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scorpiosiren: im in an on off relationship for 8 yrs but now have feelings for another its not a physical attraction more a deep soul connection i do love my partner very much though i dunno wot to do wit my other feelings
On and off is not a relationship.
Follow your heart.
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demonfairy: hey,you i get cold at night,i need a body warmer...
Get a good Duvet .
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StressFree: Well, off and on is not a relationship. I know the sense of security is there of having something to fall back on, but if it has been off and on for the last 8 years, that does not sound too healthy for the soul.
Now if you feel a deep soul connection with this other guy, maybe you should explore that? If you are not at all attracted to him physically, then don't do it unless that is not an issue.
Sounds like you need something extra to give you this sense of completeness. Perhaps you should look within?
Now if you feel a deep soul connection with this other guy, maybe you should explore that? If you are not at all attracted to him physically, then don't do it unless that is not an issue.
Sounds like you need something extra to give you this sense of completeness. Perhaps you should look within?
only cos i know u believe in this
i feel its a spiritual connection
we are both mediums him being a lot more advanced than me
but our paths have crossed many times n i enjoy his company soo much,he is a beautiful person inside n out
i long to see n hear from him
i dunno i jst dunno
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scorpiosiren: only cos i know u believe in this
i feel its a spiritual connection
we are both mediums him being a lot more advanced than me
but our paths have crossed many times n i enjoy his company soo much,he is a beautiful person inside n out
i long to see n hear from him
i dunno i jst dunno
i feel its a spiritual connection
we are both mediums him being a lot more advanced than me
but our paths have crossed many times n i enjoy his company soo much,he is a beautiful person inside n out
i long to see n hear from him
i dunno i jst dunno
If I were you, I'd go with him. Spiritual connections are not easy to find. You just may have a splendid opportunity here, and the door appears half open. I'd totally walk through that door---especially if I was in an off and on relationship that was not really serving any purpose or full connection.
Think about it, ask about it, and signs will come that should help you clear up your heart.
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scorpiosiren: there's a wee bit of physical in there too i dunno im jst mesmerised by him
give it time to see how long "mesmirized" lasts B4 tossing all else away!
You might just need to make a change, but if u give it a little time to be sure, that will giveu confidence in ur decision
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scorpiosiren: im in an on off relationship for 8 yrs but now have feelings for another its not a physical attraction more a deep soul connection i do love my partner very much though i dunno wot to do wit my other feelings
I was in an on/off...I don't even know if I can call that sort of thing a relationship..but I put an end to it. Obviously, something is not right when it's on again/off again. I figured out what the problem was with MY situation and that is why like I stated above, I put an end to it.
If you have feelings for someone other than the on/off person, maybe you should go with that and see what happens because it doesn't seem as though it would be too hard to get on again with the other one, although(and I don't know all the details) I wouldn't keep putting up with the on/off thing. Eventually, that sort of thing has to come to an end. It couldn't be much of anything anyway if you can develop feelings for another.
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scorpiosiren: im in an on off relationship for 8 yrs but now have feelings for another its not a physical attraction more a deep soul connection i do love my partner very much though i dunno wot to do wit my other feelings
Do It ! ......Go with those other feelings and Do It !
You'll never regret that you just went for it .....
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Boban1: when one love fades out, another one evolves ... the time between those two can be called the twilight zone
what you should do??? , 8 years you have followed your heart ..
what is it telling you now???
what you should do??? , 8 years you have followed your heart ..
what is it telling you now???
SAGE ADVISE BOBAN I AM PROUD OF YOU
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scorpiosiren: thank u mick its a complicated relationship to say the least....
for ur questions when its off no one was wit another that i know of lol its on cos we kinda cant live without each other as i said i do really love him i'm jst mesmerised by this other guy
for ur questions when its off no one was wit another that i know of lol its on cos we kinda cant live without each other as i said i do really love him i'm jst mesmerised by this other guy
DONT LET THE GREEN GRASS FOOL YOU
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suggasugga: DONT LET THE GREEN GRASS FOOL YOU
Di Him !!
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jvaski: Di Him !! Just Do Him - Life is short Do HIm !
are u letting ur desire to be done show through here J?
u r only too sweet
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felixis99: are u letting ur desire to be done show through here J?
u r only too sweet
u r only too sweet
I just wanna be sure others don't let anything exciting slip by them in life ....
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Bental: That's not deep enough.
That is deep enough hun, cause it's what's important to you...it's a need that you're looking to have filled. So hard to have a relationship when people don't talk and share, and having someone fuss over you cause you're tired, and your immune system is down, so you get sick from all the stress. Can you ask your love or tell them you would like a little fuss now and then, and do it for him too...what things does the other bring to the table that maybe you could talk with your love about? Maybe he can too, you can give him a chance to see what he'll do, but if the on and off is wearing thin...maybe it is time to close the door to that life and breathe a little before you start anew...
and don't go back, get away from that comfort zone, it may feel what you know, but is is what you're happy with in the long run?
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jvaski: I just wanna be sure others don't let anything exciting slip by them in life ....
what about u baby ? what excites u?
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felixis99: what about u baby ? what excites u?
In general, or regarding women and relationships ?
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laura139: That is deep enough hun, cause it's what's important to you...it's a need that you're looking to have filled. So hard to have a relationship when people don't talk and share, and having someone fuss over you cause you're tired, and your immune system is down, so you get sick from all the stress. Can you ask your love or tell them you would like a little fuss now and then, and do it for him too...what things does the other bring to the table that maybe you could talk with your love about? Maybe he can too, you can give him a chance to see what he'll do, but if the on and off is wearing thin...maybe it is time to close the door to that life and breathe a little before you start anew... and don't go back, get away from that comfort zone, it may feel what you know, but is is what you're happy with in the long run?
It is surprising how many couples carry on for years with the security blanket wrapped around themselves because they're affraid to break free and live again........
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jvaski: In general, or regarding women and relationships ?
I should so message u to answer this ....but anyway - regarding women silly - or this woman in particularwhy else would I care?
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laura139: That is deep enough hun, cause it's what's important to you...it's a need that you're looking to have filled. So hard to have a relationship when people don't talk and share, and having someone fuss over you cause you're tired, and your immune system is down, so you get sick from all the stress. Can you ask your love or tell them you would like a little fuss now and then, and do it for him too...what things does the other bring to the table that maybe you could talk with your love about? Maybe he can too, you can give him a chance to see what he'll do, but if the on and off is wearing thin...maybe it is time to close the door to that life and breathe a little before you start anew... and don't go back, get away from that comfort zone, it may feel what you know, but is is what you're happy with in the long run?
I come from a very happy marriage and it was mostly about being there all the time for each other.
So certainly I cannot and will not cotradict what you write. Only I have seen so many people giving it all away for a whim, like they are on the rebound sort of thing.
My post is only intended to encourage Scorpio to delve deeper before doing something for the wrong reasons.
Otherwise I agree that if it is not going anywhere, it is better to let go. I would take time out between relationships.
Wish Scorpio all the best too.
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scorpiosiren: i simply dunno boban i dont eveen know if my feelings for the other is mutual,,,im quite happy to continue my relationship wit my on/off partner but vant help fantasising lol lol lol
It seems you need to establish this first, before you can make any other decision as to your on-off man. All the best.
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I accept your point
I had a 24 relationship , like to mates we were ,,
Now ive got a life style and mindset i have to protect from the Loonies ,,
To many people out there want to upset the apple cart ..