Too fussy??? (44)
I am pathetically desperate, but nobody wants me..
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AthenzGirl: I keep seeing such wonderful people here... why is it so hard for them to find a soul mate? Ive been contacted (and been the contactee) many many times now since I came here last summer, and still try to understand how is it possible to NOT find someone?
I can only imagine that we are all a bit too fussy... although some people will excuse themselves and say 'I just have high standards'. Maybe there should be an item in the personal descriptions where we can include on a scale of 1 - 10 just how serious we are about dating or finding a partner... 1=casually browsing thru to 10=marriage on my mind.
It is def. true that as we mature we are not so flexible - maybe not prepared to move to a new place,leave family or give up a job etc. Id be really interested to hear what other CSs would be prepared to sacrifice or compromise on if they find/found their love far away.
Ive a couple of friends who did this - a Belgian guy who moved to Texas to be with his now wife... and a Brit friend whose USA wife moved to London for him.
I can only imagine that we are all a bit too fussy... although some people will excuse themselves and say 'I just have high standards'. Maybe there should be an item in the personal descriptions where we can include on a scale of 1 - 10 just how serious we are about dating or finding a partner... 1=casually browsing thru to 10=marriage on my mind.
It is def. true that as we mature we are not so flexible - maybe not prepared to move to a new place,leave family or give up a job etc. Id be really interested to hear what other CSs would be prepared to sacrifice or compromise on if they find/found their love far away.
Ive a couple of friends who did this - a Belgian guy who moved to Texas to be with his now wife... and a Brit friend whose USA wife moved to London for him.
hi ..A..
I have "met" a lot of wonderful folk on here who have caught my eye..but as it says on my profile Im looking only for chat/email..due to my illness it would be unfair to make promises to anyone that I may not be able to keep..i dont know what life has in store for me health wise ..im scared of commitment whilst i have this illness hanging over me but hopefully if and when i beat it then I can get basck in the dating game ....watch out guys ..
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i,m looking for nice women. age 30 to 50. must have boat. please sound picture of boat.
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HJFinAZ: I am pathetically desperate, but nobody wants me..
I dont believe either of those - for 1 minute!!!!
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bettyboop63: hi ..A.. I have "met" a lot of wonderful folk on here who have caught my eye..but as it says on my profile Im looking only for chat/email..due to my illness it would be unfair to make promises to anyone that I may not be able to keep..i dont know what life has in store for me health wise ..im scared of commitment whilst i have this illness hanging over me but hopefully if and when i beat it then I can get basck in the dating game ....watch out guys ..
You will be fine sweetheart - promise
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odessaukraine48: i,m looking for nice women. age 30 to 50. must have boat. please sound picture of boat.
Lol - i like that approach .
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its very easy to get a women in Ukraine. all it takes. is to say i,m an american.
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I am even more desperate than HJ....now that's pathetic!!...
HJFinAZ: I am pathetically desperate, but nobody wants me..
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darren9030: You will be fine sweetheart - promise
i hope so treatment starts next monday..goney give it my best shot hopefully i wont need the full 48 weeks as my blood test were all good ..my health is great Ive got plenty friends and family to bolster me when the going gets tough...and who knows this time next year i may be joining them all in benidorm..
..thanks darren ..x..
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HJFinAZ: I am pathetically desperate, but nobody wants me..
Me too....
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odessaukraine48: its very easy to get a women in Ukraine. all it takes. is to say i,m an american.
As you know i will be in Ukraine in 8 weeks time.
If that's the case Gary
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bettyboop63: i hope so treatment starts next monday..goney give it my best shot hopefully i wont need the full 48 weeks as my blood test were all good ..my health is great Ive got plenty friends and family to bolster me when the going gets tough...and who knows this time next year i may be joining them all in benidorm.. ..thanks darren ..x..
Wish u better
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bettyboop63: hi ..A.. I have "met" a lot of wonderful folk on here who have caught my eye..but as it says on my profile Im looking only for chat/email..due to my illness it would be unfair to make promises to anyone that I may not be able to keep..i dont know what life has in store for me health wise ..im scared of commitment whilst i have this illness hanging over me but hopefully if and when i beat it then I can get basck in the dating game ....watch out guys ..
I dont consider that to be fussy - but honest, and maybe a real test of commitment - if you found mr right via chat and emails...and he was wonderfully supportive from afar - imagine how super he could be when youre back to full health and chasing him! God bless your treatment dear BB!
