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I’ll Never Fall In Love Again.
How many times have you resolved not to fall in love again? And yet, once the wounds have healed, we just fall in love again; time and time again. And when we fall in love, we forget all our good resolutions and break all our own rules.
The strange part of it is that we usually a fall in love with strangers. Let’s face it, we don’t look into the eyes of somebody we have known for years and then suddenly go weak in the knees. It is a stranger that does that to you. If you don’t want to fall in love, avoid meeting or seeing strangers. But then there is probably a built in cut out switch somewhere to allow you to fall in love with a known person in the absence of strangers.
A man and a woman who have known each other for years will not fall in love with each other, even though they may be a perfect match. However, it may happen that they can come to their senses and decide to throw their lot together. Given some time, they will grow to love each other and spend a lifetime in happiness but that was not falling in love. It is a cultivated love brought about by a logic decision and probably has the best chance of success.
I think falling in love is a primitive breeding instinct to ensure the survival of the human species. And it is built into our genes to fall in love with strangers to diversify our genetic material. Inbreeding had never been good for any genetic pool.
Have a great day and I hope you meet many strangers. One of them may just be the one you've been waiting for.
The strange part of it is that we usually a fall in love with strangers. Let’s face it, we don’t look into the eyes of somebody we have known for years and then suddenly go weak in the knees. It is a stranger that does that to you. If you don’t want to fall in love, avoid meeting or seeing strangers. But then there is probably a built in cut out switch somewhere to allow you to fall in love with a known person in the absence of strangers.
A man and a woman who have known each other for years will not fall in love with each other, even though they may be a perfect match. However, it may happen that they can come to their senses and decide to throw their lot together. Given some time, they will grow to love each other and spend a lifetime in happiness but that was not falling in love. It is a cultivated love brought about by a logic decision and probably has the best chance of success.
I think falling in love is a primitive breeding instinct to ensure the survival of the human species. And it is built into our genes to fall in love with strangers to diversify our genetic material. Inbreeding had never been good for any genetic pool.
Have a great day and I hope you meet many strangers. One of them may just be the one you've been waiting for.
wrong
when u hang out with someone and all thay do is talk with outher guys on the phone and thay start drama and u get the blame for it its just wrong that person say thay dont do drama but thay start the drama and thay get mad at u.thay call u everyday and tell u thay miss u and thing about u all the time then thay pull this crap.that tills me thay just playing games and has no hart or feeling at all
Live Today!
Activated Vol. 16 Issue 1 Thursday, 01 January 2015
Someone has said that today is a marvel of opportunity, crucified between two thieves, yesterday and tomorrow! Today, this very day, is one of the most wonderfully precious things you will ever have.
You can have faith for almost anything if you’ll take it a day at a time. God’s Word says, “As your day, so shall your strength be.”1 Every morning, look up and put your hand in the hand of Jesus and say, “This day I will trust You; this day I will, with Your help, walk step by step by Your side, and You will keep me in perfect peace today.”
Today you can do some of the things that you’ve been putting off for so long. You can’t do them yesterday and may not have the chance to do them tomorrow, but today is yours! Today you can be the kind of person you always dreamed you’d be “tomorrow.”
Your yesterdays are left with God, and none of their disappointments should be dragged into this day. Tomorrow is still unborn and you shouldn’t borrow from it. Today is filled with golden opportunities and pregnant with great possibilities! This is the golden tomorrow that you dreamed about yesterday.—Virginia Brandt Berg (1886–1968)
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Make the choice to embrace this day. Do not let your TODAY be stolen by the ghost of yesterday or the To-Do list of tomorrow! It’s inspiring to see all the wonderfully amazing things that can happen in a day in which you participate.—Steve Maraboli (b. 1975)
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Yesterday is gone. Tomorrow has not yet come. We have only today. Let us begin.—Mother Teresa (1910–1997)
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Every second is of infinite value.—Johann Wolfgang von Goethe (1749–1832)
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One of the most tragic things I know about human nature is that all of us tend to put off living. We are all dreaming of some magical rose garden over the horizon—instead of enjoying the roses that are blooming outside our windows today.—Dale Carnegie (1888–1955)
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At the end of your life, you will never regret not having passed one more test, not winning one more verdict, or not closing one more deal. You will regret time not spent with a husband, a friend, a child, or a parent.—Barbara Bush (b. 1925)
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Resolve to make at least one person happy every day, and then in ten years you may have made 3,650 persons happy, or brightened a small town by your contribution to the fund of general enjoyment.—Sydney Smith (1771–1845)
1. Deuteronomy 33:25
Activated TFI
First last kiss....
How many of you out there is looking for the first last kiss? How many of you are willing to spend the rest of your life with that special someone. In this day and age, cheating is so common, people prefer to cheat rather than to commit to one person. My first, last kiss is somewhere out there and when i find her, I will treat her with respect, i will love her unconditionally, i will be everything she's looking for. 
mark on our relationships.......
online
enables us to connect with many more people, from all walks of life, than we might normally meet in a normal working or no working hours....
