Getting ready to date a separated man ... (157)
doberman3: We had been chatting on another site. He had been doing everything perfect, calling me when he said he would. It felt great.
We had interesting conversation. He was working on getting his divorce.
He had said he wasn't ready for a serious relationship. I agreed.
He needed time to sell his house, keep the divorce on track, etc.
Then I get a note, that he thinks he could not have the same zest for my dog as I did. He said he likes kids better but he does like dogs.
Then he was afraid, he wasn't ready for a serious relationship.
I was more upset about the problem with my dog. I also said, kids were not a problem. Not sure what kids had to do with anything since his kids were grown up. I also wasn't looking for a serious relationship unless it turned into one.
I like my Dobe more than him. I would not trade anything in the world for him greeting me at the door, etc.
Oh, well, win some and lose some. I think he had just lost interest.
I feel better without him.
I said that I guess we weren't having a date Saturday, ha.
The Doberman
We had interesting conversation. He was working on getting his divorce.
He had said he wasn't ready for a serious relationship. I agreed.
He needed time to sell his house, keep the divorce on track, etc.
Then I get a note, that he thinks he could not have the same zest for my dog as I did. He said he likes kids better but he does like dogs.
Then he was afraid, he wasn't ready for a serious relationship.
I was more upset about the problem with my dog. I also said, kids were not a problem. Not sure what kids had to do with anything since his kids were grown up. I also wasn't looking for a serious relationship unless it turned into one.
I like my Dobe more than him. I would not trade anything in the world for him greeting me at the door, etc.
Oh, well, win some and lose some. I think he had just lost interest.
I feel better without him.
I said that I guess we weren't having a date Saturday, ha.
The Doberman
Don`t know what to say ...Life is made of compromises
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doberman3: We had been chatting on another site. He had been doing everything perfect, calling me when he said he would. It felt great.
We had interesting conversation. He was working on getting his divorce.
He had said he wasn't ready for a serious relationship. I agreed.
He needed time to sell his house, keep the divorce on track, etc.
Then I get a note, that he thinks he could not have the same zest for my dog as I did. He said he likes kids better but he does like dogs.
Then he was afraid, he wasn't ready for a serious relationship.
I was more upset about the problem with my dog. I also said, kids were not a problem. Not sure what kids had to do with anything since his kids were grown up. I also wasn't looking for a serious relationship unless it turned into one.
I like my Dobe more than him. I would not trade anything in the world for him greeting me at the door, etc.
Oh, well, win some and lose some. I think he had just lost interest.
I feel better without him.
I said that I guess we weren't having a date Saturday, ha.
The Doberman
We had interesting conversation. He was working on getting his divorce.
He had said he wasn't ready for a serious relationship. I agreed.
He needed time to sell his house, keep the divorce on track, etc.
Then I get a note, that he thinks he could not have the same zest for my dog as I did. He said he likes kids better but he does like dogs.
Then he was afraid, he wasn't ready for a serious relationship.
I was more upset about the problem with my dog. I also said, kids were not a problem. Not sure what kids had to do with anything since his kids were grown up. I also wasn't looking for a serious relationship unless it turned into one.
I like my Dobe more than him. I would not trade anything in the world for him greeting me at the door, etc.
Oh, well, win some and lose some. I think he had just lost interest.
I feel better without him.
I said that I guess we weren't having a date Saturday, ha.
The Doberman
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hey dobe
you know as well as i do
the men come and go but a dog will never forsake you
i am what i am
and part of that is a few pets
you know as well as i do
the men come and go but a dog will never forsake you
i am what i am
and part of that is a few pets
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doberman3: We had been chatting on another site. He had been doing everything perfect, calling me when he said he would. It felt great.
We had interesting conversation. He was working on getting his divorce.
He had said he wasn't ready for a serious relationship. I agreed.
He needed time to sell his house, keep the divorce on track, etc.
Then I get a note, that he thinks he could not have the same zest for my dog as I did. He said he likes kids better but he does like dogs.
Then he was afraid, he wasn't ready for a serious relationship.
I was more upset about the problem with my dog. I also said, kids were not a problem. Not sure what kids had to do with anything since his kids were grown up. I also wasn't looking for a serious relationship unless it turned into one.
I like my Dobe more than him. I would not trade anything in the world for him greeting me at the door, etc.
Oh, well, win some and lose some. I think he had just lost interest.
I feel better without him.
I said that I guess we weren't having a date Saturday, ha.
