what is on your mind 17 (772)

Jan 28, 2014 6:04 PM CST what is on your mind 17
facetowardsfront
facetowardsfrontfacetowardsfrontCork, Ireland42 Threads 1 Polls 2,921 Posts
fifitrixibelle: Indeed, you could post man hating threads for months.....



Just pick up any newspaper or turn on any TV or radio station. They're there 24/7

Night now, I'm off to smoke some e-pillow wave
Jan 28, 2014 6:06 PM CST what is on your mind 17
fifitrixibelle
fifitrixibellefifitrixibellegalway, Galway Ireland20 Threads 1 Polls 4,629 Posts
facetowardsfront: Just pick up any newspaper or turn on any TV or radio station. They're there 24/7

Night now, I'm off to smoke some e-pillow
Keep your hands outside the esheets love
Jan 28, 2014 6:20 PM CST what is on your mind 17
Glengirl
GlengirlGlengirlConvoy, Donegal Ireland54 Threads 2 Polls 5,560 Posts
Just for clarification, when you "delete" your profile, it can still be reactivated after several months wave
Jan 28, 2014 6:24 PM CST what is on your mind 17
jamiethekid
jamiethekidjamiethekidtipperary, Tipperary Ireland2 Threads 524 Posts
Glengirl: Just for clarification, when you "delete" your profile, it can still be reactivated after several months
l knew that and people can also still hack your account without you knowing
Jan 28, 2014 6:27 PM CST what is on your mind 17
Glengirl
GlengirlGlengirlConvoy, Donegal Ireland54 Threads 2 Polls 5,560 Posts
jamiethekid: l knew that and people can also still hack your account without you knowing


Remember Jamie, I'm only a "chav"....bit slow on the uptake wine
Jan 28, 2014 6:31 PM CST what is on your mind 17
jamiethekid
jamiethekidjamiethekidtipperary, Tipperary Ireland2 Threads 524 Posts
Glengirl: Remember Jamie, I'm only a "chav"....bit slow on the uptake
Ah I wouldn't call you a chav or slow on the uptake, after all you are from Donegallaugh
Jan 28, 2014 6:34 PM CST what is on your mind 17
Glengirl
GlengirlGlengirlConvoy, Donegal Ireland54 Threads 2 Polls 5,560 Posts
jamiethekid: Ah I wouldn't call you a chav or slow on the uptake, after all you are from Donegal


Selective memory is a wonderful thing snooty
Jan 29, 2014 6:49 AM CST what is on your mind 17
anniebaby
anniebabyanniebabydonegal, Donegal Ireland181 Threads 3 Polls 5,281 Posts
There are some amazing people on here some of who I like to think of as friends.

bouquet
Jan 29, 2014 7:31 AM CST what is on your mind 17
sofarsogood74
sofarsogood74sofarsogood74Dublin, Ireland40 Threads 4 Polls 2,711 Posts
30K pay off for families living near Large power lines. The government knows these things cause cancer and they think throwing a low income family (because you can bet your bottom dollar the lines wont go anyway near a high income area!) is the solution.
It just shows that the government dont give a f@ck about the people of the country. It's big business all the way!
Jan 29, 2014 8:45 AM CST what is on your mind 17
fifitheminx
fifitheminxfifitheminxDublin, Ireland35 Threads 4,039 Posts
anniebaby: There are some amazing people on here some of who I like to think of as friends.


Like often finds like wink
Jan 29, 2014 8:49 AM CST what is on your mind 17
fifitheminx
fifitheminxfifitheminxDublin, Ireland35 Threads 4,039 Posts
sofarsogood74: 30K pay off for families living near Large power lines. The government knows these things cause cancer and they think throwing a low income family (because you can bet your bottom dollar the lines wont go anyway near a high income area!) is the solution.
It just shows that the government dont give a f@ck about the people of the country. It's big business all the way!


