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Nov 29, 2015 10:00 AM CST what truly turns you off
lindsyjones: Track, how re you? Must be cold where you are now?


Getting colder everyday blues Had a brush of snow last night, just enough to cover the ground but enough to know winter is very close.
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Nov 29, 2015 10:11 AM CST what truly turns you off
Track16: Getting colder everyday Had a brush of snow last night, just enough to cover the ground but enough to know winter is very close.


Yes, the El nino is pervasive in the West. There is more snow in the Sierra at the moment than in the Midwest.

Anyways, stay warm..
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Nov 29, 2015 10:20 AM CST what truly turns you off
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
When all a man does is acting like a cry baby about a past love.
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Nov 29, 2015 10:33 AM CST what truly turns you off
Ccincy: When all a man does is acting like a cry baby about a past love.


CC, good morning. Well they do have emotions, too, CC. but yes it is pathetic when they can't move on...IMO, I wouldn't even have anything to do with that kind of a man CC. wave
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Nov 29, 2015 10:44 AM CST what truly turns you off
..when your sitting down...in comfort. about to watch a good film......like the living dead/or chainsaw massacare....then she puts her arms around you,,,,and starts getting mushey....yer know.....that really annoys me.......................doh laugh laugh laugh
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Nov 29, 2015 10:54 AM CST what truly turns you off
truheart1941: ..when your sitting down...in comfort. about to watch a good film......like the living dead/or chainsaw massacare....then she puts her arms around you,,,,and starts getting mushey....yer know.....that really annoys me.......................
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Nov 29, 2015 11:08 AM CST what truly turns you off
yubba
yubbayubbaCaspe, Aragon Spain11 Threads 1,962 Posts
lindsyjones: I have posted "what truly turns you on" and figured it is also important to know what truly turns us off.

I can present some of it myself like: Neglect, the failure to nourish what makes love grow. Control, I mean unreasonable power of the other person to manipulate and make all the decisions without much regard as to the feelings of the other.

Can you share some that truly piss you off?

Thank you all for your participation.


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Bad hygiene.
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Nov 29, 2015 11:16 AM CST what truly turns you off
1to1to1
1to1to11to1to1nbattleford, Saskatchewan Canada3 Threads 30 Posts
Good Morning Lindsyjonessleep wave Hello from Western Canada, In my little corner of the world ,we ve had very little snow yet,confused , and the temperatures are cool, not terribly cold yet,yay , I could live with that,yay yay
As for what really turns me off in a relationship,or even in a friendship,is people who have to lie,(to make themselves look better than they actually are) I ve known some who lie about anything, and everything,and when those lies are discovered ,those same people act as if they (the lies) were nothing. I figure I m honest with people and expect the same in return. I can t build a trust, and loyalty in a friend with lies, and nonsense involved. I m too old fashioned.
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Nov 29, 2015 11:20 AM CST what truly turns you off
yubba: .

Bad hygiene.
Well Yubba, that is easy. Just tell your bitter/better half (that is if you're already shacking together) to clean up.scold scold professor professor wave wave

Just saying. Me too, wheww one time I was sitting next to someone who smells like whoah!!! and my friend told me: "it is weed"rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing but I glanced at him, and he looks like he just got done doing a sewer job.. yay..wave
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Nov 29, 2015 11:24 AM CST what truly turns you off
1to1to1: Good Morning Lindsyjones Hello from Western Canada, In my little corner of the world ,we ve had very little snow yet, , and the temperatures are cool, not terribly cold yet, , I could live with that,
As for what really turns me off in a relationship,or even in a friendship,is people who have to lie,(to make themselves look better than they actually are) I ve known some who lie about anything, and everything,and when those lies are discovered ,those same people act as if they (the lies) were nothing. I figure I m honest with people and expect the same in return. I can t build a trust, and loyalty in a friend with lies, and nonsense involved. I m too old fashioned.


wave wave teddybear

Nice to see you Ito, been a long time. I was wondering how you were for a while. Anyways, yes on lies. I learned over the years that once a liar, will always be a liar. Best thing is to spot them flaw first time. You can't ever make them look at you and admit it. I guess, it is not discernable for them to know that it is a lie.

Winter doesn't seem as bad as last year in the Mid West. California Sierra however, is so full of snow and it is good for business specially in the Tahoe areas. Squaw Valley are booming at the moment. Last year they had to make artificial snow for the skiers.wave wave teddybear teddybear
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Nov 29, 2015 11:24 AM CST what truly turns you off
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
lindsyjones: CC, good morning. Well they do have emotions, too, CC. but yes it is pathetic when they can't move on...IMO, I wouldn't even have anything to do with that kind of a man CC.




lindsy obviously everyone has emotions but a steady diet of feeling sorry for ones self for over 8 years gets a little old after a while.
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Nov 29, 2015 11:29 AM CST what truly turns you off
Ccincy: lindsy obviously everyone has emotions but a steady diet of feeling sorry for ones self for over 8 years gets a little old after a while.


