venere08: Well, I sent the email, but it didn't allow it to send. Got a message that there was a block. The block was a general one, not directed at me. It said you may have a block for the "country or age group".
Perhaps you might want to send me a test email, as I only have Pakistani due to scores of past scammers, and a few other countries. Apologies to all the nice Pakistani CS'ers on here.
I am off to bed now as it's gone midnight again. Blimey!
Take care, Snuggs.
Venere, I'm going to try to change the settings now.
Snuggs09: Venere, you are so right, that I need to not focus on the problem.
But that's easier said then done. My life is the problem. Would it be easier if I said...no big deal. She dumped me back in 1942. There was a war going on, times were hard, she was illerate, she knew she couldn't take care of me so she ran off to Baltimore.
Or I could say, her brother, who became my stepfather molested me. Not a big deal. I was his tailgate when I was a little girl. He cared about me, he favored me over my sister. He just lost control.
How about this, the man who loved me and left me ... no big deal. It happens every single day. But ya see Venere, I went to high school with him. We graduated in 1960. I never forgot him and when 2005 rolled around....45 years later.... it was a dream come true that I had a chance to be in love with him. So what that he broke my heart, so what that he took all my money, so what that he didn't have the decency to at least say goodbye.
Venere, which one is not as important as the others.
Which one will make me whole. I've never felt a whole person so I probably won't recognize it IF it happened.
I fully appreciate all that, Snuggs.
That's why I suggested you seek other help.
Good professional help, not just here on the forums, where we just sit around and offer our two cents worth, which then either menas you receive sympathy which might be what you partly seek, but don't need., or some very brief bit of serious advice/suggestion, which is way too brief to be of any real benefit.
Get some help, Snuggs, and I say that in the kindest possible way, given that you posted this so bravely, you obviously must be ready to expect all manner of comment.
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Perhaps you might want to send me a test email, as I only have Pakistani due to scores of past scammers, and a few other countries. Apologies to all the nice Pakistani CS'ers on here.
I am off to bed now as it's gone midnight again. Blimey!
Take care, Snuggs.
Venere, I'm going to try to change the settings now.