BoredInOR: As simple as that. I'm looking for a woman to have a child with. What should I do ladies?
Built up a relationship with someone, take your time and see if you get on for years and if you could see the "forever" thing working. Otherwise it's not fair on a child or a partner.
BoredInOR: As simple as that. I'm looking for a woman to have a child with. What should I do ladies?
I'd advise you to be patient and first find love. If not love, someone you truly respect and can see yourself starting a family with.
Invest time to get to know her, her goals, and expectations.
Caution, find out what her intentions are. There are crazy, desperate women who want to have children for the sole purpose of collecting child support for 18 years. (I don't know what you do for a living...I mean, if you're the head cashier at a Walmart, you probably wouldn't be a target for these types of women )
BoredInOR: As simple as that. I'm looking for a woman to have a child with. What should I do ladies?
From your profile: Don't bother me if you're even slightly self absorbed...
Have you ever been around a pregnant woman? We can get kinda...focussed.
If I were you, I'd do something about your negative attitude towards women. Once you've got that sorted in your head, get rid of the negative stuff about women in your profile.
You're also perhaps narrowing down your field asking for a woman to match your (extensive) achievements, but maybe wanting her to put her career on hold to have a child with you. Would sharing what you've achieved be worth having a family to you?
I'm only just getting going with a career now I'm a grandmother because I prioritised being a mum. That was more important to me. Just sayin'.
Boredinor.. You are a young guy who obviously worked hard and know what you want . However, your approach to finding love might be too caveman like. I'm sure you are a nice guy but a better profile and approach might produce a positive response here.
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