(Diapers)....Quite the attracton!!!
The headline was to suck you in, I'll discuss the diapers at the end of the blog. Now this is important to me. This blog is not about receiving accolades it's about Conflict so please refrain from such...thank youLet me begin by saying my mom was an excellent cook and I learned a lot from her. She would be always taking cooking classes and became quite the gourmet cook. When she made a great meal and we all told her so, we would never see that meal again. Conflict. So, I learned quickly, when she would ask how was the meal I would say ah, it was OK. If it wasn't five star or as you Brits would say, have a Michelin rating she would keep making it till she got it right. Conflict resolved.
I only eat organic /non-GMO foods, I guess about 95% of the time. I am very aware of toxic chemicals and preservatives. The other 5% are foods like watermelons, cantaloupes, honeydews that are not sold organically.
Here's the conflict:
Ever month for my church I go on a food shopping spree and buy food and stuff for the poor. I go to a food distributor who sells 'bulk' items so it makes it easier to carry and deliver and cheaper as well. The food I buy is all processed foods and stuff I would never eat myself. I do look at the ingredients and disregard some items that I'm 100% positive are very toxic. I will not purchase any sodas or juice drinks.
I can't get out of my head that I'm being a hypocrite and buying food that I would not eat myself. So, I chat internally with myself every time I shop, saying it's for the poor people it doesn't matter. Well, it obviously does matter, as I'm writing this blog at 5 AM lying in bed feeling guilty that I'm doing the wrong thing. They don't sell these kinds of foods organically, so that's not an option......
We all suffer through conflicts in our lives, no matter where you are on this bouncing ball they call earth. Some conflicts are easily rectified others not so much.
Ok, back to the diapers. A couple of months back as I was food shopping I had a few boxes of diapers on my skid. A woman comes up to me and says..Wow, that's a lot of diapers. I couldn't resist, I told her my wife was on fertility pills and we are now the proud parents of sextuplets. The look on her face was priceless. I then told her the truth that it was for charity and I could see a glow on her face and smoke coming from her ears. We chatted exchanged numbers had coffee and started dating......so guys load those shopping carts/trolleys with diapers it really works
Conflict not resolved and probably will never be, I'm usually good at giving advice, but when it comes to me....not so much....
Comments (26)
Hope your new romance works out.....
Can I say they are for grandpa blue?
I agree Molly, but it just won't leave my head alone.....
Thanks Cal....
Too early in the morning Usha, I can't even see straight let alone upside down.....
That’s why you felt guilty.
I can relate to this kind overthinking. Lol
You wanted to do good with your donation of processed food for the poor and then felt guilty for not providing them with your own standard of superfood.
However the crème de la crème for anyone is just not realistic and one has to keep things in perspective.
In an ideal world it would be the optimum if even the poor were to eat organic food. However, this is not going to happen in reality and your noble donation helps them immensely and they will be grateful that you bettered their lives.
Souls of idealism and empathy can have a hard time in this world. And always think they could have been better when they already have been utterly good.
Sometimes it’s good to take a break and breathe and just accept that you have come this far and everything you did was good.
It’s a nice twist that you met s.o. when dealing with diapers which would have been a classic downer in the first place.
That’s the irony of life. Lol
Proof reading is crucial sometimes before hitting send.
the Diap was loaded from the start
fair play Sands and I hope it all goes well for you
Blue....it now absorbs 10 times more, so im good for a long while.
now, if you try this yourself remember it's diapers for toddlers not the usual adult ones.....
As to the second paragraph seriously who would have guessed diapers would be the correct lure on the line??? Certainly not me in a million years. You've been reading to much in that reverse psychology stuff
Good Information, To Think about. Bless Your Heart.
By The Way!
Welcome Back You ...
I maybe should have posted my last comment with conflicts instead of the conflict it self....
Very conflicting
So the art to compromise is actually the only permanent solution...I guess
Don't mind me...having a "deep thoughts Tuesday "
notice how the other traders just kept on trading.....
That GMO stuff is safe. I eat it all the time. Get some sleep.
Welcome back and congrats on your new dating technique...
Who would have guessed...lol...
All the best to you