Given the informal nature of online friendship it’s easy to approach someone you would like to meet, and this can be done more easily and influence also enlarge it to include people you had like to meet, or would like to know better. This means that influence will beget more influence.
with others online that we begin to think that these relationships are more intense, more committed and more complete than they really are... means you need to make certain that you’re investing in the right balance of online and offline relationships for a good success....
too much personal
can become self-focused: I refer this as the “spotlight” stage, in which an adolescent lives life with the assumption that they are the center of attention and that all eyes are on them. This magnetized way of thinking can be harmful in the long run, because when the spotlight is on you- everything becomes an ordeal. The good news is – all of us eventually outgrow the spotlight mentality. But the bad news is that it seems to be ushering us into the world of self-centeredness...
no...
matter how we try to replicate it, there is nothing more powerful than real life connections. Sometimes, we just need someone with skin to give us a smile, wrap their arms around us, or hold our hand in theirs. In real life, we are forced to practice the skills of real human contact- from the influence of eye contact, to the tenderness of a human embrace. Real life interactions have the potential of exuding a powerful warmth that is so easy to forget when hiding behind the walls of the online world. ( Jesus Himself remembered the significance of this warmth as he touched the lepers, looked into the eyes of sinners, and embraced His friends. He connected with people in a real way and He calls us to replicate His warmth as we engage the world around us.) we get so caught up in the digital that we forget the power of the physical.
one fine day....i saw
a person walking some what near me started just yelling out his every thought, feeling and i turned around to watch ...so are the others around that place, in surprise and shock, Within few minutes he came in attention in actual life, this sounds so strange, yet this is what we are encouraged to do everyday online.
and another time...
I was doing some shopping with my two female friend's couple of weeks, back when a sweet looking man in his early 50's looked over at us, smiled and winked. As tiny as that gesture may have been, there was something about it that was so real.(real cool and charming) his authentic warm smile cheerful look connected us to our heart....
nothing like
potential impacts it may have on real life interactions....
to live a life that says no to vanity and conceit, but instead to humbly consider others as more important than ourselves. Jesus, who was by far the best example of relational etiquette, lived a life that put others first. I wonder why not online ?????
to interact with grace, wisdom, kindness, and humility whether online or off,line ....is by far the best and beautiful in my opinion...( though i can go on and on ...blah blah blah
but my friend
likes only short and sweet
enables us to connect with many more people, from all walks of life, than we might normally meet in a normal working or no working hours....
Given the informal nature of online friendship it’s easy to approach someone you would like to meet, and this can be done more easily and influence also enlarge it to include people you had like to meet, or would like to know better. This means that influence will beget more influence.
with others online that we begin to think that these relationships are more intense, more committed and more complete than they really are... means you need to make certain that you’re investing in the right balance of online and offline relationships for a good success....
too much personal
can become self-focused: I refer this as the “spotlight” stage, in which an adolescent lives life with the assumption that they are the center of attention and that all eyes are on them. This magnetized way of thinking can be harmful in the long run, because when the spotlight is on you- everything becomes an ordeal. The good news is – all of us eventually outgrow the spotlight mentality. But the bad news is that it seems to be ushering us into the world of self-centeredness...
no...
matter how we try to replicate it, there is nothing more powerful than real life connections. Sometimes, we just need someone with skin to give us a smile, wrap their arms around us, or hold our hand in theirs. In real life, we are forced to practice the skills of real human contact- from the influence of eye contact, to the tenderness of a human embrace. Real life interactions have the potential of exuding a powerful warmth that is so easy to forget when hiding behind the walls of the online world. ( Jesus Himself remembered the significance of this warmth as he touched the lepers, looked into the eyes of sinners, and embraced His friends. He connected with people in a real way and He calls us to replicate His warmth as we engage the world around us.) we get so caught up in the digital that we forget the power of the physical.
one fine day....i saw
a person walking some what near me started just yelling out his every thought, feeling and i turned around to watch ...so are the others around that place, in surprise and shock, Within few minutes he came in attention in actual life, this sounds so strange, yet this is what we are encouraged to do everyday online.
and another time...
I was doing some shopping with my two female friend's couple of weeks, back when a sweet looking man in his early 50's looked over at us, smiled and winked. As tiny as that gesture may have been, there was something about it that was so real.(real cool and charming) his authentic warm smile cheerful look connected us to our heart....
nothing like
potential impacts it may have on real life interactions....
to live a life that says no to vanity and conceit, but instead to humbly consider others as more important than ourselves. Jesus, who was by far the best example of relational etiquette, lived a life that put others first. I wonder why not online ?????
to interact with grace, wisdom, kindness, and humility whether online or off,line ....is by far the best and beautiful in my opinion...( though i can go on and on ...blah blah blah
but my friend
likes only short and sweet 
me
I'm new to blog so just came to say hello. I don't think my profile is the greatest and I know I'm older but I still am actually pretty young and can keep up with younger people. Its hard being single after a 42 year marriage. I miss companionship. I have had some contacts but no one from my area. I hope to here from someone nearer than an ocean away. OK enough rambling. So hello
Why can not people be true ?
Like when posting pictures It seems always happen they post a young picture; Not up to-date. That to me is deceiving us who are looking for love. Also when I tell a woman what I like she says yes to everything likes too but then when I ask when can we meet they run like a scared cat. WHY is that ? Its like only 2% are real & the rest are mind game players.
Happy Birthday !!!
Happy Birthday to my best, one and only CS friend Ravensgold !
Wishing you all the best and be happy!
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