Is any marriage doomed... ( Archived) (116)

Jul 10, 2010 5:57 AM CST Is any marriage doomed...
Laura25
Laura25Laura25Somewhere, New York USA50 Threads 6 Polls 8,178 Posts

...to be filled with drudgery and boredom?





violin violin




popcorn
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Jul 10, 2010 5:58 AM CST Is any marriage doomed...
Costapacket
CostapacketCostapacketparis, Centre-Val de Loire France2 Threads 2,182 Posts
Laura25: ...to be filled with drudgery and boredom?


It needs working at to keep it fresh and new.....wine
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Jul 10, 2010 5:58 AM CST Is any marriage doomed...
starattax
starattaxstarattaxcarlow, Carlow Ireland6 Threads 181 Posts
Laura25: ...to be filled with drudgery and boredom?


yea.wave
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Jul 10, 2010 6:00 AM CST Is any marriage doomed...
Laura25
Laura25Laura25Somewhere, New York USA50 Threads 6 Polls 8,178 Posts
Costapacket: It needs working at to keep it fresh and new.....



hmmmmmmmmmmm.... drudgery then? hmmm



smile innocent


Good morning, Costa! wave
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Jul 10, 2010 6:00 AM CST Is any marriage doomed...
Laura25
Laura25Laura25Somewhere, New York USA50 Threads 6 Polls 8,178 Posts
starattax: yea.



laugh laugh




thx




wave
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Jul 10, 2010 6:00 AM CST Is any marriage doomed...
GingerBe
GingerBeGingerBeDonegal, Ireland2 Threads 3,106 Posts
Laura25: ...to be filled with drudgery and boredom?


Depends on the attitudes, and open-mindedness, even humour, of the two people in it.wine
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Jul 10, 2010 6:01 AM CST Is any marriage doomed...
davpk10
davpk10davpk10somewhere, New York USA23 Threads 1 Polls 2,934 Posts
Hope not....wink








Do my best to stop it....dunno
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Jul 10, 2010 6:03 AM CST Is any marriage doomed...
Laura25
Laura25Laura25Somewhere, New York USA50 Threads 6 Polls 8,178 Posts
GingerBe:
Depends on the attitudes, and open-mindedness, even humour, of the two people in it.


Ah... humour(!) must be a life saver grin wine


Hi Ginger wave
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Jul 10, 2010 6:04 AM CST Is any marriage doomed...
GingerBe
GingerBeGingerBeDonegal, Ireland2 Threads 3,106 Posts
Laura25: Ah... humour(!) must be a life saver Hi Ginger


Hi Laura wave

Yep, saved me doing time, a few times in my marriage, over the years.rolling on the floor laughing
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Jul 10, 2010 6:06 AM CST Is any marriage doomed...
viva007
viva007viva007HYDERABAD, Telangana India41 Threads 8 Polls 7,447 Posts
Laura25: Viva
hug peace
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Jul 10, 2010 6:11 AM CST Is any marriage doomed...
reb56
reb56reb56carthage, Missouri USA55 Polls 8,629 Posts
starattax: yea.
think it is in usa from studys or in older days why buy the cow if u get the milk for free.
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Jul 10, 2010 6:13 AM CST Is any marriage doomed...
viva007
viva007viva007HYDERABAD, Telangana India41 Threads 8 Polls 7,447 Posts
reb56: think it is in usa from studys or in older days why buy the cow if u get the milk for free.
r u saying front women back cowrolling on the floor laughing
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Jul 10, 2010 6:16 AM CST Is any marriage doomed...
reb56
reb56reb56carthage, Missouri USA55 Polls 8,629 Posts
viva007: r u saying front women back cow
no old chinese proverb lol.
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Jul 10, 2010 6:27 AM CST Is any marriage doomed...
Happygolucky4u
Happygolucky4uHappygolucky4uTreasure Coast, Florida USA25 Threads 4 Polls 6,241 Posts
Oh my Laura no they are not doomed. My husband and I started dating when I was seventeen. By the time we were married we were best friends also. And all the laughter from our years together kept us laughing even when we were older. crying Just thinking about it makes me miss him all over again. We always talked about when the honeymoon would finially end. It did when I stood by his bedside in the hospital and they told me he would not be here much longer. He was leaving. I bent over and whispered in his ear the honeymoon is over now. So no it does not have to be boring and work. Fun and play is the better way applause
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Jul 10, 2010 6:33 AM CST Is any marriage doomed...
bodleing
bodleingbodleingGreater Manchester, England UK238 Threads 8 Polls 13,810 Posts
Mine isn't.thumbs up


But maybe cause went separate ways in 1980.idea



laugh
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Jul 10, 2010 6:36 AM CST Is any marriage doomed...
Happygolucky4u
Happygolucky4uHappygolucky4uTreasure Coast, Florida USA25 Threads 4 Polls 6,241 Posts
bodleing: Mine isn't. But maybe cause went separate ways in 1980.
giggle
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Jul 10, 2010 6:43 AM CST Is any marriage doomed...
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
Ladybee42: i suggest a new phrase in all marriage vows...
love, honour, blaa blaa - whatever and purchase interesting adult toys at regular intervals.

see you could do a lot of happy making with a vow like that!


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing




uh oh the dark genius in you is scaring me
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Jul 10, 2010 8:07 AM CST Is any marriage doomed...
pirate151
pirate151pirate151Houston, Texas USA15 Threads 171 Posts
Laura25: ...to be filled with drudgery and boredom?


I believe that no it does not have to get boring its the people in the relationship.They are trying to make it what its not sometimes, a relationship is messy and this can be good. I know people now are mad if you want something new then do new things do not judge everything do you know that sometimes the difference between boredom and fun is the way you look at things.I had a marshmallow fight and we were thinking how much trouble it would be to clean up the mess well that was wrong the fight was hilarious and the cleaning up even more funny because trying to imagine how the marshmallow could have made its way in these places.And cleaning up together was even fun being together and working together. As in all things in life judging every little thing can be the thing that makes it fun are boring.
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Jul 10, 2010 8:13 AM CST Is any marriage doomed...
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
Noooo you just have to give them a wee break every now and again and let them watch a ball game from time to time grin
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Jul 10, 2010 8:27 AM CST Is any marriage doomed...
TarotReader
TarotReaderTarotReaderKyrenia - Bremen - Cheshire, Kyrenia Cyprus3 Threads 2 Polls 34 Posts
My lovely Laura25,

I am that I am, and whilst I am that I am, I allow others to be that which they are!

Life is for the living - every moment of the evermoment! You are in the driving seat and can create anything you choose to. You are what you think!

Letting go is one of the hardest things humans have to learn.

Retain your sense of adventure dear Laura25 ...

You can change anything you wish ...

If you don't go within, you go without ...

You have so many possibilities waiting for you ...

Your knight in shining armour will appear so don't stop dreaming ..

dreams are the container of the soul ...

feeling is the language of the soul ...

laughter is the music of the soul - keep laughing.

With love, truth and joy xxx
hug
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