much,but I have faith you can deal with them like Obi Wan Kenobi in star wars rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing lips
wave CC I can promise you that all voluntary caregivers have the most compassionate and genuine interest of the frail and weak patients they care for. I do not believe that any person would want to be giving up their time bathing and feeding the frail.I do mine part without being paid and that on its own gives me the greatest sense of coping with the small things in lifebouquet
wave Lindsy dearest I was working at Hospice on Christmas day but managed to go to midnight mass.Hope you had an awesome time with your family.I will be on duty in the morning at 6am until after the new year with some break in between if we have enough volunteers, PLEASE GOD. Being a caregiver is a demanding job. You provide comfort and care of patients who are experiencing so many strong symptoms: the denial, anger, lashing out,depression, talkative, outbursts... As much as I try to remain stable, riding the rollercoaster of emotions with the patients leaves me drained,but it gives me the gratification of knowing I am there for someone whose son or daughter dont want to be bothered, He/She has one family member who is actively in his life,only when they need money the others do not have contact.I am very happy to know the most respected blogger I correspond with ,has the same empathy such as I when it comes to caring for the downtrodden and impoverished.I have a friend that is on tour over the December/January period and she helped with a traditional Christmas dinner that was served at St. Vincent de Paul in Louisville Fridayteddybear bouquet lips lips
I am a living witness of what it looks like Candy on these people. They are very lonely, afraid and sad people. My mother in law had to stay there for some intensive recovery from a fall and she recovered fast two days before Christmas we had to take her to the Independent living and it is a little better. But yes, some of these people don't even have relatives to come and comfort them and they just glow when we do give them that attention and assurance that all is going to be alright.teddybear bouquet
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