Sitting with your Past (59)
serene56: Have you come to terms with your past?
Is it water under the bridge or does it really affect how you perceive new people who come into your life
Is it water under the bridge or does it really affect how you perceive new people who come into your life
I am proud of the person I am and my past is a part of what makes me unique and special. Sure there are things that we wish were different but no amount of wishing can take you back there to change it...
So we have 2 choices we can sit still feeling anger sorrow hate wallowing in our own self pity
or
We can take a step forward each day look at something good that we have to offer and keep walking...
I choose to walk forward with my head held high and not blame the past for who I am today..
because I am lovely
Peneloperosejae: I am proud of the person I am and my past is a part of what makes me unique and special. Sure there are things that we wish were different but no amount of wishing can take you back there to change it...
So we have 2 choices we can sit still feeling anger sorrow hate wallowing in our own self pity
or
We can take a step forward each day look at something good that we have to offer and keep walking...
I choose to walk forward with my head held high and not blame the past for who I am today..
because I am lovely
So we have 2 choices we can sit still feeling anger sorrow hate wallowing in our own self pity
or
We can take a step forward each day look at something good that we have to offer and keep walking...
I choose to walk forward with my head held high and not blame the past for who I am today..
because I am lovely
Indeed you are
serene56: Have you come to terms with your past?
Is it water under the bridge or does it really affect how you perceive new people who come into your life
Is it water under the bridge or does it really affect how you perceive new people who come into your life
my past is my gauge and teacher for my now and what's to come in the future ....
Pointless living in the past or regretting anything, its not like you can change it ... Even if I could, I would not really want too ...
For me people in my life fall into two categories ... those that matter and those that don't ...
so I spose for me its water under the bridge ...........
PrOwLeR_: my past is my gauge and teacher for my now and what's to come in the future ....Pointless living in the past or regretting anything, its not like you can change it ... Even if I could, I would not really want too ...
For me people in my life fall into two categories ... those that matter and those that don't ...so I spose for me its water under the bridge ...........
For me people in my life fall into two categories ... those that matter and those that don't ...so I spose for me its water under the bridge ...........
Not really talking about regret, more about lessons learned and whether you do a kind of mental stocktake when meeting someone new..
serene56: Not really talking about regret, more about lessons learned and whether you do a kind of mental stocktake when meeting someone new..
Interesting thing is, I have my smarts about me, like I am sure we all do .. I do know a new person is not guilty of the crimes of those before them ..
Though yes I think we all rely on hindsight to see the now, don't we ??
I can only put it like this serene I know what qualities I want in a person .... If I did not see something worthwhile and desirable, I would not purse it ... so is this a mental stocktake ... I dunno ....
PrOwLeR_: Interesting thing is, I have my smarts about me, like I am sure we all do .. I do know a new person is not guilty of the crimes of those before them ..
Though yes I think we all rely on hindsight to see the now, don't we ??I can only put it like this serene I know what qualities I want in a person .... If I did not see something worthwhile and desirable, I would not purse it ... so is this a mental stocktake ... I dunno ....
Though yes I think we all rely on hindsight to see the now, don't we ??I can only put it like this serene I know what qualities I want in a person .... If I did not see something worthwhile and desirable, I would not purse it ... so is this a mental stocktake ... I dunno ....
Yeah I guess in posting this thread I was thinking of a guy I met the other day..
He was like a composite of a few guys I've had in my life - funny, attractive, conversational and very appealing .. but also troubled which has been my downfall to a certain extent.
I didn't know whether to run for my life or tell him to lie down
serene56: Not really talking about regret, more about lessons learned and whether you do a kind of mental stocktake when meeting someone new..
Hi Serene,
Yes, I do a mental stocktake when meeting someone new, its called being cautious, and listening for wrong notes...
and when wrong notes... don't happen, a little bit of the brick wall that surrounds me comes down...
That is natural don't you think ?
Merriweather: Hi Serene,
Yes, I do a mental stocktake when meeting someone new, its called being cautious, and listening for wrong notes...
and when wrong notes... don't happen, a little bit of the brick wall that surrounds me comes down...
That is natural don't you think ?
Yes, I do a mental stocktake when meeting someone new, its called being cautious, and listening for wrong notes...
and when wrong notes... don't happen, a little bit of the brick wall that surrounds me comes down...
That is natural don't you think ?
Your brick wall reminds me of my Greek friend Miss MeRRi ... CoN Crete ... have you heard of him ....