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AthenzGirl: I keep seeing such wonderful people here... why is it so hard for them to find a soul mate? Ive been contacted (and been the contactee) many many times now since I came here last summer, and still try to understand how is it possible to NOT find someone?
I can only imagine that we are all a bit too fussy... although some people will excuse themselves and say 'I just have high standards'. Maybe there should be an item in the personal descriptions where we can include on a scale of 1 - 10 just how serious we are about dating or finding a partner... 1=casually browsing thru to 10=marriage on my mind.
It is def. true that as we mature we are not so flexible - maybe not prepared to move to a new place,leave family or give up a job etc. Id be really interested to hear what other CSs would be prepared to sacrifice or compromise on if they find/found their love far away.
Ive a couple of friends who did this - a Belgian guy who moved to Texas to be with his now wife... and a Brit friend whose USA wife moved to London for him.
I can only imagine that we are all a bit too fussy... although some people will excuse themselves and say 'I just have high standards'. Maybe there should be an item in the personal descriptions where we can include on a scale of 1 - 10 just how serious we are about dating or finding a partner... 1=casually browsing thru to 10=marriage on my mind.
It is def. true that as we mature we are not so flexible - maybe not prepared to move to a new place,leave family or give up a job etc. Id be really interested to hear what other CSs would be prepared to sacrifice or compromise on if they find/found their love far away.
Ive a couple of friends who did this - a Belgian guy who moved to Texas to be with his now wife... and a Brit friend whose USA wife moved to London for him.
Hi there Athenzgirl
Good post BTW I would say (for me anyhow) that distance is the major stumbling block..... have seen and spoken to some lovely girls/women in my time here (about 2 months)....but hadn't thought of flexibility..until you mentioned it...
nice profile too
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bettyboop63: i hope so treatment starts next monday..goney give it my best shot hopefully i wont need the full 48 weeks as my blood test were all good ..my health is great Ive got plenty friends and family to bolster me when the going gets tough...and who knows this time next year i may be joining them all in benidorm.. ..thanks darren ..x..
You'll be OK 
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AthenzGirl: I dont believe either of those - for 1 minute!!!!
Would I tell a lie??
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ogdensburgbabe: Me too....
RIGHT..........
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AthenzGirl: I keep seeing such wonderful people here... why is it so hard for them to find a soul mate? Ive been contacted (and been the contactee) many many times now since I came here last summer, and still try to understand how is it possible to NOT find someone?
I can only imagine that we are all a bit too fussy... although some people will excuse themselves and say 'I just have high standards'. Maybe there should be an item in the personal descriptions where we can include on a scale of 1 - 10 just how serious we are about dating or finding a partner... 1=casually browsing thru to 10=marriage on my mind.
It is def. true that as we mature we are not so flexible - maybe not prepared to move to a new place,leave family or give up a job etc. Id be really interested to hear what other CSs would be prepared to sacrifice or compromise on if they find/found their love far away.
Ive a couple of friends who did this - a Belgian guy who moved to Texas to be with his now wife... and a Brit friend whose USA wife moved to London for him.
I can only imagine that we are all a bit too fussy... although some people will excuse themselves and say 'I just have high standards'. Maybe there should be an item in the personal descriptions where we can include on a scale of 1 - 10 just how serious we are about dating or finding a partner... 1=casually browsing thru to 10=marriage on my mind.
It is def. true that as we mature we are not so flexible - maybe not prepared to move to a new place,leave family or give up a job etc. Id be really interested to hear what other CSs would be prepared to sacrifice or compromise on if they find/found their love far away.
Ive a couple of friends who did this - a Belgian guy who moved to Texas to be with his now wife... and a Brit friend whose USA wife moved to London for him.
I would certainly relocate for the right guy. I don't that many people on CS are trying to find someone as they are just playing games.
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I can only imagine that we are all a bit too fussy... although some people will excuse themselves and say 'I just have high standards'. Maybe there should be an item in the personal descriptions where we can include on a scale of 1 - 10 just how serious we are about dating or finding a partner... 1=casually browsing thru to 10=marriage on my mind.
It is def. true that as we mature we are not so flexible - maybe not prepared to move to a new place,leave family or give up a job etc. Id be really interested to hear what other CSs would be prepared to sacrifice or compromise on if they find/found their love far away.
Ive a couple of friends who did this - a Belgian guy who moved to Texas to be with his now wife... and a Brit friend whose USA wife moved to London for him.