lonelytiger68: like most of the gals on here say they want a family and love. but the translation is actually how much money u got and how much junk you carrying.
You said directly and in unprofessional way. Women says its Financial securities+ love. If they get both things they have everything!!!
lonelytiger68: like most of the gals on here say they want a family and love. but the translation is actually how much money u got and how much junk you carrying.
With that attitude, I wouldn't care how much "junk" you lug around. I'd never be interested in someone who has a low opinion of all women
This is the 21st century. Women don't need a man to live a fulfilling life. When are you guys gonna realize that.
After getting out of from a 17 year-old marriage, the last thing I wanna do is to jump right into another one.
However, I might need to if I wanna be with my Bobikins coz of our different nationalities. We'd need to get married in order for me to be able to remain in his country.
Kids with him? I'd love to coz he just love kids! Occasionally, he helps to take care of his grand-nephews and grand-nieces. Also, he has his 87 year-old father living with him. I think he's such a lovely lovely unselfish man.
At 64, I don't think he wants any kids of his own, however. He once told me that he regards his 2 nieces as his own. He took them in when their mother, his youngest sister, fell sick and was too ill to care for them.
So, the answer to your thread is....agree and disagree. Yes to marriage and no to kids.
Mimi1973: After getting out of from a 17 year-old marriage, the last thing I wanna do is to jump right into another one.
However, I might need to if I wanna be with my Bobikins coz of our different nationalities. We'd need to get married in order for me to be able to remain in his country.
Kids with him? I'd love to coz he just love kids! Occasionally, he helps to take care of his grand-nephews and grand-nieces. Also, he has his 87 year-old father living with him. I think he's such a lovely lovely unselfish man.
At 64, I don't think he wants any kids of his own, however. He once told me that he regards his 2 nieces as his own. He took them in when their mother, his youngest sister, fell sick and was too ill to care for them.
So, the answer to your thread is....agree and disagree. Yes to marriage and no to kids.
Hello Skippyguy
Hello Ccincy
Hello Secretagent
Hello Jac
Hello Mimi,There are times when I wish my late husband was still alive today cause he was the love of my life and obviously the father of my son.
He was an excellent provider and a wonderful father.
lonelytiger68: like most of the gals on here say they want a family and love. but the translation is actually how much money u got and how much junk you carrying.
When I met and married my late husband he actually had nothing to begin with so it obviously wasn't what he had.It was more about the kind of man he chose to be and how good he treated me and others.
Ccincy: Hello Mimi,There are times when I wish my late husband was still alive today cause he was the love of my life and obviously the father of my son.
He was an excellent provider and a wonderful father.
We don't want to hear any words. We want actions....of how we will be treated in any relationship. After all...with our female friends we are close with we don't ask for marriage and to build a family. We SHOW how much we,love one another and how we will take care of each other and protect each other. If a man can't SHOW by his actions...why should we have a family with him
Actions of how a man will treat a woman is what we want...words never did or do a thing for us.
secretagent09: With that attitude, I wouldn't care how much "junk" you lug around. I'd never be interested in someone who has a low opinion of all women
This is the 21st century. Women don't need a man to live a fulfilling life. When are you guys gonna realize that.
First you are not representative of all women. There are many women who look for financial securities if they are well earning they always prefer a guy who earn better than them. True??
I am sure you will get many men proposal daily by now because guys love those women who work hard and bring money home and give it to their lazy partner who is jobless...
We don't want to hear any words. We want actions....of how we will be treated in any relationship. After all...with our female friends we are close with we don't ask for marriage and to build a family. We SHOW how much we,love one another and how we will take care of each other and protect each other. If a man can't SHOW by his actions...why should we have a family with him
Actions of how a man will treat a woman is what we want...words never did or do a thing for us.
Well i've just been told this recently by a person (woman...)..so was looking for a consensus
mollybaby: Hi Skippy, I hope that works out for you
Personally, I have no great interest in marriage. I am quite happy just being with somebody who enhances my life.
Hi Molly, well, can't see that happening,...Personally, i'm the kind of guy that dates, and if it leads to more it does..no pre-conceptions... but i'm not against it , when the marriage is already pre-planned that makes me wonder ......
skippyguy: Hi Molly, well, can't see that happening,...Personally, i'm the kind of guy that dates, and if it leads to more it does..no pre-conceptions... but i'm not against it , when the marriage is already pre-planned that makes me wonder ......
quoting myself now, !!!! by pre-planning, this does not directly involve me, in this instance
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