.............. Merriweather: Hi Serene,
Yes, I do a mental stocktake when meeting someone new, its called being cautious, and listening for wrong notes...
and when wrong notes... don't happen, a little bit of the brick wall that surrounds me comes down...
That is natural don't you think ?
Yes, I do a mental stocktake when meeting someone new, its called being cautious, and listening for wrong notes...
and when wrong notes... don't happen, a little bit of the brick wall that surrounds me comes down...
That is natural don't you think ?
I imagine so merri
serene56: Yeah I guess in posting this thread I was thinking of a guy I met the other day..
He was like a composite of a few guys I've had in my life - funny, attractive, conversational and very appealing .. but also troubled which has been my downfall to a certain extent.
I didn't know whether to run for my life or tell him to lie down
He was like a composite of a few guys I've had in my life - funny, attractive, conversational and very appealing .. but also troubled which has been my downfall to a certain extent.
I didn't know whether to run for my life or tell him to lie down
Hmmmmmm .... troubled has a way of spreading and ending badly ..
I could not bare to be DraGGeD into anothers unresolved woes ..
Though did you mention something about tieing him to ya BeD ?? ....
PrOwLeR_: Hmmmmmm .... troubled has a way of spreading and ending badly ..
I could not bare to be DraGGeD into anothers unresolved woes ..Though did you mention something about tieing him to ya BeD ?? ....
I could not bare to be DraGGeD into anothers unresolved woes ..Though did you mention something about tieing him to ya BeD ?? ....
I don't think so, did I
Oh no, that's right, I was just thinkin it
Nice lil note with a message and phone no. dropped into my bag but I put the man down and backed away slowly
serene56: I don't think so, did I Oh no, that's right, I was just thinkin it Nice lil note with a message and phone no. dropped into my bag but I put the man down and backed away slowly
That is soooo sad
curly28: That is soooo sad
shows how shallow i can be 
i lmfao "Put the man down and backed away" 
Sorry serene 
sounded like you were clint eastwood 
ok i'll shut up
serene56: Have you come to terms with your past?
Is it water under the bridge or does it really affect how you perceive new people who come into your life
As the old saying goes.Is it water under the bridge or does it really affect how you perceive new people who come into your life
“Dear past thank you for all the lessons, dear future Im ready”
Peneloperosejae: you make me smile like the sun fall out of bed dizzy in my head forget how to breathe the thought of you just drives me wild.
Merriweather: Hi Serene,
Yes, I do a mental stocktake when meeting someone new, its called being cautious, and listening for wrong notes...
and when wrong notes... don't happen, a little bit of the brick wall that surrounds me comes down...
That is natural don't you think ?
Yes, I do a mental stocktake when meeting someone new, its called being cautious, and listening for wrong notes...
and when wrong notes... don't happen, a little bit of the brick wall that surrounds me comes down...
That is natural don't you think ?
Very true merri, I am like that, things that happened in the past(that wasn't nice) you are cautious, so it doesn't happen again. They may only be small things, but turn into large later.
Peneloperosejae: I am proud of the person I am and my past is a part of what makes me unique and special. Sure there are things that we wish were different but no amount of wishing can take you back there to change it...
So we have 2 choices we can sit still feeling anger sorrow hate wallowing in our own self pity
or
We can take a step forward each day look at something good that we have to offer and keep walking...
I choose to walk forward with my head held high and not blame the past for who I am today..
because I am lovely
good postSo we have 2 choices we can sit still feeling anger sorrow hate wallowing in our own self pity
or
We can take a step forward each day look at something good that we have to offer and keep walking...
I choose to walk forward with my head held high and not blame the past for who I am today..
because I am lovely
Peneloperosejae: I am proud of the person I am and my past is a part of what makes me unique and special. Sure there are things that we wish were different but no amount of wishing can take you back there to change it...
So we have 2 choices we can sit still feeling anger sorrow hate wallowing in our own self pity
or
We can take a step forward each day look at something good that we have to offer and keep walking...
I choose to walk forward with my head held high and not blame the past for who I am today..
because I am lovely
nice postSo we have 2 choices we can sit still feeling anger sorrow hate wallowing in our own self pity
or
We can take a step forward each day look at something good that we have to offer and keep walking...
I choose to walk forward with my head held high and not blame the past for who I am today..
because I am lovely
reolvine420: nice post
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Is it water under the bridge or does it really affect how you perceive new people who come into your life