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Music makes us dance sing or feel in a great mood no matter what day you having ??

With real joy comes real pain.

Any time we fully experience true joy or feel the
preciousness of life on an emotional level, we can
expect to feel a great amount of sadness. Many
of us shy away from the things that would make
us happiest, because they also make us feel pain.
The opposite is also true. We cannot selectively
numb ourselves to sadness without numbing
ourselves to joy. When it comes to falling in love,
we may be hesitant to go “all in,” for fear of the
sadness it would stir up in us.

My book has come out. Now local area could pre order it through my publisher website ONE PEACH MEDIA or visit their Instagram page.(Indonesia only)

FOUR PIECES.
To be honest it's not about chick love story instead it's about mental illness. Yes. It's dark and getting dark in every pages.
It's what I've felt before.
It's what people might have been through too.
Maybe it could be you,
It could be your brother or sister,
It could be your friends or your significant other.
Please, do something to help them,
Or at least be there for them.
Because, mental health issues, whatever it is, they need to know that we are care about them.
Don't judge them because you're not wearing their shoes. Instead be there for them.

So about my book, FOUR PIECES.

Why did I choose this dark genre instead of all those chick love story? You should have known me before, I don't like following mainstream. I'm a rule breaker. I'm stubborn. I don't want to put any burden on my back to write a story to please someone else's ego. I write what I've felt. I write what I've been dealing or what I've done so far. I guess that's the way of being an artist also an author from my opinion.

Yes, FOUR PIECES is more concerned about mental illness or mental health issues. It took ages for me to deal with that. It took ages for me to capture all the scenes on paper. But in one night, this idea came out one day when I heard my best friend lose her father. I texted her, we talked and all those parts turned into a draft and here we are now. I should have thanked her for it. She helped me lots about mental health issues. Long list.

And remember, it's okay for not feeling okay and get help.

REMEMBER, When you tell people about yourself and they couldn't accept it, that's not your fault.

You're not alone.

Suicide isn't the best option. NEVER. It's just the way you might think would end your pain TEMPORARY but the truth is, you wish you could stop the time and run away.

Now Let's create some beautiful memories together instead of thinking about how this life would end. The sun's still look beautiful even if it looks hesitate.

#vivianlin #FOURPIECES #writing #book #mentalhealthawareness #mentalillness #mentalhealthissues #depression #anxiety #selfharm #bipolardisorderawareness #healing #recovery #preordernow #dearagony15

As you might see up there in the title there are some very meaningful and strong words that many of us just do not know their true value..... My life is a roller coaster. My relationship went in shambles and i decided to share some thoughts with you all ... peace

My personal relationship did not work out because i did not trust and did not take things to the next level. If someone's worth the extra effort try and go their way. By that i mean if you have an argument it is ok to give in and not to escalate things. YES it will mean telling them its your fault when deep down you know its not. Deep down your partner will know that they are wrong and will appreciate the extra effort you put into the relationship.

Never say goodbye! It is a really cruel word especially when you are having an argument ... Never go to sleep without talking things over.

Family is important but do not ever let your or her family be the reason to breakup. At the end of the day you would be living with the person and not with their family really. If you do not agree with how family regards your spouse it should not be the cause for breaking up.

Never ever compromise if your partner still meets the ex. If there are kids or real estate it is understandable that you might have to compromise but it does not mean that you should accept everything for e.g a social occasion .... That being said you know when you should trust the partner or not. Trust your gut instinct. It is ALWAYS right!

Honesty is also very important. Show them how much you really love them. It is useless keeping it to yourself out of pride.

Be Positive. Do what it takes to win the other person back. Do not play the proud human and let things fall off your grasp. That being said don't ever be a stalker ... be a gentleman!

Never cheat your partner! You will regret it later on. I was on the receiving end. Be careful that you were not the one to cause it! While nothing justifies affairs .... make sure you never motivate the affair to become a reality because clearly you must have been doing something wrong! And most probably that is why the partner went into rebound mode.

