Is a cell phone necessary? ( Archived) (83)

May 4, 2013 6:13 PM CST Is a cell phone necessary?
Obstinance_Works
Obstinance_WorksObstinance_WorksManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK3 Threads 1 Polls 3,514 Posts
Ccincy: So you're saying that she won't meet a guy unless she has a cell phone.

Gosh I wonder how people long ago surived and met their men without a cell phone. Did you bother to ask the OP in question if she was being contacted by scammers? They love playing games with people.


She's saying it's putting men off. I'm saying this will help. You don't wanna help. You want make to failings more comfortable - it's nurturing!

And it didn't matter in the past because not having a cell phone didn't make you unsociable and weird to people that would not know better(assuming they were wrong).

But no, I didn't ask about scammers. I've never asked anyone about scammers. One of my greatest flaws has always been assuming intelligence in the other person.
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May 4, 2013 6:16 PM CST Is a cell phone necessary?
[quote= One of my greatest flaws has always been assuming intelligence in the other person. But it's the way the world turns. Get over it. (it's called a dose of your own medicine, buddy...) Take care in how you perceive things. It's a jungle out there.
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May 4, 2013 6:35 PM CST Is a cell phone necessary?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
Obstinance_Works: She's saying it's putting men off. I'm saying this will help. You don't wanna help. You want make to failings more comfortable - it's nurturing!

And it didn't matter in the past because not having a cell phone didn't make you unsociable and weird to people that would not know better(assuming they were wrong).

But no, I didn't ask about scammers. I've never asked anyone about scammers. One of my greatest flaws has always been assuming intelligence in the other person.



So in order for a woman to be considered sociable and not considered weird she would have to have a cell phone? hmm I must be unsociable then and weird cause I chose not to have a cell phone anymore.I'm just trying to make sure I understand what you're getting at.
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May 4, 2013 7:03 PM CST Is a cell phone necessary?
lifeisadream
lifeisadreamlifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico156 Threads 20 Polls 16,713 Posts
PrettyPrescious: I don't have a cell phone. Whenever a man finds this out, I never hear from him again. What is going on? Do they think I am some kind of a freak? or is making a phone call not the thing to do these days? Advice?


For me a cell phone is a very useful gadget.

Unfortunately, due to crime we have to have alarm systems at home and in business and they send the signal when necessary to the cell phones along to the Alarm's company and the police.

If you do not need them, good for you!




detective
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May 4, 2013 7:12 PM CST Is a cell phone necessary?
DaytonaDude
DaytonaDudeDaytonaDudeSouth Daytona, Florida USA33 Threads 3 Polls 2,403 Posts
In response to: I don't have a cell phone. Whenever a man finds this out, I never hear from him again. What is going on? Do they think I am some kind of a freak? or is making a phone call not the thing to do these days? Advice?


Well yeah, duh! Because you don't have a cell phone roll eyes

laugh
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May 4, 2013 7:14 PM CST Is a cell phone necessary?
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
DaytonaDude: Well yeah, duh! Because you don't have a cell phone

It took me a moment to get that. laugh
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May 4, 2013 7:18 PM CST Is a cell phone necessary?
montemonte
montemontemontemonteunknown, New Jersey USA114 Threads 4 Polls 5,631 Posts
PJ1961: I haven't had a cell phone since... oh... how many years ago was that, and I don't miss it at all. With access to a computer, who needs a cell phone? (skype works fairly well).

The cell phone overheated and the little ear mics never fit in my tiny ear canals, so my ears got too hot. I also considered the chance that brain tumors might be caused by cell phone use (Mobile phones can cause brain tumours, court rules ).

As a kid, I was never the one to rush to the phone to answer it in our home and spending time outside playing with friends took precedence over talking to people on the phone. When someone tells me I need a phone, I shrug and ask, Why? Email and skype work.

I don't worry about whether I'll need a phone in an emergency... first responders may not arrive quickly enough to make a difference anyway. Life is full of risks and if I plan ahead, I find it easy enough to mitigate those risks.

It is interesting that there are very few payphones around anymore. I wonder if that phenomenon is akin to when city rail tracks were torn out and people were forced to buy cars because the easy commute system was destroyed?



Public phone booths are pretty much gone because it was the way drug dealers made their connections. If they used a cell phone the deal could be traced. So the drug dealers stopped using their private cell phones and now use throw-away cell phones.

My question is, where does Superman change into his little red tights and cape when all the phone booths are gone crying
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May 4, 2013 7:22 PM CST Is a cell phone necessary?
PJ1961
PJ1961PJ1961Somewhere..., Nicaragua19 Threads 2 Polls 905 Posts
montemonte: My question is, where does Superman change into his little red tights and cape when all the phone booths are gone


yah....head banger
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May 4, 2013 7:27 PM CST Is a cell phone necessary?
DaytonaDude
DaytonaDudeDaytonaDudeSouth Daytona, Florida USA33 Threads 3 Polls 2,403 Posts
montemonte:

My question is, where does Superman change into his little red tights and cape when all the phone booths are gone


Porta potties I guess dunno
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May 4, 2013 7:32 PM CST Is a cell phone necessary?
PJ1961
PJ1961PJ1961Somewhere..., Nicaragua19 Threads 2 Polls 905 Posts
montemonte: My question is, where does Superman change into his little red tights and cape when all the phone booths are gone


yah....head banger

ohhh drug dealers ... wow... that was never prevalent in the areas I lived, so hadn't thought of that reality. sheesh. Sometimes I feel a little out of touch with some realities... and I like that cartwheel
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May 4, 2013 10:44 PM CST Is a cell phone necessary?
rohaan: Hi Sweetie. My bad for not calling, here's my excuse: I want to call you, but do not want to appear to be pestering you. The couple of times we've talkied (note to other members--crazy and I are , like, girlfriends; our moons are in the same house, whatever...) have been great. Still, I am respectful that there are so many people out there who bother others and I don't want to come across that way. Hope that 'splains it all. Tell you what, I'll call tonight, around 7, Calif. time. Okay? Love you, railly I do!


