Why do we have too many single mothers in usa and canada? ( Archived) (141)

Nov 25, 2011 7:33 AM CST Why do we have too many single mothers in usa and canada?
Tonymax
TonymaxTonymaxNew york, New York USA1 Threads 4 Posts
Why cant two couples stay together till death as it use to be in other part of the world like africa..who is not tolerating who! Who is not understanding who?what is the problem? Cant we get a solution to it?Love is give and take.
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Nov 25, 2011 7:36 AM CST Why do we have too many single mothers in usa and canada?
reb56
reb56reb56carthage, Missouri USA55 Polls 8,629 Posts
Tonymax: Why cant two couples stay together till death as it use to be in other part of the world like africa..who is not tolerating who! Who is not understanding who?what is the problem? Cant we get a solution to it?Love is give and take.
close legs/problem solved.
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Nov 25, 2011 7:41 AM CST Why do we have too many single mothers in usa and canada?
stringman
stringmanstringmanwallaceburg, Ontario Canada649 Threads 1 Polls 7,049 Posts
Tonymax: Why cant two couples stay together till death as it use to be in other part of the world like africa..who is not tolerating who! Who is not understanding who?what is the problem? Cant we get a solution to it?Love is give and take.
could be alot of things .lack of comunication, not committed enough, easy to walk away. to many distractions in this world.
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Nov 25, 2011 11:03 AM CST Why do we have too many single mothers in usa and canada?
Tonymax
TonymaxTonymaxNew york, New York USA1 Threads 4 Posts
reb56: close legs/problem solved.
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Nov 25, 2011 11:13 AM CST Why do we have too many single mothers in usa and canada?
fieldworking
fieldworkingfieldworkingHenderson, Nevada USA13 Threads 9 Polls 186 Posts
Tonymax: Why cant two couples stay together till death as it use to be in other part of the world like africa..who is not tolerating who! Who is not understanding who?what is the problem? Cant we get a solution to it?Love is give and take.


Good question. Sometimes there is something more going on than two people that didn't stay together. Some are single mothers because of divorce or having a child out of wedlock. Some are single mothers because they are widows at a young age. I actually had a friend where this was this case. Some are teen mothers and again...had a child out of wedlock. Others are single mothers because they left an abusive relationship.
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Nov 25, 2011 11:13 AM CST Why do we have too many single mothers in usa and canada?
fieldworking
fieldworkingfieldworkingHenderson, Nevada USA13 Threads 9 Polls 186 Posts
Tonymax: Why cant two couples stay together till death as it use to be in other part of the world like africa..who is not tolerating who! Who is not understanding who?what is the problem? Cant we get a solution to it?Love is give and take.


