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Ashlander....tribute
Oh, you mysterious maiden.
You make a man know that
He is known..
I suspect that you've made
Many things in the realm
Of your spirit
Perhaps the knowledge of
Your heart must be relegated
To the Stars in this world
But your spirit is a golden
Thread bonded by an
Eternal clock
It's three thirty where I live
But the magic in your eyes
Is twelve midnight.
Cafe
To the sweetheart I know
as Ashlander..
You make a man know that
He is known..
I suspect that you've made
Many things in the realm
Of your spirit
Perhaps the knowledge of
Your heart must be relegated
To the Stars in this world
But your spirit is a golden
Thread bonded by an
Eternal clock
It's three thirty where I live
But the magic in your eyes
Is twelve midnight.
Cafe
To the sweetheart I know
as Ashlander..
online today!
When Paul became Paula...
I was hired to work as a draftsman for a cabinet manufacturer around 1977. This was right after a housing market slump. The company downsized to survive and the factory manager was doing the drafting by himself. Having me onboard allowed them to process more orders. Business picked up and within 2 years, there was enough work for another draftsman.
Enter Paul... who had worked for the company many years before. He left to start a family business that ultimately failed. When asked to return, he was pleased and accepted the offer. I was in my 20's and Paul was in his late 50's. He already knew the owners and upper management and I was warned about his temper. For the most part, there was no conflict between us, we each did our work and had a supervisor who processed the orders for us to work on.
Somewhere into my second year, I was promoted to assistant processing manager. That meant I was the person checking Paul's work... that's when I found out about the temper he had! He was conscientious about his work, but when I found mistake or decided to have him revise something he 'flew off the handle' as they say and there was always some confrontation needing a reason for the change. He was paid hourly, so it wasn't like I was asking him to redo something for free.
Paul was a tall slender man, divorced, kids, previous military experience and lots of tattoos on his arms. There wasn't anything wishy-washy about the guy but rumor was he was a weekend drag-queen at a gay nightclub and actually got paid to perform.
The factory manager knew Paul for many years... he was the rumor monger and it appeared he had nothing better to do in his life but to share things Paul told him in confidence and tell others. The story I heard was Paul lived his life as a man but was never comfortable in doing so. After going for some medical testing (to find a reason for his dilemma) they found (in addition to his working male parts) he was born with an ovary. That must have been the deciding factor for Paul to begin hormone shots as the first phase of the transition to be a woman!
Paul was wearing men's clothing but it became apparent he was sprouting breasts.
Nik-Nik shirts were in fashion and people in the office were gossiping about it. Soon after, Paul began treatments to remove tattoos and had to have his arms bandaged to avoid infection. After the tattoo removal came electrology treatments to remove facial hair. He would avoid shaving for a few days so the could see each follicle and treatments were only a few square inches at a time. That must have been a few weeks of hair removal sessions.
All of this was really superficial and the more serious changes were to come later.
Paul had the first surgery as in castration. I believe he took a vacation and went to Mexico for the procedure. From what I've read, many transsexuals don't get to that point. They take the shots, medicines or have breast implants and call themselves women! After the first surgery, he took another vacation for the second surgery where they removed his p*nis and used the skin to create a va*ina. He returned from Mexico, but had complications with bleeding and had to be hospitalized in Miami.
By then, Paul had the documents to legally have have his gender changed. This involved banking, drivers license, voter's registration.
One Monday morning, I arrived to the office and saw a purse on his desk. It was done. Paul had transformed into Paula. Women's clothing and mascara.
The amazing part of the whole episode was Paula had become the nicest person to deal with. It was though all the little things that annoyed Paul, didn't bother Paula.
Probably part of her therapy, Paula started to openly discuss the transformation, psychological adjustments as well as phasing out the memories of being Paul for the first chapter of her life. The part that mortified everyone was when the factory manager asked to be the first to 'bang her' when all the parts had healed.
Enter Paul... who had worked for the company many years before. He left to start a family business that ultimately failed. When asked to return, he was pleased and accepted the offer. I was in my 20's and Paul was in his late 50's. He already knew the owners and upper management and I was warned about his temper. For the most part, there was no conflict between us, we each did our work and had a supervisor who processed the orders for us to work on.
