Depression ( Archived) (129)

Sep 8, 2014 5:36 AM CST Depression
thelad2007
thelad2007thelad2007Waterford, Ireland645 Posts
track16 you ve probably started one of the most important threads on this web site. thank you and best of luck to you and fellow posters regarding these problems. you may find some solutions from fellow posters regarding your own problems. world mental health problems require urgent immediate action. some sad irish stories from the result of mental health problems:



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Sep 8, 2014 6:10 AM CST Depression
PinkCoral2
PinkCoral2PinkCoral2Bakersfield, California USA49 Posts
bodleing2: Happiness is a state of mind, as is depression, they are in fact polar opposites. Both are transitory, unless of course if you are able to be happy for no particular reason...a pure state of mind.



I like what you just said here about happiness for no particular reason. cool teddybear
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Sep 8, 2014 7:36 AM CST Depression
Dragos1
Dragos1Dragos1Metro, Oregon USA54 Threads 1 Polls 1,982 Posts
Depression is an extreme condition. Happiness is not an opposing condition. "Mania" would me more likely to be the opposite of depression. Even to say that Sad is the opposite of happiness would not be so accurate as "mad" or "anger" are both emotions that are not labeled as extreme in themselves alone. A "manic depressive" experiences polar opposites, more currently labeled as "Bipolar disorder". I remember all to well it is one of the symptomatic issues when dealing with, maintaining or even diagnosing someone especially while in a manic state. During that time all worries many times are gone and in the situation where medication or the absence of alcohol are deliberate the "Manic" individual finds that they are in no need of these guidelines or to maintain an even disposition and though for a bit of time may seem very much bigger than life and ignore many of the things that tell us to keep things in check until the extreme swings downward into the much darker realm and likely more obvious signs are visible.

Having feelings such as happiness, sadness and anger are not unhealthy when they are expressed in ways that do not endanger ourselves or others. To be void of emotion or to suppress these regular emotions because of what we were taught or a lack of communication to that level is very common and we see it many times when at some point these emotions come bubbling out in directions unknown. But these extreme feelings of the Bipolar disorder or Depression are debilitating and lack control pushing to a possible dangerous and very possibly uncomfortable state of mind for that individual and with possibly ill effect to people in their lives. I spent many years doing what I could to stand strong with especially one but not limited to and through counseling, Jail, Medicine, Self Medication, Religion, Meditation, Several metaphysical practices and ways of life including Buddhism, Hinduism etc. and things I can't think of at the moment till one day I was exhausted and many years had gone by. I think this is, in different degrees is a world wide issue. It is in no way limited to any one part of the world or to one gender or the other.
That said I still believe it is not hopeless and a solution is there if those that need this can truly reach or be reached from within or even the help of someone outside of their mind.
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Sep 8, 2014 8:02 AM CST Depression
Bauksi
BauksiBauksiVölkermarkt, Carinthia Austria13 Threads 8 Polls 101 Posts
In response to: ...unless of course if you are able to be happy for no particular reason...


that would be a really happy person and - you would not believe it - sometimes I am such a person when I am crazy enough to be happy with myself.
laugh
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Sep 8, 2014 8:02 AM CST Depression
jac_the_gripper
jac_the_gripperjac_the_gripperTonyrefail, South Glamorgan, Wales UK24 Threads 5,363 Posts
That's an interesting point that you make about mania possibly being the opposite of depression, rather than happiness, Dragos.

I think for some people who have an underlying depression, it can almost be like there are two selves, or a disassociation from long term depression: whilst they might function on the surface, go to parties, work, joke around there may be an inner core that is struggling with depression. Maybe it's a bit like Russian dolls with a presenting self and an inner self who aren't matching up for some reason. Sometimes this can be difficult to recognise as we're so used to suppressing the inner self for the sake of others.

With reference to using language like 'depression' and 'mania', and also to reply to Berry's earlier post, I went to a workshop recently by a big wig psychiatrist who explained an alternative to diagnosis.