The Doberman
The more tales I hear about some people the more I love my dog. The guy sounds a bit of a wimp Dobe, you can do much better. We had interesting conversation. He was working on getting his divorce.
He had said he wasn't ready for a serious relationship. I agreed.
He needed time to sell his house, keep the divorce on track, etc.
Then I get a note, that he thinks he could not have the same zest for my dog as I did. He said he likes kids better but he does like dogs.
Then he was afraid, he wasn't ready for a serious relationship.
I was more upset about the problem with my dog. I also said, kids were not a problem. Not sure what kids had to do with anything since his kids were grown up. I also wasn't looking for a serious relationship unless it turned into one.
I like my Dobe more than him. I would not trade anything in the world for him greeting me at the door, etc.
Oh, well, win some and lose some. I think he had just lost interest.
I feel better without him.
I said that I guess we weren't having a date Saturday, ha.
The Doberman
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Such are the ways of e-dating. CORRECTION TO YOUR POST: Win Few Lose Most. Your profile is not meant for everyone but someone.
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doberman3: We had been chatting on another site. He had been doing everything perfect, calling me when he said he would. It felt great.
We had interesting conversation. He was working on getting his divorce.
He had said he wasn't ready for a serious relationship. I agreed.
He needed time to sell his house, keep the divorce on track, etc.
Then I get a note, that he thinks he could not have the same zest for my dog as I did. He said he likes kids better but he does like dogs.
Then he was afraid, he wasn't ready for a serious relationship.
I was more upset about the problem with my dog. I also said, kids were not a problem. Not sure what kids had to do with anything since his kids were grown up. I also wasn't looking for a serious relationship unless it turned into one.
I like my Dobe more than him. I would not trade anything in the world for him greeting me at the door, etc.
Oh, well, win some and lose some. I think he had just lost interest.
I feel better without him.
I said that I guess we weren't having a date Saturday, ha.
The Doberman
We had interesting conversation. He was working on getting his divorce.
He had said he wasn't ready for a serious relationship. I agreed.
He needed time to sell his house, keep the divorce on track, etc.
Then I get a note, that he thinks he could not have the same zest for my dog as I did. He said he likes kids better but he does like dogs.
Then he was afraid, he wasn't ready for a serious relationship.
I was more upset about the problem with my dog. I also said, kids were not a problem. Not sure what kids had to do with anything since his kids were grown up. I also wasn't looking for a serious relationship unless it turned into one.
I like my Dobe more than him. I would not trade anything in the world for him greeting me at the door, etc.
Oh, well, win some and lose some. I think he had just lost interest.
I feel better without him.
I said that I guess we weren't having a date Saturday, ha.
The Doberman
Your a special one. Most won't even entertain the idea of dating unless the papers are finalized and signed. Sorry it didn't work out but kudos to you for trying.
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I never used to like dogs, but a partner wanted one.
I soon came to realise that I prefered the dog to the bloke, we went our seperate ways and I got custody of the dog.
Fellas came and went, but the dog stayed with me.
My dogs have always been non-negotiable.
A puppy's for life, not justfor Christmas until a bloke comes along.
I soon came to realise that I prefered the dog to the bloke, we went our seperate ways and I got custody of the dog.
Fellas came and went, but the dog stayed with me.
My dogs have always been non-negotiable.
A puppy's for life, not just
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doberman3: We had been chatting on another site. He had been doing everything perfect, calling me when he said he would. It felt great.
We had interesting conversation. He was working on getting his divorce.
He had said he wasn't ready for a serious relationship. I agreed.
He needed time to sell his house, keep the divorce on track, etc.
Then I get a note, that he thinks he could not have the same zest for my dog as I did. He said he likes kids better but he does like dogs.
Then he was afraid, he wasn't ready for a serious relationship.
I was more upset about the problem with my dog. I also said, kids were not a problem. Not sure what kids had to do with anything since his kids were grown up. I also wasn't looking for a serious relationship unless it turned into one.
I like my Dobe more than him. I would not trade anything in the world for him greeting me at the door, etc.
Oh, well, win some and lose some. I think he had just lost interest.
I feel better without him.
I said that I guess we weren't having a date Saturday, ha.
The Doberman
We had interesting conversation. He was working on getting his divorce.
He had said he wasn't ready for a serious relationship. I agreed.
He needed time to sell his house, keep the divorce on track, etc.
Then I get a note, that he thinks he could not have the same zest for my dog as I did. He said he likes kids better but he does like dogs.
Then he was afraid, he wasn't ready for a serious relationship.
