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Wondering how one know's honesty of a person in a long distance friendship or a relationship.
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Crazy

Adding one always leads to minus someone.

LHS=RHS

cool
Cc

Hi

Thanks for writing.

And yes I totally agree with your take as I assume the same, it is all about of being very careful....
I think I made the right decision...but no regrets, it was fundancing

you go for it...cheers
CH, you should have met that LDR , you don't really know you would get hurt. You are hardly with your partner anyway, so you could have got to know the other meantime.
Ish,

I had no doubt we will hit it off...that was scary for me. As for my LDR, he comes here every few months, was here few days ago. I don't think I can give up on him now...I think I'm OK with it so why take risk?laugh
CH, he is away, why not have some fun get your CS date to take you out, dine and see what happens. Get over him or see if there is something real. In the end you will always wonder what could have been.
You can't know from meeting someone either - if they could look you squarely in the eyes on Skype, they can look you squarely in the eyes in real life.

It's a gamble. But the longer you talk, the more inconsistencies you will pick up in what the dishonest one is saying. It's very hard to talk that long without relaxing, and very hard to hide when relaxed. dunno
Ish,

I guess I'm just the loyal and faithful typelaugh but if someone shows up on my doorstep I'll definitely make him a cup of coffeelaugh
That's a fantastic invitation. Hope he takes it up... Sometimes the talkers aren't real walkers,
I think you'll have a fair idea before meeting them if you'll get on well or not.

The only thing you won't know is if 'it' is there.

I love finding that out dancing
Ish,

That's not an invitation...I was talking in generallaugh but if IBA, turns up here, I will let him in and if he has some seeds for Bruce, I'll cook very yummy lunch for himlaugh
Elag

Hi

You are right, I recall a workshop I attended at the start of my professional career Which was about instant seeing eyes of the one you are communicating with to determine he or she is telling truth and what his or her approach is.

I met many people who even failed this research.....they were so good in deceiving.
CH you must do a tutorial on how to do that, I've been trying to learn for awhile now and mine doesn't wiggle it wobbles
Crazy

Who the hell would miss a free home cooked meal.

Not me!!!
Molly

Not knowing is always very exciting and keeps us going and living and hoping and bla bla bla......

Such a complex creatures we are!
Imb, I would find a full-on LDR too frustrating.

Some people can do it, some can't.

I am a can't.

I like to be able to meet the person, hang out with them in real life etc.

The start of any relationship is the most exciting and fun. If you don't even get to spend that time in each other's company, the moment is lost.
IBA,

so what were you talking about the whole time? favorite pets, food and colors?doh laugh


not knowing...will never work in an LDR, you've got to know what there is to know. I never met that guy but I know him wellsigh
ISH,

Wiggling is a natural thing...some are born to wiggle, I guess I'm one of themlaugh

As for tutorial, let me see if I can post a wiggling vloglaugh
Molly,

It's not like me either...I was coercedblushing and after that, it simply came out naturallydoh rolling on the floor laughing
Crazy, you're easy to coerce laugh
IBA,

I prefer to talk about everything...believe me we covered all kinds of topics from the intelligent ones to the lousy, degrading and hilarious ones....no holds barred, that how we knew that we connect in so many ways...it was not all about fun and laughing at all...there were arguments and clashes of opinions but the good part was we know how to patch it up....knowing someone is not just about mental aspects....ahs to be in every aspects....have to know what there is to know about a person if you want to share your life with her
Molly,

the only thing that made me curious to see that first photo and video was to find out how it look like...with or without hooddoh rolling on the floor laughing
You'd like mine Molly, its adorable...

We can see the sparks fly when you two are on the blogs. He knows you very well and I bet you know him. Hope you two one day get to meet in person.
Pat, I'm sure it's totally adorable, and I'm sure I'd love it to bits
Ish,

maybe...just maybesigh
Ish

I bet you are a SHERLOCK HOLMES fan.

But your radar is malfunction for your predictionconfused
Molly,

well I think looks funny with hooddoh but I've gotten used to itrolling on the floor laughing
Imback actually i do like sherlock holmes.
and watson .. CH likes Watson also.
That's how they are supposed to look!
Ish,

wrong...Watson disgusts mescold I don't like the way he pet his petlaugh
The what, Molly?


The hood? well, it doesn't look nice...it turns me off beef rouladesdoh laugh why can't they just trim itdunno laugh
I haven't seen him pet his pet CH, guess thats why I still like him.
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing what have you been looking at Pat
OK, we're way off topic here...this is not about hoods and monkeyslaugh

let's get back to LDR....sorry IBAbouquet
Pat, I've just had a look.

I can't say I see that
Pat,

that's gross!!!hole laugh
Ah I see. Getting a bit defensive arent we, ladies?... Usually a sure sign of guilt.
guilt?

who's guilty heredunno I've just had a look too...it's far from monkey headdoh yay
Pat

Seriously....where did u brought that from....

Showing no respect to the topicapplause

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