Show commitment, not only to the person but also to the relationship itself. Don't be overloaded with work all the time. You will just instigate thoughts in your partner's head who will in turn cast doubt on the outcome of the relationship.

Don't be cold with your partner who is trying to attempt to fix things between you two after an argument. Don't play proud... it will get you nowhere! You will regret it when someone that really loves you is gone for good..... you will only realise that when it's all too late ...........

Never try to replace your partner with someone else. Another date after a breakup will just resolve nothing! It will only make you feel worse because the person you left is in reality irreplaceable! Stop trying to find your ex in your new acquaintance .... it just won 't happen! And you will mourn your ex even more! Give yourself time!

Think about things! If the relationship is salvageable, then there is no reason not to give it another try! Give it as many tries as necessary. If you really love someone then you should not put a number of lives on the relationship before you say game over. That is just nonsense and will bring you nowhere in life! These days we live in a very busy life .... and there seems to be less and less tolerance between couples ....... Be there for each other and show love to each other.

A rebound 'date' will never make you happy... nor it will make you forget.... you will just feel more and more miserable.

Love is not only on Valentine's ...its for every day of your life. ..... Stop listening to others to forget your partner... especially your new acquaintance ...... Let nobody interfere with what you really want in life ..... Never give up

....Sigmund Freud was way off on most things. But he had a few things to say worth listening to. One was p*nis ENVY, present, to varying degrees, in every woman ever born. Often begins in quite early years, after first seeing one of these miracle body parts, usually in another young family member, and saying something like, "hey world, where's mine?" It typically intensifies as soon as she sees her first really angry one. But I digress. The other was early work on the possible causes of neuroses. According to him, it was interpsychic (subconscious) unresolved conflicts, allegedly from intrafamily s*xual issues. In love with mom, and thinking of ways of rubbing out dad. Sure, mostly interesting stories, but the disorders do seem to exist. In my case, lots of longevity in the family genes. So why worry? May have another thirty years to annoy the ladies here on CS. What a country. Soooooo, why have I begun to scrutinize many of my activities of daily living, which I perform in a fairly efficient manner anyway, to save time my remaining precious moments, to waste time doing other things. Such as Blogging here? NEUROSIS. Hopeless, but not serious. Can't make this stuff up.

After a great deal of thought I decided I wanted to make an announcement, but then I changed my mind and decided I didn't want to make one. It was a last minute decision and I only just managed to stop myself from making the announcement before I posted this blog. Had I posted the blog a couple of minutes earlier I would probably have made the announcement.

Now I'm wondering if I should have made the announcement, after all. Still, it's no good crying over spilt milk, it's too late now; I didn't make the announcement and that's that.

They Been In Occupation For 65 Years
People Who Been In Palestine! Describe The Conditions !
The Palestinian Living Under As " An Open Concentration Camp"
With Cheek Points, Face Recognition Every Where They Go!
Never Been Have The Right For They Own Water& Electricity!

They Family Members Been Kill Or Putting Them In Jail Without Charges!
Not Knowing When ? If They Ever Will Be Released !
Children Living In Fear On the Constantly Bombardings!
Now The Palestinian People Most Women's And Children's Are Left To Death With Out Food
Water , living In Tents In a Horrible Winter Time!
They Need Help More Then Ever To Stay a Live!
They Deserve To Live Free In They Own Land!
They Are Humans Like You & I!
Over 30 Thousands People Is Been Kill!
Most Of Them Where Womenms & Childrens!
The World Is Been Speak Out For Them!
We Are Hurt To knowing They Are Hurt!
Specially The Poor Children's!
This Is An Emergency!
" PLEASE HELP THEM"!

If we look closely, every person in the world is suffering from this disease. Our personality keeps changing according to our feelings. When anger, hatred, greed, ego, fear, lust, etc. dominate us, our behavior changes completely, and it affects our life also. Similarly, when good feelings awaken within us, our behavior also becomes good. Our personality depends on our good and bad feelings.
If we could control our feelings, we can get a stable personality and a stable life.

