Is it really as hard as it seems to find a woman to treat like a queen without there being any issues that are nothing more than trivial? Distance is always the big one. I know not everyone can just pick up and move because of good jobs, loss of state pensions and fear of moving and thinking what if this is a mistake?
Also being on the cutting edge of offending people and being blocked when showing interest, I have become very gun shy.
I am to the point of not knowing what the next step should be... Do I write a list of women I am interested in and posting it publicly? I am always good at lists.
Do I tend to be a little to comical to take serious? Does no one know how to take me?
Am I just a kind of guy every woman wants as a friend?
OK, enough babbling.... I only wrote this for myself and I am deleting it now....
Damn, I hit the wrong button, not the world is seeing it.... the shame, the embarrassment..... now i have to delete my profile because of the humiliation.
Zee
This is for everyone who feels this way but can't come out and write it.
RobbieMHertford, Hertfordshire, England UK4,553 posts
zee1ander: you are probably asking yourself "What is New?"
well, nothing.
Is it really as hard as it seems to find a woman to treat like a queen without there being any issues that are nothing more than trivial? Distance is always the big one. I know not everyone can just pick up and move because of good jobs, loss of state pensions and fear of moving and thinking what if this is a mistake?
Also being on the cutting edge of offending people and being blocked when showing interest, I have become very gun shy.
I am to the point of not knowing what the next step should be... Do I write a list of women I am interested in and posting it publicly? I am always good at lists.
Do I tend to be a little to comical to take serious? Does no one know how to take me?
Am I just a kind of guy every woman wants as a friend?
OK, enough babbling.... I only wrote this for myself and I am deleting it now....Damn, I hit the wrong button, not the world is seeing it.... the shame, the embarrassment..... now i have to delete my profile because of the humiliation.
ZeeThis is for everyone who feels this way but can't come out and write it.
Thank you
Maybe alcoholism, glue sniffing or something similar may help
tainogirlTrincity,West Indies,, Trinidad and Tobago3,777 posts
zee1ander: you are probably asking yourself "What is New?"
well, nothing.
Is it really as hard as it seems to find a woman to treat like a queen without there being any issues that are nothing more than trivial? Distance is always the big one. I know not everyone can just pick up and move because of good jobs, loss of state pensions and fear of moving and thinking what if this is a mistake?
Also being on the cutting edge of offending people and being blocked when showing interest, I have become very gun shy.
I am to the point of not knowing what the next step should be... Do I write a list of women I am interested in and posting it publicly? I am always good at lists.
Do I tend to be a little to comical to take serious? Does no one know how to take me?
Am I just a kind of guy every woman wants as a friend?
OK, enough babbling.... I only wrote this for myself and I am deleting it now....Damn, I hit the wrong button, not the world is seeing it.... the shame, the embarrassment..... now i have to delete my profile because of the humiliation.
ZeeThis is for everyone who feels this way but can't come out and write it.
zee1ander: you are probably asking yourself "What is New?"
well, nothing.
Is it really as hard as it seems to find a woman to treat like a queen without there being any issues that are nothing more than trivial? Distance is always the big one. I know not everyone can just pick up and move because of good jobs, loss of state pensions and fear of moving and thinking what if this is a mistake?
Also being on the cutting edge of offending people and being blocked when showing interest, I have become very gun shy.
I am to the point of not knowing what the next step should be... Do I write a list of women I am interested in and posting it publicly? I am always good at lists.
Do I tend to be a little to comical to take serious? Does no one know how to take me?
Am I just a kind of guy every woman wants as a friend?
OK, enough babbling.... I only wrote this for myself and I am deleting it now....Damn, I hit the wrong button, not the world is seeing it.... the shame, the embarrassment..... now i have to delete my profile because of the humiliation.
ZeeThis is for everyone who feels this way but can't come out and write it.
Thank you
I was like you, once (only taller) and got so discouraged that I quit looking all together. It was then that I finally found the one who was looking for me.
Kinda' like looking for a woodworking or gunsmithing tool that I've misplaced; When I quit obsessing over finding it, it usually turns up in short order.