Good question. Sometimes there is something more going on than two people that didn't stay together. Some are single mothers because of divorce or having a child out of wedlock. Some are single mothers because they are widows at a young age. I actually had a friend where this was this case. Some are teen mothers and again...had a child out of wedlock. Others are single mothers because they left an abusive relationship.
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Nov 25, 2011 11:13 AM CST Why do we have too many single mothers in usa and canada?
fieldworking
fieldworkingfieldworkingHenderson, Nevada USA13 Threads 9 Polls 186 Posts
sorry about posting the same thing more than once...computer was having issues.
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Nov 25, 2011 11:25 AM CST Why do we have too many single mothers in usa and canada?
walledlakewizard
walledlakewizardwalledlakewizardwalled lake, Michigan USA4 Threads 200 Posts
They have'nt learned to just say NO!professor dunno grin
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Nov 25, 2011 11:29 AM CST Why do we have too many single mothers in usa and canada?
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
reb56: close legs/problem solved.
makes sense
head banger
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Nov 25, 2011 12:53 PM CST Why do we have too many single mothers in usa and canada?
Happygolucky4uonline today!
Happygolucky4uonline today!Happygolucky4uTreasure Coast, Florida USA25 Threads 4 Polls 6,241 Posts
Tonymax: Why cant two couples stay together till death as it use to be in other part of the world like africa..who is not tolerating who! Who is not understanding who?what is the problem? Cant we get a solution to it?Love is give and take.
The title to thread is a question different from the opening post so I will start by answering the title question " Why do we have too many single mothers in usa and canada?" What do you call too many? One, fifty, fifty million? Some are single due to many reasons. It is not always easy being a single mother. Do you think maybe there are just as many single fathers as mothers? Do we have to many single fathers? hmmm I read the thread post so far sigh So lets move on to add the other part of the question in here. Can't two couples stay together till death? Who is not understanding whom? What is the problem? Can't we get a solution? People no longer stay in unhealthy relationships. Why would someone want to stay where they are beaten? Where they are not happy? I admit this disposable world we live in is not the ideal world for me. But I am not going to judge others. I don't walk in their shoes. I only can be responsiable for my own behavior in life. It takes two to make a couple. I am not a couple anymore blues I have been thinking a lot here lately. And I have been thinking about maybe adopting an older child. We have more orphans in my area than homes. I have a home and friends and family. I can afford a child. When I checked on it with the older child in my area they said their health care and schooling would be paid for. They are desperately seeking homes for these children. They run ads on the tele. And their little faces say please give me a chance. I want a home. I am an older person yes. But I am in good health. So if I decide to do that then I will be A SINGLE MOTHER. Please do not judge me because of it. I will just be a single mum trying to do the best for my child. teddybear
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Nov 25, 2011 1:19 PM CST Why do we have too many single mothers in usa and canada?
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
Happygolucky4u: The title to thread is a question different from the opening post so I will start by answering the title question " Why do we have too many single mothers in usa and canada?" What do you call too many? One, fifty, fifty million? Some are single due to many reasons. It is not always easy being a single mother. Do you think maybe there are just as many single fathers as mothers? Do we have to many single fathers? I read the thread post so far So lets move on to add the other part of the question in here. Can't two couples stay together till death? Who is not understanding whom? What is the problem? Can't we get a solution? People no longer stay in unhealthy relationships. Why would someone want to stay where they are beaten? Where they are not happy? I admit this disposable world we live in is not the ideal world for me. But I am not going to judge others. I don't walk in their shoes. I only can be responsiable for my own behavior in life. It takes two to make a couple. I am not a couple anymore I have been thinking a lot here lately. And I have been thinking about maybe adopting an older child. We have more orphans in my area than homes. I have a home and friends and family. I can afford a child. When I checked on it with the older child in my area they said their health care and schooling would be paid for. They are desperately seeking homes for these children. They run ads on the tele. And their little faces say please give me a chance. I want a home. I am an older person yes. But I am in good health. So if I decide to do that then I will be A SINGLE MOTHER. Please do not judge me because of it. I will just be a single mum trying to do the best for my child.
shock confused dunno
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Nov 26, 2011 2:27 AM CST Why do we have too many single mothers in usa and canada?
Tonymax
TonymaxTonymaxNew york, New York USA1 Threads 4 Posts
In response to: Why cant two couples stay together till death as it use to be in other part of the world like africa..who is not tolerating who! Who is not understanding who?what is the problem? Cant we get a solution to it?Love is give and take.


Thanks for your contributions..all i want is what we can do to make the world a better place to live..and it start from a good family..what is a good family?A successful marriage,happy home,where God rules.check the background of the perpetrators of all the ill vices,in the world today most of them are from broken homes,God is love..if we love God we will have real love in our heart to our husband,wife and to our generation.In marriage God must be involved.It take two people to make marriage successful,but only one person to make it a failure.
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Nov 26, 2011 2:30 AM CST Why do we have too many single mothers in usa and canada?
Tonymax
TonymaxTonymaxNew york, New York USA1 Threads 4 Posts
In response to: Why cant two couples stay together till death as it use to be in other part of the world like africa..who is not tolerating who! Who is not understanding who?what is the problem? Cant we get a solution to it?Love is give and take.