20 Famous Quotes That Will Inspire Success In You

1. “If you don’t build your dream, someone else will hire you to help them build theirs.” Dhirubhai Ambani

2. “The first step toward success is taken when you refuse to be a captive of the environment in which you first find yourself.” Mark Caine

3. “People who succeed have momentum. The more they succeed, the more they want to succeed, and the more they find a way to succeed. Similarly, when someone is failing, the tendency is to get on a downward spiral that can even become a self-fulfilling prophecy.” Tony Robbins

4. “When I dare to be powerful – to use my strength in the service of my vision, then it becomes less and less important whether I am afraid.” Audre Lorde

5. “Whenever you find yourself on the side of the majority, it is time to pause and reflect.” Mark Twain

6. “Great minds discuss ideas; average minds discuss events; small minds discuss people.” Eleanor Roosevelt

7. “I have not failed. I’ve just found 10,000 ways that won’t work.” Thomas A. Edison

8. “If you don’t value your time, neither will others. Stop giving away your time and talents. Value what you know & start charging for it.” Kim Garst

9. “A successful man is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks others have thrown at him.” David Brinkley

10. “Here’s to the crazy ones. The misfits. The rebels. The troublemakers. The round pegs in the square holes. The ones who see things differently. They’re not fond of rules. And they have no respect for the status quo. You can quote them, disagree with them, glorify or vilify them. About the only thing you can’t do is ignore them. Because they change things. They push the human race forward. And while some may see them as the crazy ones, we see genius. Because the people who are crazy enough to think they can change the world, are the ones who do.” Steve Jobs

11. “No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.” Eleanor Roosevelt

12. “Let him who would enjoy a good future waste none of his present.” Roger Babson

13. “Live as if you were to die tomorrow. Learn as if you were to live forever.” Mahatma Gandhi
14. “Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn’t do than by the ones you did do.” Mark Twain

15. “The difference between a successful person and others is not a lack of strength, not a lack of knowledge, but rather a lack of will.” Vince Lombardi

16. “Success is about creating benefit for all and enjoying the process. If you focus on this & adopt this definition, success is yours.” Kelly Kim

17. “I used to want the words ‘She tried’ on my tombstone. Now I want ‘She did it.'” Katherine Dunham

18. “Really it comes down to your philosophy. Do you want to play it safe and be good or do you want to take a chance and be great?” Jimmy J

19. “It is our choices, that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.” J. K Rowling

20. “You have to learn the rules of the game. And then you have to play better than anyone else.” Albert Einstein

After many years of struggling and being down more days then not I have realized the secret which has turned my life around and this might be worth you giving a try as well, in the past everything seemed to go wrong for me in so many ways. I was not a happy child living in abuse, then after a 20 year abusive marriage I suddenly found myself abandoned by my high school sweetheart, my ex decided she wanted to be single again she did not even have the decency to discuss this with me or tell me to my face she was moving on without me. One day I came home to a empty home, I mean empty she was gone and most of what we owned so I was all alone and starting over out of no choice of my own.

It has taken me more years then I wish to share to finally find the secret to happiness and being content with my life, finally one day after years of being depressed and negative I decided I am going to take control of my life instead of the negative things taking control of me. I started by researching self-improvement resources, what turned my life around was not so difficult to figure out but much harder to do. I started catching my negative thoughts and actions, stopped and focused on the positive side of every situation. After many months this started to become more natural for me, now many years later I see the positive things in my life much more then the negative things without even having to think about it. Oh I still am hit with many obstacles in my life even today, actually probably more now then ever but I can overcome them much quicker by just being more positive and dwelling less on them.

I truly urge you to give this system a try, it will not be easy at first for you by any means. As people most of us just seem to more naturally dwell on the negative things life throws at us, but once you program yourself to be more positive you will be amazed at how much happier and content you will be with your own life.

Have Faith In Yourself And Amazing Things Will Happen In Your Life In The Near Future.