Diagnoses aren't necessarily the most useful way of dealing with this kind of health issue. A diagnosis is a relatively subjective assessment of how a cluster of symptoms fits into a category, or model. Diagnoses can have their uses (like ownership of the symptoms for the client), but they don't really tell us very much about the person and they can be detrimental in terms of taking people's identity away from them.

Another way of assessing a person's position is a model, or 'formulation', called the four P's:

PREDISPOSING: Factors such as isolation, genetic inheritance, substance misuse.

PRECIPITATING: Factors such as a bereavement, trauma, sometimes small life events which tip a person over.

PERPETUATING: Factors which maintain the position of the distressed person, such as negative self-talk, chronic illness, or pain, substance misuse.

PROTECTIVE: Self-esteem, support, personal development, company.

Factors may fit into more than one category, for example, isolation might a precipitating factor and a perpetuating one, trauma might be a predisposing and precipitating factor, especially if their is a link between each trauma such as an unresolved bereavement followed by another.

This formulation tells us so much more about a person than a diagnosis such as depression, especially when explored using the 5 w's - for each factor explore who, where, why, what and when.

By using alternative approaches to depression, each person may start to unravel the complexities behind their individual issues for themselves.
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Sep 8, 2014 10:19 AM CST Depression
Dragos1
Dragos1Dragos1Metro, Oregon USA54 Threads 1 Polls 1,982 Posts
I don't think it must be one or the other. People have mixed feelings as well. Nothing strange about that. In reference to happy or sad.
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Sep 8, 2014 11:41 AM CST Depression
the hearts elements. imo doing the right thing in most areas of life leads to inner peace. a unique part of the human race. wave
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Sep 8, 2014 11:45 AM CST Depression
imo thoughts are not as much judged in the end, more judged is the 'will' of each person!
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Sep 8, 2014 11:47 AM CST Depression
jac_the_gripper
jac_the_gripperjac_the_gripperTonyrefail, South Glamorgan, Wales UK24 Threads 5,363 Posts
Dragos1: I don't think it must be one or the other. People have mixed feelings as well. Nothing strange about that. In reference to happy or sad.

Yeah, I reckon I can have a multitude of feelings going on at once and sometimes very conflicting feelings. Isn't that why we use words like 'ambivalence'?
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Sep 8, 2014 11:49 AM CST Depression
jac_the_gripper
jac_the_gripperjac_the_gripperTonyrefail, South Glamorgan, Wales UK24 Threads 5,363 Posts
pedro27: imo thoughts are not as much judged in the end, more judged is the 'will' of each person!

Abolutely, we may have thoughts which we don't like, we don't want to be a certain way and we may look for why, or how those thoughts came about.
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Sep 8, 2014 12:30 PM CST Depression
serena123
serena123serena123durban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa44 Threads 2 Polls 2,821 Posts
Depression is a very real illness, shouldn't be taken lightly...If it is left untreated or ignored there could be serious problems
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Sep 8, 2014 12:32 PM CST Depression
zaheerrana
zaheerranazaheerranalahore, Punjab Pakistan275 Posts
niss miss ............................coffee...... handshake ...........sad flower sad flower sad flower sad flower sad flower
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Sep 8, 2014 12:36 PM CST Depression
serena123
serena123serena123durban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa44 Threads 2 Polls 2,821 Posts
zaheerrana: niss miss .................................. ...........

Now if I were a psychiatrist.. You wouldbe my "case study" Zah
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Sep 8, 2014 12:43 PM CST Depression
zaheerrana
zaheerranazaheerranalahore, Punjab Pakistan275 Posts
serena123: Now if I were a psychiatrist.. You wouldbe my "case study" Zah
nice miss ...............................choir dancingsanta playball sheep
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Sep 8, 2014 1:33 PM CST Depression
bodleing2
bodleing2bodleing2Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK84 Threads 6,132 Posts
jac_the_gripper: I think different people's experience, or understanding might be different.

