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not to add a sad news, but firstly , I would love to big up all my past friendzez in here from long time and new comers and also my self for being back.

SOME TIME LAST YEAR I MET A GUY ON FB, WE SPOKE OFF LINE. AND HE IS INTRODUCING o*al SEX TO me, Which is probly no big deal to most of you, but honestly it CRACK ME UP. I am not into that ,and I sort of like him.
l TRIED TO PUT my mine to it but I cant, so I let him know and he said no problem , I don't have to , he will.
QUESTION?

if he love it , wouldn't he be doing it to other girls since I don't want to?
TO MAKE MATTERS WORST... HE POSES A PIC ON FACABOOK OF A YOUNG GIRL SAYING: SAYING THAT SHE SUCK HIM, AND THAT SHE IS NAUGHTY, A NOTHER, NUDE PIC OF A GIRK
L SAYING SHE IS A PROSTITUTE.( I GESS I ANSWER MY SELF)

anyway, he ask me to kiss him , I say no, why? because I consider his mouth naughty and I could imagine him o*al sexing at the moment he ask.
question.

do you think he maybe offended by this?

on the other hand, he had a young baby age : 3 months, he said that , his child mother arnt together again.
Question?
do YOU see it possible for a man to BE out of a tender relationship , having a young child, and dating another girl , saying that he is not togather with his child mother. WHY? I ASK, he said: let us not go there.
could he BE a real good guy as he is trying to express? NO WAY!

Whenever you get bad news, maybe your job is going phut, maybe your health just took a serious dip, or there’s bad news about a family member or loved friend –

Because this is a singles website, make it that the love of your life met someone else, and it is serious. These stages ALWAYS apply, to every big change – not always in order, sometimes revisiting - but the last one is the biggie, the hardest of all, the most important.

Denial – You can’t be serious, we have history, we’re been happy, we have good times still. This is a phase. We’ll work through it.


Anger – what were you thinking?? there’s no such thing as innocent fun! You’re in a relationship, you don’t flirt or mess about with anyone else, this is all YOUR fault. I want to kill you!


Bargaining – okay, okay, you think this person’s special, give us one more try. I’ll change. Give us 3 months, what difference can that make in your life? You owe it to US to try, not just throw away everything we had for someone you just met


Depression – oh fine. I don’t care. There’s no point even trying to talk to you. I just want to die.


Acceptance – it ended, okay. Ouch. Joining a singles website is a first step towards moving on, good for you! Your bliss may not be with someone here, but it is nowhere until you accept that the door closed – and move on.

Anyone got some acceptance advice?

Please am 34 years old working in Health management am single looking for cute and caring wih self confidence babe that we care start new life together either with kid or not because i love kids .can anyone here help me out??

Well have only chatted with one person in my area he didn't seem to appreciate my views on a subject and no longer wants to chat its a shame as I thought we could b good friends

Got some intelligent comments on the Which blog so thought you might be interested in the update, as at last night (this is hot off the press, people)

So, my friend told her husband they had to talk, and they did. He said he wants to try to sort things, and has offered a date night every week, just the 2 of them, no business, no family talk, just dress up and go out for dinner and concentrate on each other.

He said he'll buy her a top-of-the-range battery toy (the man has a sense of humour) for when he is just too tired. Or they can play with it together. Nervous giggles from both.

At worst, if they can't patch it, they've both committed to try marriage counselling before calling it quits. But no more lovers.

The lover can lump it. He threatened if she didn't move in, there's someone else after him! Enjoy her, lover boy.

Promises, promises. But hey, wish them luck

Wana Kiss

Joy is within your reach, go grab some!

We all want to feel happy, and each one of us has different ways of getting there. Here are 10 steps you can take to increase your joie de vivre and bring more happiness into your life:

1. Be with others who make you smile. Studies show that we are happiest when we are around those who are also happy. Stick with those who are joyful and let rub off on you.

2. Hold on to your values. What you find true, what you know is fair, and what you believe in are all values. Over time, the more you honor them, the better you will feel about yourself and those you love.

3. Accept the good. Look at your life and take stock of what’s working, and don’t push away something just because it isn’t perfect. When good things happen, even the very little ones, let them in.

4. Imagine the best. Don’t be afraid to look at what you really want and see yourself getting it. Many people avoid this process because they don’t want to be disappointed if things don’t work out. The truth is that imagining getting what you want is a big part of achieving it.

5. Do things you love. Maybe you can’t skydive every day or take vacations every season, but as long as you get to do the things you love every once in a while, you will find greater happiness.

6. Find purpose. Those who believe they are contributing to the well-being of humanity tend to feel better about their lives. Most people want to be part of something greater than they are, simply because it’s fulfilling.

7. Listen to your heart. You are the only one who knows what fills you up. Your family and friends may think you’d be great at something that really doesn’t float your boat. It can be complicated following your bliss. Just be smart, and keep your day job for the time being.

8. Push yourself, not others. It’s easy to feel that someone else is responsible for your fulfillment, but the reality is that it is really your charge. Once you realize that, you have the power to get where you want to go. Stop blaming others or the world, and you’ll find your answers much sooner.

9. Be open to change. Even if it doesn’t feel good, change is the one thing you can count on. Change will happen, so make contingency plans and emotionally shore yourself up for the experience.

10. Bask in the simple pleasures. Those who love you, treasured memories, silly jokes, warm days, and starry nights—these are the ties that bind and the gifts that keep on giving.

Happiness and fulfillment are within your grasp, but sometimes just out of reach. Understanding what works best for you is the first step in finding more of them.

One hand - marriage has been stuttering along for over 20 years. No thrills, no spills, get on fairly well, the sex is almost non-existent, he's too into his successful well-paid career. Told his wife to go amuse herself, just be discreet and don't rock the boat. So she did.

Other hand - lots of sex but now the lover wants it to be full-time and serious. They get on well, but it would be a huge change in lifestyle.

What to do?

Asking for a friend.

Funny, when someone says they have been invited to dinner somewhere I instantly think delicious food, good company, and I turn green because I wasn't invited.

And when people say they have a party to go to I think fun, laughter, music, everyone having a ball. I try to remember why I stopped going to parties.

So, I went to a party last night. Writers, film directors, photographers, that's why I went. About 30 people there, no-one seemed to know anyone else. It was COLD, clustered round terrace heaters, making conversation. Where are you FROM, what do you DO, oh my that's interesting. (Not so much). Have a slice of this pizza, it's good. Have you tried a falafel? Let me top up your wine. No music, just chattering teeth and the hostess chasing pale blue people out the apartment when they tried to get in out the cold.

What is your idea of a GOOD party?

Love can kill you