I was more upset about the problem with my dog. I also said, kids were not a problem. Not sure what kids had to do with anything since his kids were grown up. I also wasn't looking for a serious relationship unless it turned into one.
I like my Dobe more than him. I would not trade anything in the world for him greeting me at the door, etc.
Oh, well, win some and lose some. I think he had just lost interest.
I feel better without him.
I said that I guess we weren't having a date Saturday, ha.
The Doberman
Now I know why I would never get involved with a seperated man.
also if any man didn't like my dog then I would nothing to do with hime.
Thank goodness you found out now then later.
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Hey, us seperated folks are entitled to some fun. If you don't like it -- why just leave us alone -- like you would the dogs.
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Well so long as you are ok with the fact that this will not be a serious relationship then go and have fun.
Dating a separated man is not something I would do for the simple fact that legally they are still married and not even being divorced yet,and they still have not fully gotten over the demise of their marriage.Even a newly divorced man would be avoided.
You're a different person though and these things may not be a deal breaker for you.
Dating a separated man is not something I would do for the simple fact that legally they are still married and not even being divorced yet,and they still have not fully gotten over the demise of their marriage.Even a newly divorced man would be avoided.
You're a different person though and these things may not be a deal breaker for you.
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maryrachelle: Well so long as you are ok with the fact that this will not be a serious relationship then go and have fun.
Dating a separated man is not something I would do for the simple fact that legally they are still married and not even being divorced yet,and they still have not fully gotten over the demise of their marriage.Even a newly divorced man would be avoided.You're a different person though and these things may not be a deal breaker for you.
Dating a separated man is not something I would do for the simple fact that legally they are still married and not even being divorced yet,and they still have not fully gotten over the demise of their marriage.Even a newly divorced man would be avoided.You're a different person though and these things may not be a deal breaker for you.
Such a sweeping generalisation...don't you think!!!
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bodleing: Such a sweeping generalisation...don't you think!!!
Not really.Those are my personal experiences,and as I said other people(the op in particular) may feel differently.
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Odd that the subject of separted persons (not just men) comes up with the dogs. But anyway, the real "dogs" are the ones who say they are separated and really are not.
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maryrachelle: Not really.Those are my personal experiences,and as I said other people(the op in particular) may feel differently.
Oh, you appeared to be stating it as a fact.
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maryrachelle: Well so long as you are ok with the fact that this will not be a serious relationship then go and have fun.
Dating a separated man is not something I would do for the simple fact that legally they are still married and not even being divorced yet,and they still have not fully gotten over the demise of their marriage.Even a newly divorced man would be avoided.You're a different person though and these things may not be a deal breaker for you.
Dating a separated man is not something I would do for the simple fact that legally they are still married and not even being divorced yet,and they still have not fully gotten over the demise of their marriage.Even a newly divorced man would be avoided.You're a different person though and these things may not be a deal breaker for you.
I don't know about that. I would not make assumptions about every separated person all lumped into one. It should be based on how the person is and how long they have been separated. Some are separated and have been mentally separated for up to years before taking the final steps to leaving the partner. Would you say in that instance the person is just getting over the breakup.
Really is too much to decipher to just outright disregard someone based on their previous relationship end the final ending.
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yes, you are right. sometime the dog is much better and loyal than our man.
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Sweeping generalization. Perhpas DOGmatic.
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bodleing: Oh, you appeared to be stating it as a fact.
Fact for me,but what facts are too another person may be something entirely different.As I said the op may feel completely differently then I do.Her personal experiences may be the complete opposite of mine which is why I told her to go anyway even though he told her he wants nothing serious.
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heavensmile: yes, you are right. sometime the dog is much better and loyal than our man.
and they taste better ...
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We had interesting conversation. He was working on getting his divorce.
He had said he wasn't ready for a serious relationship. I agreed.
He needed time to sell his house, keep the divorce on track, etc.
Then I get a note, that he thinks he could not have the same zest for my dog as I did. He said he likes kids better but he does like dogs.
Then he was afraid, he wasn't ready for a serious relationship.
I was more upset about the problem with my dog. I also said, kids were not a problem. Not sure what kids had to do with anything since his kids were grown up. I also wasn't looking for a serious relationship unless it turned into one.
I like my Dobe more than him. I would not trade anything in the world for him greeting me at the door, etc.
Oh, well, win some and lose some. I think he had just lost interest.
I feel better without him.
I said that I guess we weren't having a date Saturday, ha.
The Doberman