...Doesn't always work for everyone, but it sure worked for me!
(There's pretty gals, big fish and beautiful scenery in East Tennessee - come on down and take a look!)
Hi Don! Haven't seen you around in a while....how's that beautiful bride of yours? Hope everything is going well with you 2 -- such an inspiration.
Zee -- the right girl for you may be waiting for you to make the first move - and be serious....I have to admit I think you're quite comical sometimes and I didn't take your post serious the other day when you re-wrote your profile. I apologize for that. I do wish you the best in finding her.
Charli15695: Hi Don! Haven't seen you around in a while....how's that beautiful bride of yours? Hope everything is going well with you 2 -- such an inspiration.
Zee -- the right girl for you may be waiting for you to make the first move - and be serious....I have to admit I think you're quite comical sometimes and I didn't take your post serious the other day when you re-wrote your profile. I apologize for that. I do wish you the best in finding her.
Hiya Charli! She's doing great and getting prettier every day! And I'll agree with you - She's certainly an inspiration to me! (Anyone who can put up with my tired old butt has GOT to be pretty special!)
Yeah, Zee...distance is definitely a big problem for me, too. I, too, would love to be able to give someone all the love I feel inside and that seems, at times, to be aching to be released. Whine away, Zee...I'll whine with you.
Ah, my buddy Zee...well, if you made the list and posted it, you could be surprised at the response. You could also send a flower to each of them if they're here in forums. A single rose with a special message. Again, you never know what might happen. Life, and love, is all about taking risks and chances. You can't win if you never play, right?
The other thing you can do is accept that when the time is right, it will happen. Let the seeking and wanting it so badly go, because in a way you could be getting in the way by doing that. Give up control and let the Universe take over...the results could surprise you if you do that, too. And in the meantime, focus on loving yourself and having fun here.
Whatever you do, you have my support and a shoulder when you need it, Zee.
tainogirlTrincity,West Indies,, Trinidad and Tobago3,777 posts
druidess6308: Ah, my buddy Zee...well, if you made the list and posted it, you could be surprised at the response. You could also send a flower to each of them if they're here in forums. A single rose with a special message. Again, you never know what might happen. Life, and love, is all about taking risks and chances. You can't win if you never play, right?
The other thing you can do is accept that when the time is right, it will happen. Let the seeking and wanting it so badly go, because in a way you could be getting in the way by doing that. Give up control and let the Universe take over...the results could surprise you if you do that, too. And in the meantime, focus on loving yourself and having fun here.
Whatever you do, you have my support and a shoulder when you need it, Zee.
druidess6308: Ah, my buddy Zee...well, if you made the list and posted it, you could be surprised at the response. You could also send a flower to each of them if they're here in forums. A single rose with a special message. Again, you never know what might happen. Life, and love, is all about taking risks and chances. You can't win if you never play, right?
The other thing you can do is accept that when the time is right, it will happen. Let the seeking and wanting it so badly go, because in a way you could be getting in the way by doing that. Give up control and let the Universe take over...the results could surprise you if you do that, too. And in the meantime, focus on loving yourself and having fun here.
Whatever you do, you have my support and a shoulder when you need it, Zee.
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well, nothing.
Is it really as hard as it seems to find a woman to treat like a queen without there being any issues that are nothing more than trivial? Distance is always the big one. I know not everyone can just pick up and move because of good jobs, loss of state pensions and fear of moving and thinking what if this is a mistake?
Also being on the cutting edge of offending people and being blocked when showing interest, I have become very gun shy.
I am to the point of not knowing what the next step should be... Do I write a list of women I am interested in and posting it publicly? I am always good at lists.
Do I tend to be a little to comical to take serious? Does no one know how to take me?
Am I just a kind of guy every woman wants as a friend?
OK, enough babbling.... I only wrote this for myself and I am deleting it now....
Damn, I hit the wrong button, not the world is seeing it.... the shame, the embarrassment..... now i have to delete my profile because of the humiliation.
Zee
This is for everyone who feels this way but can't come out and write it.
Thank you