Don't you love human nature...while some learn to feather their own nest nevermind who they hurt once they are fine..there is always those who time after time have hope in their heart the others would see the other side, for a change.
Jan 29, 2014 10:01 AM CST what is on your mind 17
sofarsogood74
sofarsogood74sofarsogood74Dublin, Ireland40 Threads 4 Polls 2,711 Posts
fifitheminx: Don't you love human nature...while some learn to feather their own nest nevermind who they hurt once they are fine..there is always those who time after time have hope in their heart the others would see the other side, for a change.



Very true A......But I think we're swimming against the current. moping
Jan 29, 2014 11:02 AM CST what is on your mind 17
tinyfangs
tinyfangstinyfangsunder a rock, Leitrim Ireland26 Threads 4 Polls 1,034 Posts
anniebaby: How are you meant to let go of someone that meant so much to you

If it is a loss through death, yes.. time helps ease, but the missing will never go away fully, I don't think. Lost both of my parents now, and even though with my dad it has been 5 years, the pain is still bad, and of course with my mum anyway, that was February last year. Think less about it now, but when I do I still cry. The loss of a child or dearly beloved partner through death, I'd say must be one of the worst traumas, and some will never move past it, although losing parents can be hard too.

Letting go of a failed relationship though is very different, I believe. The cocktail of that pain is made up of various ingrediences. I think it can also be about having to face up to that our dreams and expactations lie shattered, and we can end struggling with feeling a loss of self worth and time invested that seems to have been wasted. There can also be fear involved, for if we really counted on that relationship to last, we can end questioning our judgement and end scared that if we should come to feel again, it might just go the same way, plus the fear of the unknown and sudden loss of habbits. Some of this I have found can also hit the one leaving. Self value feelings are usually not a problem for the one leaving, but the rest can be just as painful and scary, not to mention the feeling of guilt.

The way how I try to look at it is that those who love us want us happy. My parents would not wish me to cry every day, and so I try remember all the wonderful things and draw comfort from having them as memories. That helps me heaps and can stop the tears.
In regards to relationships, or 'romantic feelings', to a degree the same principle applies. If we claim to care for someone, their happiness should matter to us, even if it lies elsewhere, and of course also to look at it that we are free again to find that someone for who we are right, and to see it as a journey with stops on the way, but the final destination still lies ahead.

hug
Jan 29, 2014 12:56 PM CST what is on your mind 17
in a methophorical sense ive become like a sponge i soak up the good vibes, and give out the grace from it, kind of like karmajoy
Jan 29, 2014 12:59 PM CST what is on your mind 17
benni2
benni2benni2eire, Tipperary Ireland26 Threads 2,399 Posts
pedro27: in a methophorical sense ive become like a sponge i soak up the good vibes, and give out the grace from it, kind of like karma
reminds me must clean out the chip pan
Jan 29, 2014 1:35 PM CST what is on your mind 17
WittyandWise
WittyandWiseWittyandWiseDerry, Donegal Ireland15 Threads 2 Polls 3,364 Posts
benni2: reminds me must clean out the men in my life


I'l have them if you're done with them thumbs up
Jan 29, 2014 1:36 PM CST what is on your mind 17
benni2
benni2benni2eire, Tipperary Ireland26 Threads 2,399 Posts
WittyandWise: I'l have them if you're done with them
floosy
Jan 29, 2014 1:37 PM CST what is on your mind 17
WittyandWise
WittyandWiseWittyandWiseDerry, Donegal Ireland15 Threads 2 Polls 3,364 Posts
Glengirl: Selective memory is a wonderful thing


giggle

welcome back GGwave
Jan 29, 2014 1:39 PM CST what is on your mind 17
WittyandWise
WittyandWiseWittyandWiseDerry, Donegal Ireland15 Threads 2 Polls 3,364 Posts
benni2: floosy


re cycling, helping the environmentinnocent
Jan 29, 2014 1:46 PM CST what is on your mind 17
benni2
benni2benni2eire, Tipperary Ireland26 Threads 2,399 Posts
WittyandWise: re cycling, helping the environment
ill give you recycling
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