Somewhere into my second year, I was promoted to assistant processing manager. That meant I was the person checking Paul's work... that's when I found out about the temper he had! He was conscientious about his work, but when I found mistake or decided to have him revise something he 'flew off the handle' as they say and there was always some confrontation needing a reason for the change. He was paid hourly, so it wasn't like I was asking him to redo something for free.
Paul was a tall slender man, divorced, kids, previous military experience and lots of tattoos on his arms. There wasn't anything wishy-washy about the guy but rumor was he was a weekend drag-queen at a gay nightclub and actually got paid to perform.
The factory manager knew Paul for many years... he was the rumor monger and it appeared he had nothing better to do in his life but to share things Paul told him in confidence and tell others. The story I heard was Paul lived his life as a man but was never comfortable in doing so. After going for some medical testing (to find a reason for his dilemma) they found (in addition to his working male parts) he was born with an ovary. That must have been the deciding factor for Paul to begin hormone shots as the first phase of the transition to be a woman!
Paul was wearing men's clothing but it became apparent he was sprouting breasts.
Nik-Nik shirts were in fashion and people in the office were gossiping about it. Soon after, Paul began treatments to remove tattoos and had to have his arms bandaged to avoid infection. After the tattoo removal came electrology treatments to remove facial hair. He would avoid shaving for a few days so the could see each follicle and treatments were only a few square inches at a time. That must have been a few weeks of hair removal sessions.
All of this was really superficial and the more serious changes were to come later.
Paul had the first surgery as in castration. I believe he took a vacation and went to Mexico for the procedure. From what I've read, many transsexuals don't get to that point. They take the shots, medicines or have breast implants and call themselves women! After the first surgery, he took another vacation for the second surgery where they removed his p*nis and used the skin to create a va*ina. He returned from Mexico, but had complications with bleeding and had to be hospitalized in Miami.
By then, Paul had the documents to legally have have his gender changed. This involved banking, drivers license, voter's registration.
One Monday morning, I arrived to the office and saw a purse on his desk. It was done. Paul had transformed into Paula. Women's clothing and mascara.
The amazing part of the whole episode was Paula had become the nicest person to deal with. It was though all the little things that annoyed Paul, didn't bother Paula.
Probably part of her therapy, Paula started to openly discuss the transformation, psychological adjustments as well as phasing out the memories of being Paul for the first chapter of her life. The part that mortified everyone was when the factory manager asked to be the first to 'bang her' when all the parts had healed.
Alberta Ninja's
Ladies from Alberta, Canada are sneakily dropping off gifts from small to big to others in our province who are experiencing lonlieness days or otherwise:
I am proud to be a part of this
I hope it spreads to everywhere!
Spread it around
Its awesome
No clue what category to put this in....so here it is
I am proud to be a part of this
I hope it spreads to everywhere!
Spread it around
Its awesome
No clue what category to put this in....so here it is
Likes and Viewed me
What I get irritated about.....MOST.......I'm talking to men about women.....This site has a section.....Likes.....Viewed me.....Favored me.... When I first started this site , the above sections, I really enjoyed but after a few months on here...Not so much.....Now I am mostly irritated.....Its the women that have no photos, search anonymously and hide yourself so we can not see who you are when you like us or favor us......Me and a lot of other men on here automatically delete your post...When we get the site box that states that you could be hidden, site deleted or no longer on CS....I get 5 or 6 of these a day....I automatically delete those to, I don't even look at it......I really feel sorry for you....You are a voyeur instead of a participant...If there were a way of blocking your post I would... BUT to all those ladies that go the extra mile looking for love on here...I appreciate each and every one you...Good luck....To all those that hide them selves behind anonymity.....Get a life ......2foot2...
Youth and maturity
Youth and maturity sat down on a bench …
Youth told: You will be able to live as I.
The maturity answered: Beauty is not eternal,
Learn to share beauty warm.
Youth, with a sneer: What in you it?
House, family, work … Boring fetters.
The maturity smiled as if to the younger daughter:
Without fetters family people of the single.
