Love at first sight - Is there such a thing? (87)
mnowsaRajshahi, Rajshahi Division Bangladesh145 Threads 3 Polls 7,536 Postsnope..there isn't such a thing. love is a totally different thing. But people can certainly like people at first sight. And that's exactly why there is a saying 'you don't get a second chance to make the first impression'
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I eh can't pass a mirror without falling in love...
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Your story reminds me of another article on "love at first sight". It will be interesting for the reporter to do a longitudinal follow up with this couple.
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To be serious for once there is definitely Love at first sight
And this was "first" exemplified by our dear Jesus Christ
There is really Love at first Sight
But that was years ago when morality was right
Yes, there is definitely Love at First sight
But that was back in the days when legal virgins were tight
And this was "first" exemplified by our dear Jesus Christ
There is really Love at first Sight
But that was years ago when morality was right
Yes, there is definitely Love at First sight
But that was back in the days when legal virgins were tight
ellibab: You don't really believe that do you? There are alot of spouses who stay come on get real!
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Fortunately Love at First Sight is still happening
Probably dependent on the country we live in
Not in California where loving comes with sinning
Watch my face how much I am grinning
Probably dependent on the country we live in
Not in California where loving comes with sinning
Watch my face how much I am grinning
sharkmeat: i think it could happen but it would be as rare as a person having what it would take to make a relationship work long term.
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Thank you Miss Venere
It is probably the first time in my life I have gotten a cheer
Such commendations are rare
Perhaps you are a good angel that has fallen from heaven down here
Please remind me to send you a personal application to commence a love affair
Assuming there is no stallion attached to the mare!
It is probably the first time in my life I have gotten a cheer
Such commendations are rare
Perhaps you are a good angel that has fallen from heaven down here
Please remind me to send you a personal application to commence a love affair
Assuming there is no stallion attached to the mare!
venere08: Very clever and insightful, Potarick
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sweetlyscented1: Hey Venere, Well yes I had that with my last partner we both did at the first glace across the road it was WOOOOOAAHHHHHHH so over powering... Love at first sight?? attraction Definately...later I looked on it as we fell in love at first sight, but sadly it only lasted 4 years despite the fact that we loved so deeply and passionatly, other issues caused problem's and it ended......so yes you can fall for someone instantly but unfortunately it dosent mean it will last, and can make for a devistating break up as I experianced... I beleive the research to be true and correct in most areas.....
I think its probably best to not expect the love of our life to be that instantly but for it to develop over time with respect and getting to truly know each other, THIS I think will make for a much longer lasting and true connection...
Still waiting and Im afraid once you have experianced the "love at first sight" situation it is VERY VERY hard to not want or expect it again...so we keep searching but it may never happen like that again..but that dosent mean we wont find our true love, it just might take a little longer to realise THEY are in fact the one....
JMO
Happy New Year Everyone
I think its probably best to not expect the love of our life to be that instantly but for it to develop over time with respect and getting to truly know each other, THIS I think will make for a much longer lasting and true connection...
Still waiting and Im afraid once you have experianced the "love at first sight" situation it is VERY VERY hard to not want or expect it again...so we keep searching but it may never happen like that again..but that dosent mean we wont find our true love, it just might take a little longer to realise THEY are in fact the one....
JMO
Happy New Year Everyone
With you all the way Debs, Happy New Year.
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Congratulations for being honest
You have just won the Lustful Contest!
You have just won the Lustful Contest!
gininitaly: Nope, not to me anyway.... tho there have been a few lusts at first sight that were fun.
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Some women told me they loved me at first sight
So
may be,there's such a thing
So
may be,there's such a thing
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potarick: Thank you Miss Venere
It is probably the first time in my life I have gotten a cheer
Such commendations are rare
Perhaps you are a good angel that has fallen from heaven down here
Please remind me to send you a personal application to commence a love affair
Assuming there is no stallion attached to the mare!
It is probably the first time in my life I have gotten a cheer
Such commendations are rare
Perhaps you are a good angel that has fallen from heaven down here
Please remind me to send you a personal application to commence a love affair
Assuming there is no stallion attached to the mare!
A first time cheer, potarick, Oh, dear!
Go change your fiends, you hear?
