Lookin4missright: After seeing/dating/bonking a woman with agreed no commitment
She finds a serious relationship with another man god/whoever bless her
Time to say good-bye (Jmo)
But she wants to still be friends and invites the man (previous one) to parties, outings, or over to her place for talks & just visits with new man there etc.. (no hanky panky)
She wants the current man and previous man to bond and previous no commitment man to stay on the scene What for?
It has happened to me the previous man several times over his life, why do they do this
Is she sort of putting the previous man in her back pocket for a rainy day if current man does'nt work out? I have never understood this and i'm sure it happens to other men.
That makes me feel uncomfy and turns me off.
That's quite a load.. He careful.
Finding sincere people these days isn't easy Hope i made sense praise the lawd
lindsyjones: I have posted "what truly turns you on" and figured it is also important to know what truly turns us off.
I can present some of it myself like: Neglect, the failure to nourish what makes love grow. Control, I mean unreasonable power of the other person to manipulate and make all the decisions without much regard as to the feelings of the other.
Can you share some that truly piss you off?
Thank you all for your participation.
When you exchange mails with somebody on here and then 20 mails later they tell you that they are a deeply Christian woman. This isn't so bad, but when it clearly says that you are pagan on your profile and they haven't put anything about their religion on theirs you immediately get turned off. One can only assume that they are either blind or cannot read. They don't mention their own belief on their profile either because that is a turn off for most. They probably are on a thrill ride with the forbidden fruit for as long as possible. May their god go with them...preferably far away from me.
Demeter123: When you exchange mails with somebody on here and then 20 mails later they tell you that they are a deeply Christian woman. This isn't so bad, but when it clearly says that you are pagan on your profile and they haven't put anything about their religion on theirs you immediately get turned off. One can only assume that they are either blind or cannot read. They don't mention their own belief on their profile either because that is a turn off for most. They probably are on a thrill ride with the forbidden fruit for as long as possible. May their god go with them...preferably far away from me.
I think some people intentionally omit their religion is because either they are flexible and or that is not important to them. But of course most think it is an important part of their lives. It is to me.
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