Youth went on: "Everything in me is fine,
It is young, free, and is beautiful, clearly?
The maturity answered: I am wiser than you,
And with you, the baby, I will not dare to argue …
Mature, you learn, happiness not in freedom,
Not in night festivities, not in the Parisian fashion.
Youth laughed: Nonsenses all this,
Time not in this happiness, means happiness is not present.
The maturity answered: No, it happens,
If the sky allows to live with darling,
If laughter of kids is heard from the house.
You with happiness, a crumb, are unfamiliar.
Youth asked: If truth it,
What at the nights do you cry and about what secrets?
I pay at the nights, the maturity said:
Because did not appreciate it earlier …
APPRECIATION......For ALL of Them
To ALL of you who are Mothers or will be: It is one of the most important jobs in this world...YOU ARE IMPORTANT PEOPLE!
Never forget how much you do or have done to shape this world! On Mother's Day....wishing you a day of gladness with appreciation from those who love you....hoping you find some quiet moments tomorow filled with whatever makes you happy!: 
kissssss
women i am waiting for kiss , touch your sweet lips with my lips and make me crazy . i want your lips in my lips softly ..
I still miss you guys...
Ive always thought Im not the kind of person that actually needs people around to be ok... but I have been feeling that something is missing...
And what could that be? I love my life... Im married to the man of my dreams...I have a wonderful kid...they do love each other and me :D
But yes...I do feel lonely... I havent had an honest conversation with someone I care -besides hubby and kid- about life and random stuff...
I miss my friends people... thats what is missing...
The girls!... friends for over 20 years now... shared and lived so much together...
Damn I miss those women.
I wanna go out for some drinks...talk about life... tell them I miss them and that despite my happiness... I need them...
But I cant do anything about that, and that feels like a bit of claustrophobia, so to speak.
Just I know I cant do much about that...except waiting until next time I can jump on a plane with family and wohoo!!!
Sighs...
Life abroad and so so far ....its not easy huh...
Anyways,just ranting.
Must be my sunday mood.
Adios
And what could that be? I love my life... Im married to the man of my dreams...I have a wonderful kid...they do love each other and me :D
But yes...I do feel lonely... I havent had an honest conversation with someone I care -besides hubby and kid- about life and random stuff...
I miss my friends people... thats what is missing...
The girls!... friends for over 20 years now... shared and lived so much together...
Damn I miss those women.
I wanna go out for some drinks...talk about life... tell them I miss them and that despite my happiness... I need them...
But I cant do anything about that, and that feels like a bit of claustrophobia, so to speak.
Just I know I cant do much about that...except waiting until next time I can jump on a plane with family and wohoo!!!
Sighs...
Life abroad and so so far ....its not easy huh...
Anyways,just ranting.
Must be my sunday mood.
Adios
ladies be afraid ...very afraid
I'm not sure if this will be posted. Tonight I was the victim of connecting singles abuse. A person I gave my photo and phone no and where I worked has created a profile on here...
They created a very suggestive and rude profile with all my personal details. Connecting singles have got numerous reports about this profile and it hasn't been taken down. Get off this site..its not safe. I'm a regular person..i have kids whom I adore. This has frightened the life outta me. My community..my work colleagues could see a pic I sent privately to a member on here. It could happen to you. If connecting singles dealt wit it within an hour ..fine. But I got the most disgusting txt messages...this could be you. Get off this site. Its a free site. Get of it..thats my advice. I've been lucky some nice people have reported the abuse for me...many people but that disgusting profile is still there. Connecting singles is not monitored enough. Get of her ladies
They created a very suggestive and rude profile with all my personal details. Connecting singles have got numerous reports about this profile and it hasn't been taken down. Get off this site..its not safe. I'm a regular person..i have kids whom I adore. This has frightened the life outta me. My community..my work colleagues could see a pic I sent privately to a member on here. It could happen to you. If connecting singles dealt wit it within an hour ..fine. But I got the most disgusting txt messages...this could be you. Get off this site. Its a free site. Get of it..thats my advice. I've been lucky some nice people have reported the abuse for me...many people but that disgusting profile is still there. Connecting singles is not monitored enough. Get of her ladies
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