lindsyjones: I have posted "what truly turns you on" and figured it is also important to know what truly turns us off.
I can present some of it myself like: Neglect, the failure to nourish what makes love grow. Control, I mean unreasonable power of the other person to manipulate and make all the decisions without much regard as to the feelings of the other.
Can you share some that truly piss you off?
Thank you all for your participation.
Not many things piss me off - at least these days. I've gotten much more tolerant over the last decade and have always understood that none of us are perfect. Yet there are limits to my goodwill.
I guess the biggest turn off for me is if she espouses feminist ideologies. That's more than a turn off, it's not a chance in hell. If she already has children it's a big "stay away" red flag. Besides that I'm willing to overlook many things as long as she doesn't project her shortcomings on me.
Car54: Not many things piss me off - at least these days. I've gotten much more tolerant over the last decade and have always understood that none of us are perfect. Yet there are limits to my goodwill.
I guess the biggest turn off for me is if she espouses feminist ideologies. That's more than a turn off, it's not a chance in hell. If she already has children it's a big "stay away" red flag. Besides that I'm willing to overlook many things as long as she doesn't project her shortcomings on me.
misogynistic guys turn me off. How did she get children all by herself I wonder
lindsyjones: I have posted "what truly turns you on" and figured it is also important to know what truly turns us off.
I can present some of it myself like: Neglect, the failure to nourish what makes love grow. Control, I mean unreasonable power of the other person to manipulate and make all the decisions without much regard as to the feelings of the other.
Can you share some that truly piss you off?
Thank you all for your participation.
The great person. That person who turns the people around them into a uniform desert, the huge personality and the barren wastes that surround it. I couldn't trust or live with that.
ChesneyChrist: The great person. That person who turns the people around them into a uniform desert, the huge personality and the barren wastes that surround it. I couldn't trust or live with that.
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