Oh my Laura no they are not doomed. My husband and I started dating when I was seventeen. By the time we were married we were best friends also. And all the laughter from our years together kept us laughing even when we were older. Just thinking about it makes me miss him all over again. We always talked about when the honeymoon would finially end. It did when I stood by his bedside in the hospital and they told me he would not be here much longer. He was leaving. I bent over and whispered in his ear the honeymoon is over now. So no it does not have to be boring and work. Fun and play is the better way
Laura25: ...to be filled with drudgery and boredom?
I believe that no it does not have to get boring its the people in the relationship.They are trying to make it what its not sometimes, a relationship is messy and this can be good. I know people now are mad if you want something new then do new things do not judge everything do you know that sometimes the difference between boredom and fun is the way you look at things.I had a marshmallow fight and we were thinking how much trouble it would be to clean up the mess well that was wrong the fight was hilarious and the cleaning up even more funny because trying to imagine how the marshmallow could have made its way in these places.And cleaning up together was even fun being together and working together. As in all things in life judging every little thing can be the thing that makes it fun are boring.
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...to be filled with drudgery and boredom?