Number 1 Turn Off on Online Dating Sites? (92)
manOfewwordsLongview, Texas USA30 Threads 756 Postsfor me it's people that stick their tongue out 
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Having only one photo is usually a sign that some things wrong.
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When they don't read my profile by saying they find it interesting and want to know more about me. My profile states I'm not looking for a relationship
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vcroome: I wonder if any others who have tried online dating before have any 'warning signs' that immediately let you know that someone is probably not 'the one'?
For me it's using 'u' instead of 'you', '4' instead of 'for' and other chat-speak. I have the idea that someone who won't put in the time to properly type out their message when they are seeking their partner, they might not put as much effort as I'd like into the relationship itself, either.
Any others? Specific phrases people repeat in their profiles that send up red flags?
For me it's using 'u' instead of 'you', '4' instead of 'for' and other chat-speak. I have the idea that someone who won't put in the time to properly type out their message when they are seeking their partner, they might not put as much effort as I'd like into the relationship itself, either.
Any others? Specific phrases people repeat in their profiles that send up red flags?
People sticking there tongue out on their profile is number one turn off
only teasing 
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darren9030: People sticking there tongue out on their profile is number one turn off
only teasing i would say nudity is a turn off as you don't expect to see that from a potential date .
only teasing i would say nudity is a turn off as you don't expect to see that from a potential date .
people with no picture, I realise there might be a good reason like wanted felon though
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vcroome: I wonder if any others who have tried online dating before have any 'warning signs' that immediately let you know that someone is probably not 'the one'?
For me it's using 'u' instead of 'you', '4' instead of 'for' and other chat-speak. I have the idea that someone who won't put in the time to properly type out their message when they are seeking their partner, they might not put as much effort as I'd like into the relationship itself, either.
Any others? Specific phrases people repeat in their profiles that send up red flags?
yyes people who in there first message say hey hows friday to meet up For me it's using 'u' instead of 'you', '4' instead of 'for' and other chat-speak. I have the idea that someone who won't put in the time to properly type out their message when they are seeking their partner, they might not put as much effort as I'd like into the relationship itself, either.
Any others? Specific phrases people repeat in their profiles that send up red flags?
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'Hello lady, you are so beautiful, my heart turned over when I saw your profile.' yuk!
I also hate it when they send their e-address before even speaking to you. I also joined this site for security, and I will spend a long time to get to know the right person by listening to them on the forums, because that's where you get to know their character. Well, I think so anyway.
What's the rush?
I also hate it when they send their e-address before even speaking to you. I also joined this site for security, and I will spend a long time to get to know the right person by listening to them on the forums, because that's where you get to know their character. Well, I think so anyway.
What's the rush?
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gannieaw: 'Hello lady, you are so beautiful, my heart turned over when I saw your profile.' yuk!
I also hate it when they send their e-address before even speaking to you. I also joined this site for security, and I will spend a long time to get to know the right person by listening to them on the forums, because that's where you get to know their character. Well, I think so anyway.
What's the rush?
I also hate it when they send their e-address before even speaking to you. I also joined this site for security, and I will spend a long time to get to know the right person by listening to them on the forums, because that's where you get to know their character. Well, I think so anyway.
What's the rush?
So true about wanting e-mail address and wanting to send pics of themselves and not talking about themselves it losers my interest straight away.------ This thread is Archived ------
vcroome: That does make sense... When I text, even to my close friends, I always type out all the words. I feel that I'm disrespecting people if I don't bother to speak properly to them. Maybe it's just a girl thing, because my brother uses abbreviations any chance he gets.
A lack of grammar and typing full sentences shows me someone not interested enough. Other warning signs; speaking of meeting too soon, throwing the word love around like it's an old sock, and asking intimate/personal questions very soon in correspondence.
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manOfewwords: for me it's people that stick their tongue out
Maybe they think there at the Doctors
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Too many cosmetics can also be a turn off for me as animal experiments for that kind of stuff is a definate no no
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darren9030: Too many cosmetics can also be a turn off for me as animal experiments for that kind of stuff is a definate no no
Yes i agree ,, ive seen what it does to some of the Animals i see around town ....
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langleygirl: Gosh is hitting the space bar that much work?
apparently yes
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men with no shirts on esp when they over 50
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- long profile
- man without shirt
- call me babe, baby or darling on his first message
- man without shirt
- call me babe, baby or darling on his first message
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chococherrie: men with no shirts on esp when they over 50
Same goes for the women too!!!!
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-Men that look sad/bitter on their profile pic.... (why would I want to talk to a sad person!? 
-Men that show off... cars... houses... money... possesions... etc (a guy won't impress me with what he've got... no way)
-Man that seem to be rude on their profile or toooo heartbroken... I don't wanna know ur sad story on the first 2 lines I'm reading... later? why not ! but not as first impression!!
-Men that show off... cars... houses... money... possesions... etc (a guy won't impress me with what he've got... no way)
-Man that seem to be rude on their profile or toooo heartbroken... I don't wanna know ur sad story on the first 2 lines I'm reading... later? why not ! but not as first impression!!
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#1 turn-off on online dating sutes:
Viretually all of the attractive profiles are either fake or way too far away or both.
And pretty much all of the profiles that may actually be real and local are exactly the type of people who have always given personal ads (any kind) a bad name: they couldn't get a date at gunpoint.
Viretually all of the attractive profiles are either fake or way too far away or both.
And pretty much all of the profiles that may actually be real and local are exactly the type of people who have always given personal ads (any kind) a bad name: they couldn't get a date at gunpoint.
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In response to: I wonder if any others who have tried online dating before have any 'warning signs' that immediately let you know that someone is probably not 'the one'?
For me it's using 'u' instead of 'you', '4' instead of 'for' and other chat-speak. I have the idea that someone who won't put in the time to properly type out their message when they are seeking their partner, they might not put as much effort as I'd like into the relationship itself, either.
Any others? Specific phrases people repeat in their profiles that send up red flags?
For me it's using 'u' instead of 'you', '4' instead of 'for' and other chat-speak. I have the idea that someone who won't put in the time to properly type out their message when they are seeking their partner, they might not put as much effort as I'd like into the relationship itself, either.
Any others? Specific phrases people repeat in their profiles that send up red flags?
Most of them sound like scams. As most people are not typists, I think the abbreviations are not a turn off really, but sweet , honey and crap like that is!
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first number one warning flag is when someone gets right on you and wants you to contact their email or instant messenger.
the biggest giveaway is their name with a whole bunch of numbers that follow
the biggest giveaway is their name with a whole bunch of numbers that follow
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