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I'll do good deeds like changing your tire...and for twenty bucks I'll even tighten the lug nuts.

If I find a lost wallet, I promise to drop it in a mailbox after taking only half of the money.

I'll pray for the godless heathens....but I'm not sure who or what to pray to since I'm a godless heathen.

I'd climb the highest mountain and swim the widest river...to get on the Maury Povich show.

If I ever get superpowers, I promise to use them for good and to fight for truth, justice...ah who am I kidding, I'm gonna use them to get laid.

I'll gladly trade my proverbial fifteen minutes of fame for a three minute rub-and-tug at a 'Palm' Beach massage parlor.
*Nods to Robert Kraft*

How do you respect somebody who does not respect themselves; therefore, making it likely they do not respect others.

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My first suspicion, ...help them past that harsh self-inner voice would be a good start. As just read about...this voice is most likely developed from childhood and is most likely not even relevant in adulthood...but it is still something that needs to be addressed in adulthood.


It is a vicious cycle...one feeding the other....making things internally darker in the suffering mind.

By the way...this is a real experience I am tending with as I type this. It is emotionally painful....especially when it is a person that is very close. Something tells me...a lot of this is going on given the recent climate of society and Covid.

.......... happy birthday jarred

Today we are destroying the nature, tomorrow nature will destroy us. Mother-Nature can go to any extent to maintain the balance. When a species becomes more developed and strong and creates havoc on other species, then sooner or later mother-nature will definitely make balance. Like the dinosaurs were destroyed.

One beautiful Monday morning, I stepped out in front of my door and noticed a mad man standing right in front of my door step,he bent down, wrote “W”, and asked me what he wrote. At this point, I was already feeling ashamed, getting involved in a lengthy conversation with him. In a hurry to leave, I said “w”, but I was amazed when he replied to my answer, “You only see 'W', because of the angle at which you are looking at it. If you turn upside down, you'll see “M”; from the right side, it is “3”, and from the left side, it is “E”.

The fact that I don’t see things at the perspective that everyone is seeing it doesn’t make me a mad man, he said. Then he left.

I pondered for so long about this though; and more, its application to life. We act, and relate to people, based on the perspective at which we are looking at their situation. Have you taken your time to look at other possible perspectives, views and angles, maybe, a little from their own view before we judge them? I then decided that, before I get angry with, or act against, or judge, anyone that has done something unfavourable to me, I will view it in at least three possible perspectives, mine, theirs and others'.

So, before you judge people,
before you rage your anger on them,
take a little time to view their angle or perspective, and,
if you still cannot see a reasonable reason,
then you may act REASONABLY .
Have a great week

When any emotion inside us becomes intense due to some reason and becomes out of control, then our ability to understand right or wrong gets affected. At that time only things that are favorable to that emotion, seems right.

Well, no emotions (feelings) are bad itself. Every emotion (feeling) has its own importance in life. As long as they are in control, they are good and useful; when they are out of control, they are bad and harmful.

How much do most of us want to hear these words said to us?

What will you do, to achieve this?

If GOD give you a chance to go in past to correct your mistakes, then which mistake will you correct?

Life is full of difficulties and opportunities.
If we always keep grieving instead of fighting with problems, we will lose many opportunities in our lives.
Instead of regretting what you have not got, be happy and progress in what you have got.

I understood these lessions very late.
I have made a lot of mistakes because of this ignorance.
So,
If GOD give me a chance to go in my past, I will teach these lessions to myself in beginning (in childhood).

but too kind to do that...
when they f*cked up, put you in a very difficult situation and you have to clean up their mess...
'can only silently scream, f--k! f--k!! f--k!!! f--k!!!!

Is it possible to change the basic nature of feelings with repeated practice?
For example:
The nature of anger is to harm others. Can this temper of anger be changed?
Is hurting someone in anger a habit or a nature?