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Jan 29, 2010 2:30 AM CST rediculous
spideyboy123
spideyboy123spideyboy123Somerville, New Jersey USA1 Threads 8 Posts
why is it that certain people will accept your add-but refuse to talk to you? if there was no interest for communication then why accept the add in the first place? is it so you feel like you did that person a favor? please LOL
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Jan 29, 2010 2:33 AM CST rediculous
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
you have a point, does seem a bit stupid wine
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Jan 29, 2010 2:34 AM CST rediculous
spideyboy123
spideyboy123spideyboy123Somerville, New Jersey USA1 Threads 8 Posts
my point exactly lol
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Jan 29, 2010 2:35 AM CST rediculous
AsleepInNJ
AsleepInNJAsleepInNJCherry Hill, New Jersey USA53 Threads 3 Polls 2,862 Posts
learn how to spell ridiculous and maybe it won't feel so bad? dunno
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Jan 29, 2010 2:36 AM CST rediculous
spideyboy123
spideyboy123spideyboy123Somerville, New Jersey USA1 Threads 8 Posts
i dont feel bad buddy-i just find it retarted and amusing
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Jan 29, 2010 2:37 AM CST rediculous
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,957 Posts
spideyboy123: why is it that certain people will accept your add-but refuse to talk to you? if there was no interest for communication then why accept the add in the first place? is it so you feel like you did that person a favor? please LOL



Are we talking about mail confused
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Jan 29, 2010 2:38 AM CST rediculous
Odysseus101
Odysseus101Odysseus101Roma, Lazio Italy46 Threads 12 Polls 925 Posts
I disagree completely. I am sure some people will accept an advance, while still having no desire to take the contact any further, simply because they don't want to cause offence by rejecting you. It's up to you to sense wether the other party wants to take it further. Don't be offended when your first email is not replied to. Just back off, but there's no need to take offence.
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Jan 29, 2010 2:39 AM CST rediculous
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
spideyboy123: why is it that certain people will accept your add-but refuse to talk to you? if there was no interest for communication then why accept the add in the first place? is it so you feel like you did that person a favor? please LOL


beats me ....but hey... Im simple ....grin
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Jan 29, 2010 2:39 AM CST rediculous
spideyboy123
spideyboy123spideyboy123Somerville, New Jersey USA1 Threads 8 Posts
yea-i mean whats the point of this site? another myspace/facebook "race to see how many friends you can get?" I'm pretty sure the site is called connectingsingles.com LOL
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Jan 29, 2010 2:40 AM CST rediculous
spideyboy123
spideyboy123spideyboy123Somerville, New Jersey USA1 Threads 8 Posts
@ Odysseus101:

then that person should delete the connection with that person-that's less confusing i would think
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Jan 29, 2010 2:42 AM CST rediculous
Odysseus101
Odysseus101Odysseus101Roma, Lazio Italy46 Threads 12 Polls 925 Posts
If you don't get a green light from the other person, why not just delete them and move on?

spideyboy123: @ Odysseus101:

then that person should delete the connection with that person-that's less confusing i would think
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Jan 29, 2010 2:43 AM CST rediculous
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,957 Posts
spideyboy123: yea-i mean whats the point of this site? another myspace/facebook "race to see how many friends you can get?" I'm pretty sure the site is called connectingsingles.com LOL



No, I don't agree .. I've exchanged emails with people off here, and taken it to msn. I'll definitely be meeting them when it's possible wine
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Jan 29, 2010 2:44 AM CST rediculous
spideyboy123
spideyboy123spideyboy123Somerville, New Jersey USA1 Threads 8 Posts
thats exactly what i do-i'm talking about the person who is ignoring-why will they continue to be your "friend?" do they not want to lower their internet friend collection (via myspace)?
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Jan 29, 2010 4:49 AM CST rediculous
Amenda
AmendaAmendashenyang, Liaoning China84 Threads 2,867 Posts
AsleepInNJ: learn how to spell ridiculous and maybe it won't feel so bad?

laugh cool asleepninj

hope can post more this kind of post for me.....teddybear
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Jan 29, 2010 4:54 AM CST rediculous
jeepers
jeepersjeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)57 Threads 10,968 Posts
serene56: Are we talking about mail
exactly. What is an add ? confused help
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Jan 29, 2010 5:00 AM CST rediculous
GenuineGurl
GenuineGurlGenuineGurlDublin, Ireland3 Posts
I have often wondered the very same thing myself, I am assuming this is for the likes of myspace etc.
They add you then you dont hear from them again....

I have often asked that very same question and cant seem to get an answer, I guess some people are just funny about different things, but if thats the case better to just delete and move on, not worth your time!!
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Jan 30, 2010 7:52 AM CST rediculous
Juneau
JuneauJuneauBlairgowrie, Tayside, Scotland UK87 Threads 34 Polls 2,947 Posts
I think sometimes people can take things too seriously on this site. They get their hopes and expectations up too high. I find that I get loads of people contacting me, but unfortunately if I chose to write to all of them, I would be on here 24 hours a day, 7 days a week!!! Usually if a flower or mail is sent and I am not intersted, I just send a wee "Thank you, but we are not a match" flower back and that is that....nobody is offended. However sometimes, people do seem to be offended, and I then get further mail asking why i won't contact them!! It would be nice if people would just accept the flower as a token of politeness, leave it at that, and move on. handshake
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Jan 30, 2010 7:56 AM CST rediculous
claudya
claudyaclaudyaBucharest, Muntenia Romania287 Threads 9 Polls 4,018 Posts
In response to: why is it that certain people will accept your add-but refuse to talk to you? if there was no interest for communication then why accept the add in the first place? is it so you feel like you did that person a favor? please LOL

Well ,some people want just have many people in their list to tell others they have many friends in list,of course from my point of view is a stupid thing to have many in u list but not chat,has no sense better few but good friends.wine
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Jan 30, 2010 8:24 AM CST rediculous
Juneau
JuneauJuneauBlairgowrie, Tayside, Scotland UK87 Threads 34 Polls 2,947 Posts
claudya: Well ,some people want just have many people in their list to tell others they have many friends in list,of course from my point of view is a stupid thing to have many in u list but not chat,has no sense better few but good friends.


Yeah...I agree with you totally. That's the reason I can't handle Facebook! I don't particularly want 15,000 "friends" who I know nothing about!! doh rolling on the floor laughing
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Jan 30, 2010 9:02 AM CST rediculous
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
jeepers: exactly. What is an add ?


1 man + 1 woman = banana banana ...professor
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