We have an iconic image of the clown who is experiences both positive and negative emotions at the same time.

Many people are unaware they have an underlying depression. Their experience is of physical unwellness, or just not feeling right.

Maybe emotions are not exclusive for everyone. Maybe we are complex and everything to do with the body and mind is not so linear and compartmentalised for everyone.

Maybe we can't define everyone the in the same way. Maybe people have a right to have control over that themselves. Some even might say the right, need, or ability to govern the self is at the very root of well-being.


Of course there are varying degrees of depression, but almost always (except for the more rare condition of clinical depression) emotions (fed by thoughts) are at the source of the condition. Thoughts become feelings and the experience of feeling physically unwell due to an underlying depressive condition is always fueled by thoughts, without exception. The body reacts to what the mind is telling it. There is now strong opinion that many types of illness can be attributed to the way we think...depression is self created, in being so it can also be self defeated.
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Sep 8, 2014 1:52 PM CST Depression
jac_the_gripper
jac_the_gripperjac_the_gripperTonyrefail, South Glamorgan, Wales UK24 Threads 5,363 Posts
bodleing2: Of course there are varying degrees of depression, but almost always (except for the more rare condition of clinical depression) emotions (fed by thoughts) are at the source of the condition. Thoughts become feelings and the experience of feeling physically unwell due to an underlying depressive condition is always fueled by thoughts, without exception. The body reacts to what the mind is telling it. There is now strong opinion that many types of illness can be attributed to the way we think...depression is self created, in being so it can also be self defeated.

If we each lived in a vacuum, I'd agree with you that depression is totally self-created Bodey, but we don't. We have experience which we react to, often forming a tangled web, which I agree may be self-defeated.

It could also be very defeating to come across without making a proper distinction between empowering and blaming people for their own struggles.

People have to find their own paths. People have to find when, where and how they may take responsibility and ownership according to their abilities, their individual experiences and their own belief systems.
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Sep 8, 2014 1:55 PM CST Depression
bodleing2
bodleing2bodleing2Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK84 Threads 6,132 Posts
jac_the_gripper: If we each lived in a vacuum, I'd agree with you that depression is totally self-created Bodey, but we don't. We have experience which we react to, often forming a tangled web, which I agree may be self-defeated.

It could also be very defeating to come across without making a proper distinction between empowering and blaming people for their own struggles.

People have to find their own paths. People have to find when, where and how they may take responsibility and ownership according to their abilities, their individual experiences and their own belief systems.


Can you give me an example of where depression might not be self created, or where thoughts are not the cause of a persons depression?
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Sep 8, 2014 1:58 PM CST Depression
jac_the_gripper: If we each lived in a vacuum, I'd agree with you that depression is totally self-created Bodey, but we don't. We have experience which we react to, often forming a tangled web, which I agree may be self-defeated.

It could also be very defeating to come across without making a proper distinction between empowering and blaming people for their own struggles.

People have to find their own paths. People have to find when, where and how they may take responsibility and ownership according to their abilities, their individual experiences and their own belief systems.
..it really does depress me.....knowing that , no matter how hard I try, is....??? still not able to get my leg over you.........giggle giggle giggle rolling on the floor laughing
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Sep 8, 2014 2:02 PM CST Depression
pedalguy59
pedalguy59pedalguy59Burlington, Ontario Canada28 Threads 1 Polls 6,976 Posts
truheart1941: ..it really does depress me.....knowing that , no matter how hard I try, is....??? still not able to get my leg over you.........


rolling on the floor laughing I was always wondering what that would be like. I'd have to
be a good listener.
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Sep 8, 2014 2:07 PM CST Depression
pedalguy59: I was always wondering what that would be like. I'd have to
be a good listener.
hi P. naaa..just take about 20 lb. of tomatoes.........that should take her ,about 10 minutes to eat.....i.ll be finished by 5 minutes.......rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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