CCsad flower sad flower

You tolerated it that long??? I knew there is something very deeply admirable with you CC. Tolerance and patience. teddybear teddybear
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Nov 29, 2015 11:39 AM CST what truly turns you off
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
lindsyjones: CC

You tolerated it that long??? I knew there is something very deeply admirable with you CC. Tolerance and patience.




It's one of my neighbors.He's so depressed a good share of the time but he won't seek help.I'd be so afraid if I say anything to him that he may do something terrible to himself.He feels he has no friends at all.So I just sit and listen without actually saying anything.

I've learned a lot of tolerance and patience from a long time ago.I had no real choice back then.
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Nov 29, 2015 11:48 AM CST what truly turns you off
Ccincy: It's one of my neighbors.He's so depressed a good share of the time but he won't seek help.I'd be so afraid if I say anything to him that he may do something terrible to himself.He feels he has no friends at all.So I just sit and listen without actually saying anything.

I've learned a lot of tolerance and patience from a long time ago.I had no real choice back then.


Well keep up the good work CC. Your good nature is blessing to all, including me, and I do learn a lot from you. You have no idea, I sometimes back off and digest what it is you are saying and more often than not, it makes me reflect on a better direction as to what I am about to do. Thank you.

People like you turn me on, CC. teddybear teddybear
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Nov 29, 2015 12:12 PM CST what truly turns you off
1to1to1
1to1to11to1to1nbattleford, Saskatchewan Canada3 Threads 30 Posts
Back Again, LJ , I ve mentioned before I have MS, ( its not progressing, but have to use a cane to walk,still active, do a lot of activities, just a lot slower, and have given up a lot of activities..), I can t work anymore because of that, a lot more time on my hands, too much time to think. Life isn t that bad.
Because of having too much time on my hands, its made me a more patient, kinder person, . I find myself not looking at things that turn me off so much in a person, but look at a persons good qualities. And as I look for these qualities, I sure noticed what a lot of people are missing, manners, kind thoughts, positive outlooks on life. These rude people ,I can t handle, and at times,I think to myself If only I could share my ms with them for a little while, and make them realize how good they got it.
I don t think I m becoming some grumpy old man, I m not that old yet, I hope.
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Nov 29, 2015 12:17 PM CST what truly turns you off
1to1to1: Back Again, LJ , I ve mentioned before I have MS, ( its not progressing, but have to use a cane to walk,still active, do a lot of activities, just a lot slower, and have given up a lot of activities..), I can t work anymore because of that, a lot more time on my hands, too much time to think. Life isn t that bad.
Because of having too much time on my hands, its made me a more patient, kinder person, . I find myself not looking at things that turn me off so much in a person, but look at a persons good qualities. And as I look for these qualities, I sure noticed what a lot of people are missing, manners, kind thoughts, positive outlooks on life. These rude people ,I can t handle, and at times,I think to myself If only I could share my ms with them for a little while, and make them realize how good they got it.
I don t think I m becoming some grumpy old man, I m not that old yet, I hope.
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Thanks Ito, nah...and even if you are going to be a GOM. who cares, you have earned it. But back to the illness, of course I remember, you mentioned that in one of my blog. Remember? I share your sentiments, as for me, two cancers and still kicking is enough to make me feel good about life. Now aneurism is the culprit. But these are the mysteries of life, that even with our high tech medical breakthrough, can't seem to handle yet, I am thankful to be alive. Visit my new blog, you might like it.teddybear teddybear
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Dec 6, 2015 10:58 AM CST what truly turns you off
I think anyone who betrays friendship truly turns me off.

Traitors...sad flower sad flower
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Dec 6, 2015 11:12 AM CST what truly turns you off
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
People who lie.
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Dec 6, 2015 11:19 AM CST what truly turns you off
Ccincy: People who lie.


CC wheww that is on top of my list. Anyone who lies, nothing good will come out of them..

Thanks CC. How is your holidays coming up?teddybear teddybear
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Dec 6, 2015 11:27 AM CST what truly turns you off
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
lindsyjones: CC wheww that is on top of my list. Anyone who lies, nothing good will come out of them..

Thanks CC. How is your holidays coming up?




Welcome back lindsy.hug


I don't celebrate the holidays anymore.
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