mollybaby: Which Stage Of The Relationship Do You Prefer?
Do you prefer the early stages, when it is all butterflies and lust?
Or the dating stage when you have gotten to know the person, but you still look forward to dressing up to meet them for dinner and drinks?
The comfortable stage, when you eat dinner watching tv, possibly living together, and know each other well enough to finish each other sentences?
I guess I'd better put in the late stage too, in case anybody enjoys the drama of breaking up...
I think all those stages of a relationship have their place. If one believes that it will be lust and butterflies forever, they may be deluded?
A relationship will take a natural progression and just because it seems after a while that its not the same excitement as in the beginning doesn't make that stage of the relationship any less significant or means that one cares any less. It just take a different form......
I don't relish the break-up of a partnership, nor do I seek any drama in it. But if its not working out, for whatever reason, there's no point in prolonging the agony.
vyoleta: They all have their charm and attraction when two people are dating with the same intention.
Couldn't agree more. Only lust and butterflies won't stand...Dating and dressing up forever would be exhausting, but I would say for me the stage when you discover that you are actually in love and enjoy the life you have with that person, which may come at any stage.
Well said. I especially like what you said about break-ups. Not to be relished, but to be taken in perspective :) And true, relationships do take a natural progression and each stage is equally enjoyable if both people are in synch and in it building something together.
well its different onnthe site .whenni met my woman na long time ago allmi done was ask for a dance it was a long tango nearly 40 years that's over and im learning now the new way .what I do now is go for a drink with someone .and one time im hoping it will be the one me new dancing partner nearly was there but it didn't happen I like first meet .I don't be shy at all love seen others a bit out of sorts I do laught to meself some people are so serious about it if I like someone I says it rejection often comes well mostly but theres the chance don't know wher I sit in your survee Frankie but immdure you will advise
johnjjm: well its different onnthe site .whenni met my woman na long time ago allmi done was ask for a dance it was a long tango nearly 40 years that's over and im learning now the new way .what I do now is go for a drink with someone .and one time im hoping it will be the one me new dancing partner nearly was there but it didn't happen I like first meet .I don't be shy at all love seen others a bit out of sorts I do laught to meself some people are so serious about it if I like someone I says it rejection often comes well mostly but theres the chance don't know wher I sit in your survee Frankie but immdure you will advise
I'd say you like all stages, including even the initial stage of first date, by the sounds of things
mollybaby: I'd say you like all stages, including even the initial stage of first date, by the sounds of things
yeah I do have met a few and I didn't even know what they looked like its so funny standing waiting for a woman and not having a clue whats coming im easy to identify being tall but the women its harder I do be grinning like a fella deranged .I think im losing it even nwomen ntelling me im not there type does not stop me .its a game moll that's what it is I had one woman holing hands after 2 minutes .is not right but what can you do will you say a novena for me I has good intensions really
johnjjm: yeah I do have met a few and I didn't even know what they looked like its so funny standing waiting for a woman and not having a clue whats coming im easy to identify being tall but the women its harder I do be grinning like a fella deranged .I think im losing it even nwomen ntelling me im not there type does not stop me .its a game moll that's what it is I had one woman holing hands after 2 minutes .is not right but what can you do will you say a novena for me I has good intensions really
If a novena from a Non-believer will work, I'll say a quick one for you!
Although, I would say, if somebody tells you they are not interested, I would cut my losses there and then. If they are honest like me,they mean it
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Do you prefer the early stages, when it is all butterflies and lust?
Or the dating stage when you have gotten to know the person, but you still look forward to dressing up to meet them for dinner and drinks?
The comfortable stage, when you eat dinner watching tv, possibly living together, and know each other well enough to finish each other sentences?
I guess I'd better put in the late stage too, in case anybody enjoys the drama of breaking up...
The stage where she starts farting in the bed... and laughing about it. I normally stop it at that stage and tell her to get out!