Is it right for women to ask for a date instead of waiting on some shy men? ( Archived) (159)

Sat Sep 6, 2014 4:16 AM CST Is it right for women to ask for a date instead of waiting on some shy men?
Benny1518
Benny1518Benny1518Port jervis, New York USA47 Threads 886 Posts
Yes. Why shouldn't a woman take the initiative if she realized that her prospective date is too bashful to say the word.
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Sat Sep 6, 2014 4:18 AM CST Is it right for women to ask for a date instead of waiting on some shy men?
There is no 'right' or 'wrong' in dating.
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Sat Sep 6, 2014 4:24 AM CST Is it right for women to ask for a date instead of waiting on some shy men?
mnowsa
mnowsamnowsaRajshahi, Bangladesh180 Threads 10,757 Posts
Benny1518: Yes. Why shouldn't a woman take the initiative if she realized that her prospective date is too bashful to say the word.


Of course, a woman should ask a man for a date. After all, for the sake "gender equality", women should also risk the same deal of "shamelessness and fear of rejection" as men.
dunno laugh
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Sat Sep 6, 2014 4:33 AM CST Is it right for women to ask for a date instead of waiting on some shy men?
Nidifugous
NidifugousNidifugousYap, Federated States of Micronesia58 Threads 2,342 Posts
mnowsa: Of course, a woman should ask a man for a date. After all, for the sake "gender equality", women should also risk the same deal of "shamelessness and fear of rejection" as men.


laugh We don't need to. Men are always more desperate than women laugh wink
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Sat Sep 6, 2014 4:41 AM CST Is it right for women to ask for a date instead of waiting on some shy men?
mnowsa
mnowsamnowsaRajshahi, Bangladesh180 Threads 10,757 Posts
Nidifugous: We don't need to. Men are always more desperate than women


that's debatable because you women can also be as desperate as men. However, the difference is that you women are damn good at "hiding" your desperation while we men are simply soooooooooooo stupid....doh laugh
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Sat Sep 6, 2014 4:43 AM CST Is it right for women to ask for a date instead of waiting on some shy men?
Benny1518
Benny1518Benny1518Port jervis, New York USA47 Threads 886 Posts
Nidi, what if you are in love and you know he loves you wouldn't you try to push the relationship along.
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Sat Sep 6, 2014 4:43 AM CST Is it right for women to ask for a date instead of waiting on some shy men?
Benny1518
Benny1518Benny1518Port jervis, New York USA47 Threads 886 Posts
Nidi, what if you are in love and you know he loves you wouldn't you try to push the relationship along.
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Sat Sep 6, 2014 4:47 AM CST Is it right for women to ask for a date instead of waiting on some shy men?
Benny1518
Benny1518Benny1518Port jervis, New York USA47 Threads 886 Posts
Nidi, I know what you are alluding to(sex) but both sexes can become desperate.
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Sat Sep 6, 2014 4:57 AM CST Is it right for women to ask for a date instead of waiting on some shy men?
mnowsa
mnowsamnowsaRajshahi, Bangladesh180 Threads 10,757 Posts
Benny1518: Nidi, what if you are in love and you know he loves you wouldn't you try to push the relationship along.


yes, benny. Gone are those days when only men would need to ask women for date. We men demand that women also ask men for date from now on. We men revolt!! devil
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Sat Sep 6, 2014 5:03 AM CST Is it right for women to ask for a date instead of waiting on some shy men?
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia551 Threads 33,225 Posts
mnowsa: yes, benny. Gone are those days when only men would need to ask women for date. We men demand that women also ask men for date from now on. We men revolt!!



Revolting men don't get asked for dates yanno giggle
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Sat Sep 6, 2014 5:06 AM CST Is it right for women to ask for a date instead of waiting on some shy men?
mnowsa
mnowsamnowsaRajshahi, Bangladesh180 Threads 10,757 Posts
serene56: Revolting men don't get asked for dates yanno


oh...they don't? hmmm.......then i lay down my weapon. I am good.grin
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Sat Sep 6, 2014 5:52 AM CST Is it right for women to ask for a date instead of waiting on some shy men?
Benny1518
Benny1518Benny1518Port jervis, New York USA47 Threads 886 Posts
Serena, I get your point but how many women here are attracted to "Mr. Nice Guy?" Probably a few.
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Sat Sep 6, 2014 5:52 AM CST Is it right for women to ask for a date instead of waiting on some shy men?
Benny1518
Benny1518Benny1518Port jervis, New York USA47 Threads 886 Posts
Serena, I get your point but how many women here are attracted to "Mr. Nice Guy?" Probably a few.
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Sat Sep 6, 2014 5:52 AM CST Is it right for women to ask for a date instead of waiting on some shy men?
Benny1518
Benny1518Benny1518Port jervis, New York USA47 Threads 886 Posts
Serena, I get your point but how many women here are attracted to "Mr. Nice Guy?" Probably a few.
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Sat Sep 6, 2014 6:04 AM CST Is it right for women to ask for a date instead of waiting on some shy men?
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland38 Threads 16,846 Posts
Benny1518: Serena, I get your point but how many women here are attracted to "Mr. Nice Guy?" Probably a few.


Define "Mr Nice Guy"? confused
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Sat Sep 6, 2014 6:09 AM CST Is it right for women to ask for a date instead of waiting on some shy men?
Nidifugous
NidifugousNidifugousYap, Federated States of Micronesia58 Threads 2,342 Posts
mnowsa: that's debatable because you women can also be as desperate as men. However, the difference is that you women are damn good at "hiding" your desperation while we men are simply soooooooooooo stupid....


It's called testosterone.
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Sat Sep 6, 2014 6:15 AM CST Is it right for women to ask for a date instead of waiting on some shy men?
Nidifugous
NidifugousNidifugousYap, Federated States of Micronesia58 Threads 2,342 Posts
Benny1518: Nidi, what if you are in love and you know he loves you wouldn't you try to push the relationship along.


I was referring to the biological facts. Physically, 99% of women are never as hard up for sex as men. Generally speaking, women seek intimacy before they seek sex. Yes, women can get desperate and usually they become desperate when they feel lonely and then they make bad choices.

You're asking whether I would take initiative if I loved the guy and knew that he was in love with me? I think the guy that I'd be in love with would be the kind that would take the initiative.
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Sat Sep 6, 2014 6:18 AM CST Is it right for women to ask for a date instead of waiting on some shy men?
mnowsa
mnowsamnowsaRajshahi, Bangladesh180 Threads 10,757 Posts
Nidifugous: It's called testosterone.


lol...so it is not our fault. Besides, if it was not for testosterone, you women would remain "virgin" all of your life with no cute babies and family..rolling on the floor laughing
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Sat Sep 6, 2014 6:50 AM CST Is it right for women to ask for a date instead of waiting on some shy men?
Benny1518
Benny1518Benny1518Port jervis, New York USA47 Threads 886 Posts
Unloaise,guys who are afraid to be themselves or lacking in testestorone.
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Sat Sep 6, 2014 6:50 AM CST Is it right for women to ask for a date instead of waiting on some shy men?
Benny1518
Benny1518Benny1518Port jervis, New York USA47 Threads 886 Posts
Unloaise,guys who are afraid to be themselves or lacking in testestorone.
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