Thanks for your contributions..all i want is what we can do to make the world a better place to live..and it start from a good family..what is a good family?A successful marriage,happy home,where God rules.check the background of the perpetrators of all the ill vices,in the world today most of them are from broken homes,God is love..if we love God we will have real love in our heart to our husband,wife and to our generation.In marriage God must be involved.It take two people to make marriage successful,but only one person to make it a failure.
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Nov 26, 2011 2:42 AM CST Why do we have too many single mothers in usa and canada?
Tonymax: Thanks for your contributions..all i want is what we can do to make the world a better place to live..and it start from a good family..what is a good family?A successful marriage,happy home,where God rules.check the background of the perpetrators of all the ill vices,in the world today most of them are from broken homes,God is love..if we love God we will have real love in our heart to our husband,wife and to our generation.In marriage God must be involved.It take two people to make marriage successful,but only one person to make it a failure.
Got any Kids?
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Nov 26, 2011 2:54 AM CST Why do we have too many single mothers in usa and canada?
puenteman
puentemanpuentemanLa Linea, Andalusia Spain4 Posts
Happygolucky4u: The title to thread is a question different from the opening post so I will start by answering the title question " Why do we have too many single mothers in usa and canada?" What do you call too many? One, fifty, fifty million? Some are single due to many reasons. It is not always easy being a single mother. Do you think maybe there are just as many single fathers as mothers? Do we have to many single fathers? I read the thread post so far So lets move on to add the other part of the question in here. Can't two couples stay together till death? Who is not understanding whom? What is the problem? Can't we get a solution? People no longer stay in unhealthy relationships. Why would someone want to stay where they are beaten? Where they are not happy? I admit this disposable world we live in is not the ideal world for me. But I am not going to judge others. I don't walk in their shoes. I only can be responsiable for my own behavior in life. It takes two to make a couple. I am not a couple anymore I have been thinking a lot here lately. And I have been thinking about maybe adopting an older child. We have more orphans in my area than homes. I have a home and friends and family. I can afford a child. When I checked on it with the older child in my area they said their health care and schooling would be paid for. They are desperately seeking homes for these children. They run ads on the tele. And their little faces say please give me a chance. I want a home. I am an older person yes. But I am in good health. So if I decide to do that then I will be A SINGLE MOTHER. Please do not judge me because of it. I will just be a single mum trying to do the best for my child.


Well said, go for it. Make some young kid happy.
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Nov 26, 2011 3:00 AM CST Why do we have too many single mothers in usa and canada?
MacMil
MacMilMacMiltaichung city, Caraga Philippines1 Posts
i think there just seeking some one who can control and satisfy there inner needs not just emotioins but also building a strong life structure tell the end were they may be do a successful living..
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Nov 26, 2011 3:46 AM CST Why do we have too many single mothers in usa and canada?
coffeeminx
coffeeminxcoffeeminxCape Town, Western Cape South Africa5 Threads 5 Polls 18 Posts
In response to: Why cant two couples stay together till death as it use to be in other part of the world like africa..who is not tolerating who! Who is not understanding who?what is the problem? Cant we get a solution to it?Love is give and take.



The biggest problem I think is that it is TOO easy to get out of problematic situations. The law, in most countries, washed its hands of the responsibility towards it's citizens, (by making it so easy to obtain a divorce).
In addition, as individuals, we have become impatient, selfish and intolerant of others.
Until we learn to accept each other, listen to each other, consider each other, and respect each other as fellow human beings who can and do make a valuable contribution to our society . . .dunno

For things to change . . . we have to change
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Nov 26, 2011 4:02 AM CST Why do we have too many single mothers in usa and canada?
I dont think it is limited to the USA and Canada, Tho they are both Very large Countries, many countries are no larger than the one state of Texas, Seems you are comparing apples and oranges, to My understanding Africa is the Highest in Aids in the world, so If they are all so Married, who is letting the Dogs out????

sigh

I can continue, but I wont do it!snooty
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Nov 26, 2011 6:43 AM CST Why do we have too many single mothers in usa and canada?
time4fun4u
time4fun4utime4fun4uAlicante, Valencia Spain18 Threads 1 Polls 10,066 Posts
Maybe the women in the USA and Canada just wont put up with being treated badly or cheated on.dunno
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Nov 26, 2011 7:48 AM CST Why do we have too many single mothers in usa and canada?
Women are respected as equals and can raise a family on her own, without child support or the aid of the government.
If a child's home is a happy, safe place the child will grow into a healthy productive adult.
Toxic people are to blame and it started somewhere, go ask your mama.peace
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