(Diapers)....Quite the attracton!!!

The headline was to suck you in, I'll discuss the diapers at the end of the blog. Now this is important to me. This blog is not about receiving accolades it's about Conflict so please refrain from such...thank you

Let me begin by saying my mom was an excellent cook and I learned a lot from her. She would be always taking cooking classes and became quite the gourmet cook. When she made a great meal and we all told her so, we would never see that meal again. Conflict. So, I learned quickly, when she would ask how was the meal I would say ah, it was OK. If it wasn't five star or as you Brits would say, have a Michelin rating she would keep making it till she got it right. Conflict resolved.

I only eat organic /non-GMO foods, I guess about 95% of the time. I am very aware of toxic chemicals and preservatives. The other 5% are foods like watermelons, cantaloupes, honeydews that are not sold organically.

Here's the conflict:

Ever month for my church I go on a food shopping spree and buy food and stuff for the poor. I go to a food distributor who sells 'bulk' items so it makes it easier to carry and deliver and cheaper as well. The food I buy is all processed foods and stuff I would never eat myself. I do look at the ingredients and disregard some items that I'm 100% positive are very toxic. I will not purchase any sodas or juice drinks.

I can't get out of my head that I'm being a hypocrite and buying food that I would not eat myself. So, I chat internally with myself every time I shop, saying it's for the poor people it doesn't matter. Well, it obviously does matter, as I'm writing this blog at 5 AM lying in bed feeling guilty that I'm doing the wrong thing. They don't sell these kinds of foods organically, so that's not an option......

We all suffer through conflicts in our lives, no matter where you are on this bouncing ball they call earth. Some conflicts are easily rectified others not so much.

Ok, back to the diapers. A couple of months back as I was food shopping I had a few boxes of diapers on my skid. A woman comes up to me and says..Wow, that's a lot of diapers. I couldn't resist, I told her my wife was on fertility pills and we are now the proud parents of sextuplets. The look on her face was priceless. I then told her the truth that it was for charity and I could see a glow on her face and smoke coming from her ears. We chatted exchanged numbers had coffee and started dating......so guys load those shopping carts/trolleys with diapers it really works


Conflict not resolved and probably will never be, I'm usually good at giving advice, but when it comes to me....not so much....
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If I were given the choice of eating processed foods or not eating at all - I would take my chances on processed foods.
Nice blog, Sands....
Hope your new romance works out.....applause
Would adult diapers work? rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

Can I say they are for grandpa blue?rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Hi DC, I don't think loading your cart with diapers is a good thing....laugh

I agree Molly, but it just won't leave my head alone.....

Thanks Cal....

Too early in the morning Usha, I can't even see straight let alone upside down.....
The inner conflict you exerienced honours you as it shows that you are a soul of principles, values, responsiblity, empathy and care that thinks and feels in a sensitve way.

That’s why you felt guilty.

I can relate to this kind overthinking. Lol

You wanted to do good with your donation of processed food for the poor and then felt guilty for not providing them with your own standard of superfood.

However the crème de la crème for anyone is just not realistic and one has to keep things in perspective.

In an ideal world it would be the optimum if even the poor were to eat organic food. However, this is not going to happen in reality and your noble donation helps them immensely and they will be grateful that you bettered their lives.

Souls of idealism and empathy can have a hard time in this world. And always think they could have been better when they already have been utterly good.

Sometimes it’s good to take a break and breathe and just accept that you have come this far and everything you did was good.

It’s a nice twist that you met s.o. when dealing with diapers which would have been a classic downer in the first place.

That’s the irony of life. Lol
* kind OF overthinking. Not kind overthinking. Lol
Proof reading is crucial sometimes before hitting send.
As romances go !

the Diap was loaded from the start laugh

fair play Sands and I hope it all goes well for you cheers
So is your incontinence curable?
Non...thanks

Blue....it now absorbs 10 times more, so im good for a long while.
now, if you try this yourself remember it's diapers for toddlers not the usual adult ones.....laugh
How often do you change them ? The ones on my head are gwTring a little high
that's a good question Blue, I think it works on an individualized basis and depends on the beer intake.......grin
Hi Seri, not sure I can comprehend the first part...solutions not being permanent, seems contradictory and to some I thought the big bang happened already, should we prepare for another one? Have you been chatting with Putin?

As to the second paragraph seriously who would have guessed diapers would be the correct lure on the line??? Certainly not me in a million years. You've been reading to much in that reverse psychology stuff

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Nice Blog! Sand.

Good Information, To Think about. Bless Your Heart.

By The Way!
Welcome Back You ... balloons
How many conflicts do you experience per day in your entire life?
I maybe should have posted my last comment with conflicts instead of the conflict it self....
Very conflicting sigh
Hi Angel, good to see you. thank you
Seri, every moment of my day is conflict.....buy/sell/hold.....stock trading is intense and extremely conflicting.......
Everyday we rather enjoy the day and do what we really desire to do but the conflict is.... it is not always possible because just like you mentioned....making a living is a responsible task but also to asking ourselves why are we doing it this way?
So the art to compromise is actually the only permanent solution...I guess

Don't mind me...having a "deep thoughts Tuesday "grin
Seri, didn't you say that solutions are not permanent (prior)? And now<So the art to compromise is actually the only permanent solution> Sometimes I do question myself....WHY DID YOU DO THAT TRADE? WHAT WERE YOU THINKNG?? There's no compromising with Wall Street....their game, their rules, their ball......have to run.....c u laterwave
Ok Sands, i will rest my case ....cool
Seri...check this out cracked me up, just picked it off of twitter......I said trading can be intense


notice how the other traders just kept on trading.....
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did you hear someone say Scotty knock it off in the above video.....???rolling on the floor laughing
My mom was an excellent cook and I learned a lot from her too. Like how a woman should cook and serve her man all his food. I have no conflicts with this. In fact, I find the food tastes better to me when served by someone I love.

That GMO stuff is safe. I eat it all the time. Get some sleep.
Hey RH, goo to hear. We would have starved to death if it was left up to my Dad. He literally didn't know how to turn the oven on..as far as GMO being save I'm not sure look at what it's doing to your complexion. grin
Now that you mention it, I do look a little paleuh oh
Sands

Welcome back and congrats on your new dating technique...laugh

Who would have guessed...lol...dancing


All the best to you


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Hi Lou, it took me a long time to choose which diaper (so many choices)dohif I didn't take my time to make sure I purchased a doable one I probably would have missed her.....thanks and good to see you
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