Many thanks dear Sir for your kind offer
But more emails from afar I will not suffer
So new stallion or no, this mare remains free
Until true love indeed does surprise me.(And if not, ah, screw it!
)
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venere08: A first time cheer, potarick, Oh, dear!
Go change your fiends, you hear?
Go change your fiends, you hear?
Freudian slip
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venere08: "...forget it, says a psychiatrist and relationship expert who insists the myth of love at first sight is not only untrue but is to blame for many unhappy relationships and failed marriages.
"It's impossible to make those kind of judgments until you really know someone," Livingston said.
"There's certainly such thing as attraction at first sight, and in retrospect you (may) have been right that this was the person, but often those initial chemical surges betray us."
"We're automatically drawn to (those deemed beautiful) on an almost instinctual basis but they may not have those inner qualities that make for satisfying marriage," he said.
"This is why it's so important to know somebody."
In his new book, How to Love, Livingston explains the key to a long-lasting loving relationship is finding a person who possesses most of what he calls the 10 "essential virtues" - kindness, optimism, courage, loyalty, tolerance, flexibility, beauty, humour, honesty and intelligence.
He says a fulfilling relationship is achieved by picking the right partner in the first place, rather than learning to deal with differences.
So it seems it might be possible after all, for some of you out there to claim 'love at first sight' ...
Wondering if your own experiences back up the research.
"It's impossible to make those kind of judgments until you really know someone," Livingston said.
"There's certainly such thing as attraction at first sight, and in retrospect you (may) have been right that this was the person, but often those initial chemical surges betray us."
"We're automatically drawn to (those deemed beautiful) on an almost instinctual basis but they may not have those inner qualities that make for satisfying marriage," he said.
"This is why it's so important to know somebody."
In his new book, How to Love, Livingston explains the key to a long-lasting loving relationship is finding a person who possesses most of what he calls the 10 "essential virtues" - kindness, optimism, courage, loyalty, tolerance, flexibility, beauty, humour, honesty and intelligence.
He says a fulfilling relationship is achieved by picking the right partner in the first place, rather than learning to deal with differences.
So it seems it might be possible after all, for some of you out there to claim 'love at first sight' ...
Wondering if your own experiences back up the research.
Only with you hon...........with everyone else I just fell in lust
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vinny1967: Only with you hon...........with everyone else I just fell in lust
I hope you are not including me in that Vinny 
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patmac: I hope you are not including me in that Vinny Happy New Year mate
Always mate
When are you organising this meet in Glasgow at the end of April Pat. From my experience the sooner a sign up thread goes up the more interest it will generate. All you need is a venue and I reckon there would be a lot of interest in it.
Happy New Year to you and yours
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vinny1967: Always mate
When are you organising this meet in Glasgow at the end of April Pat. From my experience the sooner a sign up thread goes up the more interest it will generate. All you need is a venue and I reckon there would be a lot of interest in it.
Happy New Year to you and yours
Next week the venue and hotels go up Got hotels at around £20 not too bad When are you organising this meet in Glasgow at the end of April Pat. From my experience the sooner a sign up thread goes up the more interest it will generate. All you need is a venue and I reckon there would be a lot of interest in it.
Happy New Year to you and yours
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vinny1967: Only with you hon...........with everyone else I just fell in lust
Hey, Vinnyyyyyyyyyyy
Happy New Year to you.
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patmac: Next week the venue and hotels go up Got hotels at around £20 not too bad
Cool..........well count me in for sure
Sorry about the
Vee, but as seen as I luv you I'm sure you will forgive me 
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venere08: Hey, Vinnyyyyyyyyyyy
Happy New Year to you.
Happy New Year to you.
Hiya hon..........same to you and yours.
Sorry I havent read the thread. Just got all excited when I saw you
Will go back and read properly.
P.S. Dawn dropped by last week and I spke to her a few times. She is in great form
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I find the first impression being correct most of the time. I say in my mind, I am going to stay open and not make up my mind but after few months/years, I arrive to the same conclusion as my first impression.
Love at first sight may be a fantasy but trust your first impression.
Love at first sight may be a fantasy but trust your first impression.
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patmac: Next week the venue and hotels go up Got hotels at around £20 not too bad
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