Ugh I missed your call!! Dang it!! moping You will never be a pest!

Love you to the moon!! heart wings heart wings teddybear
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May 5, 2013 12:23 AM CST Is a cell phone necessary?
Nikogas
NikogasNikogasMetro, Oregon USA46 Threads 5 Polls 4,037 Posts
PrettyPrescious: I don't have a cell phone. Whenever a man finds this out, I never hear from him again. What is going on? Do they think I am some kind of a freak? or is making a phone call not the thing to do these days? Advice?


I don't know. you have a computer obviously. At what point does the "cell phone" become an issue? Do you mean that you also do not have a land line? Do you live on your own or with your parents? What about your kids? how do they reach you? Well. those are some of the things that peak my curiosity. You don't have to have a cell phone. I use mine for business and I am available 24/7 I like it that way. I don't have a smartphone but I will be getting one so I can run credit cards on it as soon as my contract is fulfilled with the old company. But for now I have a 5 dollar phone from best buy. pretty cheap but I didn't want to get a nice one quite yet. How far away are these guys you meet? if they are local you could just meet them at the corner store. The General Store there in Kent. But what happens if you get busy and need to let them know you cant make it? Please let me know. I'm worried already!!
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May 5, 2013 12:26 AM CST Is a cell phone necessary?
montemonte
montemontemontemonteunknown, New Jersey USA114 Threads 4 Polls 5,631 Posts
I have a landline in my home to receive and make phone calls but more importantly for the 9-1-1 feature if I need an ambulance.

Cell phones do not have the 9-1-1 feature.

I also have a cell phone in case my car breaks down or should I get in an accident. Having skype or a computer at home isn't going to help me when my car gets hit by some whacko who was texting while driving.
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May 5, 2013 1:26 AM CST Is a cell phone necessary?
Torless
TorlessTorlessChristchurch, Canterbury New Zealand9 Threads 1,499 Posts
MADDOG69: How are you with Smoke Signals?


so funny lol
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May 5, 2013 1:32 AM CST Is a cell phone necessary?
Nikogas
NikogasNikogasMetro, Oregon USA46 Threads 5 Polls 4,037 Posts
Torless: so funny lol

I wonder if you could talk to each other using the stars. But then you would still have to have some common knowledge and a way to change the orbital distances of planets and other heavenly bodies. Oh heck, the phone is sounding a lot simpler. LOL, texting with Smoke.
doh
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May 5, 2013 6:02 AM CST Is a cell phone necessary?
Halv0
Halv0Halv0Marcoola, Queensland Australia19 Threads 766 Posts
PrettyPrescious: I don't have a cell phone. Whenever a man finds this out, I never hear from him again. What is going on? Do they think I am some kind of a freak? or is making a phone call not the thing to do these days? Advice?


To answer your two questions in this thread:

1. Is a cell phone necessary? Only a person who has a cell phone needs one. If you don't have a cell phone, you don't need one. Marketing has developed the art of making a luxury item into a necessary item. But it is not necessary.

2. You never contacted me, so I am one that would still have contacted you even though you do not have a cell phone. There are many others out there as well, so maybe it goes with the "kinds" or "types" of guys you are contacting or getting contacted by.

3. If they do not contact you after finding this out, count your blessings. What would they do if they found out something far more important to you that they didn't like? So count your blessings that they disappeared before it got to the level of becoming really hurtful and harmful to your emotions if they just upped and left when you were really connected with them or even in a relationship with them.
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May 5, 2013 6:12 AM CST Is a cell phone necessary?
Suicide_Mission
Suicide_MissionSuicide_MissionBrisbane, Queensland Australia124 Posts
a cell phone is not necessary. neither is the internet. so you people get out there and meet the old fashioned way and stop this nonsense. i'm gonna club a woman and drag her to my cave. which is normal courtship in Australia.
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May 5, 2013 8:57 AM CST Is a cell phone necessary?
renanthera
renantherarenantheraBandung, West Java Indonesia79 Posts
PrettyPrescious: I don't have a cell phone. Whenever a man finds this out, I never hear from him again. What is going on? Do they think I am some kind of a freak? or is making a phone call not the thing to do these days? Advice?

I don't think you are a freak because using technology is a matter of choice.
It's developed to make things be done easier. You don't have to use it if you dont need it.
I have a friend who has no cell phone. He is still very much happy with his life.
Oh well, I just hope that nothing bad happens when he's all alone in the middle of no where.
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May 5, 2013 11:03 AM CST Is a cell phone necessary?
abcWOMAN
abcWOMANabcWOMANLuleå, Norrbotten Sweden20 Threads 2 Polls 1,583 Posts
PrettyPrescious: I don't have a cell phone. Whenever a man finds this out, I never hear from him again. What is going on? Do they think I am some kind of a freak? or is making a phone call not the thing to do these days? Advice?


I think you should be lucky not being dependant on cell phones!thumbs up

I'm dependant on cell phones in my work; always reachable!
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May 5, 2013 8:50 PM CST Is a cell phone necessary?
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
PrettyPrescious: I don't have a cell phone. Whenever a man finds this out, I never hear from him again. What is going on? Do they think I am some kind of a freak? or is making a phone call not the thing to do these days? Advice?


It sounds to me that these men want to see if his cell phone and her cell phone are a good match for each other. What the heck is wrong with people who's criteria to pursue a relationship is on whether someone has a cell phone. I think they are the freaks, not you...you're better off without them. beer
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