galrads: I understand your point here as to how it may apply to you but it's beyond me why you have any expectation that everyone else should see or want things as you might.
Just my thoughts and opinion galrads, don't read it too deeply, I don't have the need to coerce anyone into seeing things my way.
janie1305Southampton, Hampshire, England UK916 posts
Yes there probably are men in this age group seeking much younger women. God loves a tryer!
Seriously though. I think a lot of older men also feel they are undateable due to their age, whether it be with younger women or those in their own age group. I can tell you that a handful of online dates I've had were with men who had clearly shaved off around ten years of their true age so the evidence is there.
janie1305: Yes there probably are men in this age group seeking much younger women. God loves a tryer!
Seriously though. I think a lot of older men also feel they are undateable due to their age, whether it be with younger women or those in their own age group. I can tell you that a handful of online dates I've had were with men who had clearly shaved off around ten years of their true age so the evidence is there.
I don't know what all that's about, but here in the USA younger women advertise openly for their desired successful older sugar-daddy. Yes ma'am, all they have to do is specify how much money they require for their educations, food, transportation, accommodations etc and low and behold the divorce rate increases magically overnight and the old man's got a new hat too.
galrads: Back to the topic. It's all legal, call it what you like, it's working for a lot of people and most appear to be happier than married folk. Dating may be necessary for us regulars, though dating sucks and probably more expensive (in my opinion, of course)
Depends on the person, I would be uncomfortable to "indept" myself to someone I mightn't want to see again.
I make sure it's give and take (I'm talking about paying for food, activities etc.)
In response to: Why is it that the men on this dating site 50 and up only want girls not women? It's sad ,let them get their girls, so us women can have the real men. Because in 5/10 years they are still alone because their girl found a hunk her age or lol younger, and will leave the 50+year old, drained him dry, so here he wIll be. All alone, ,a lot older, and all dried up. Hope the girl you wanted was worth it. Maybe they cant handle a real woman with wisdom and knows how to treat her man. Good luck to you looking for 18 to 30 .
Too much generalization.. I don’t see anything wrong with people choosing “Whatever fuels their world!”.. . as much as it is legal…..and don’t affect me directly…. everything else is a cake.
I know what I want, and that is enough for me….”live and let live”
Bogart_1960: Too much generalization.. I don’t see anything wrong with people choosing “Whatever fuels their world!”.. . as much as it is legal…..and don’t affect me directly…. everything else is a cake.I know what I want, and that is enough for me….”live and let live”
Amen, brother, Amen! Whatever floats your boat or trips your trigger....
LOL! 18, that's hilarious, do old guys over 50 really_ think they are going to attract a female that young? We're lucky to attract women 40 and up, and that's pushing it nowadays. Women in their 40's are now being asked out by the younger men, such is life right? Probably better off looking for women over 50.
I'm 35 and is living repulsion for younger girls so I don't see how a man of 50 is able to get a young girl. Then again, I have no money so that is probably the factor that makes the difference.
well i beleave there is a silent majority of good weman who would be glad to have a man with a good work ethic who is giveing and honest at any age,,, or at least i hope so or us old guys are in trouble
mickyj63adelaide, South Australia Australia2,362 posts
jbarbara7164: Why is it that the men on this dating site 50 and up only want girls not women? It's sad ,let them get their girls, so us women can have the real men. Because in 5/10 years they are still alone because their girl found a hunk her age or lol younger, and will leave the 50+year old, drained him dry, so here he wIll be. All alone, ,a lot older, and all dried up. Hope the girl you wanted was worth it. Maybe they cant handle a real woman with wisdom and knows how to treat her man. Good luck to you looking for 18 to 30 .
Why is it as a male of 50 that all I get from women in their 40's are 1 Players who spike my drinks with speed 2 Women who complain about me wearing gold or cologne or the steering wheel in my car or my low paying job 3 That I'm not good looking enough or young enough for them
Goes both ways Sister you girls want younger men and large bank accounts and control!
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Just my thoughts and opinion galrads, don't read it too deeply, I don't have the need to coerce anyone into seeing things my way.