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Aug 15, 2015 6:33 AM CST If you were not single would you ......
Dragos1
Dragos1Dragos1Metro, Oregon USA54 Threads 1 Polls 1,982 Posts
If you were not single would you be as obsessed I mean consumed...no, I mean to say "proactive" in things like political debates, Religious "fortitude" doh or even Intense discussion over the movements of this or that government and so on???

Or?? is it possible that there are some (people} that are truly so happy to make that connection that these other things suddenly are not so important and creating that "New" and "Fantastic" relationship is ¿número uno?
is it?
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Aug 15, 2015 6:37 AM CST If you were not single would you ......
DertyHarry44
DertyHarry44DertyHarry44Lakeland, Florida USA91 Threads 1,102 Posts
Dragos1: If you were not single would you be as obsessed I mean consumed...no, I mean to say "proactive" in things like political debates, Religious "fortitude" or even Intense discussion over the movements of this or that government and so on???

Or?? is it possible that there are some (people} that are truly so happy to make that connection that these other things suddenly are not so important and creating that "New" and "Fantastic" relationship is ¿número uno? is it?


numero uno fallowed by numero dos

so Trump is a goner as well as Clinton femalegift
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Aug 15, 2015 6:44 AM CST If you were not single would you ......
Dragos1
Dragos1Dragos1Metro, Oregon USA54 Threads 1 Polls 1,982 Posts
DertyHarry44: numero uno fallowed by numero dos

so Trump is a goner as well as Clinton female


so in other words you are so absorbed into the "single" mindset you just read the last 2-3 words of a paragraph?

laugh
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Aug 15, 2015 6:50 AM CST If you were not single would you ......
DertyHarry44
DertyHarry44DertyHarry44Lakeland, Florida USA91 Threads 1,102 Posts
Dragos1: so in other words you are so absorbed into the "single" mindset you just read the last 2-3 words of a paragraph?


exactly I hate long blogs/thread

I write comments based on last statement or few wordsthumbs up

is why people don't like me herelaugh
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Aug 15, 2015 7:02 AM CST If you were not single would you ......
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,957 Posts
Dragos1: If you were not single would you be as obsessed I mean consumed...no, I mean to say "proactive" in things like political debates, Religious "fortitude" or even Intense discussion over the movements of this or that government and so on???

Or?? is it possible that there are some (people} that are truly so happy to make that connection that these other things suddenly are not so important and creating that "New" and "Fantastic" relationship is ¿número uno? is it?



Great thread Dragos wine

My (single) adult son and I have often had discussions on this topic.


We've agreed that many passions go by the wayside when one is in a relationship, whether it be a happy one, or not.
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Aug 15, 2015 7:11 AM CST If you were not single would you ......
Dragos1
Dragos1Dragos1Metro, Oregon USA54 Threads 1 Polls 1,982 Posts
serene56: Great thread Dragos

My (single) adult son and I have often had discussions on this topic.We've agreed that many passions go by the wayside when one is in a relationship, whether it be a happy one, or not.


Thanks Serene. I think that unfortunately for many it also changes when people become bored with one another. But for sure these things can be overcome especially if people are willing to talk about them.
;-}
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Aug 15, 2015 7:21 AM CST If you were not single would you ......
Lolette
LoletteLoletteLe Mans, Pays de la Loire France15 Threads 1,691 Posts
DertyHarry44: exactly I hate long blogs/thread

I write comments based on last statement or few words

is why people don't like me here



DH ,, i think there's a term to that,, i think it's diagonal reading,, may not be letterally taken,,the sense is just to get the essential of it, just a few could make it efficiently,,
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Aug 18, 2015 12:37 AM CST If you were not single would you ......
professor If I were single, I would not be sitting here typing this. typing pointing (typing this).
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Aug 18, 2015 12:38 AM CST If you were not single would you ......
CuddlingSoul: If I were single, I would not be sitting here typing this. (typing this).
professor Not... I'm tired, you figure it out. laugh
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Aug 18, 2015 1:09 AM CST If you were not single would you ......
Dragos1
Dragos1Dragos1Metro, Oregon USA54 Threads 1 Polls 1,982 Posts
CuddlingSoul: If I were single, I would not be sitting here typing this. (typing this).



You are a good man. thumbs up
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Aug 18, 2015 1:10 AM CST If you were not single would you ......
Dragos1
Dragos1Dragos1Metro, Oregon USA54 Threads 1 Polls 1,982 Posts
P.S. Nor would I ! not even. lol
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Aug 18, 2015 1:31 AM CST If you were not single would you ......
Dragos1: P.S. Nor would I ! not even. lol
wave Hey Dragos... Let me try my comment again. If I were married, or in a relationship, I wouldn't be here typing.
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Aug 18, 2015 1:54 AM CST If you were not single would you ......
Dragos1
Dragos1Dragos1Metro, Oregon USA54 Threads 1 Polls 1,982 Posts
CuddlingSoul: Hey Dragos... Let me try my comment again. If I were married, or in a relationship, I wouldn't be here typing.



yes, I agree, and understood. You conveyed your thoughts quite well.
You know...or don't. But some years ago I met a young lady here and we married. We both removed our profiles. We came back later only to tell the news after many months than deleted those profiles as well. But like many things it just really never had a chance. But that was done and ended some time ago.

conversing
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Aug 18, 2015 1:56 AM CST If you were not single would you ......
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
Dragos1: If you were not single would you be as obsessed I mean consumed...no, I mean to say "proactive" in things like political debates, Religious "fortitude" or even Intense discussion over the movements of this or that government and so on???

Or?? is it possible that there are some (people} that are truly so happy to make that connection that these other things suddenly are not so important and creating that "New" and "Fantastic" relationship is ¿número uno? is it?




I don't get overly-obsessed with anything. I am interested in lots of things, not obsessed.

Therefore, I am interested in the same things, whether single or in a relationship.

I don't get obsessed by relationships eitherlaugh

Not creating gender-wars or anything, but I find men are more likely to become 'obsessed ' with things, whether politics, relationships or golf.
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Aug 18, 2015 2:12 AM CST If you were not single would you ......
Dragos1
Dragos1Dragos1Metro, Oregon USA54 Threads 1 Polls 1,982 Posts
mollybaby: I don't get overly-obsessed with anything. I am interested in lots of things, not obsessed.

Therefore, I am interested in the same things, whether single or in a relationship.

I don't get obsessed by relationships either

Not creating gender-wars or anything, but I find men are more likely to become 'obsessed ' with things, whether politics, relationships or golf.


I have noticed it as well sometimes. Being not only "single" but also detached from mostly everyone I ever knew excepting one or two casual friends I see the world quite different these days.
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Aug 18, 2015 2:14 AM CST If you were not single would you ......
Dragos1: yes, I agree, and understood. You conveyed your thoughts quite well.
You know...or don't. But some years ago I met a young lady here and we married. We both removed our profiles. We came back later only to tell the news after many months than deleted those profiles as well. But like many things it just really never had a chance. But that was done and ended some time ago.
wine No Sir, I don't recall your post about that. Thank you for sharing. So many journeys in life.
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Aug 19, 2015 8:41 PM CST If you were not single would you ......
chame1eon_again
chame1eon_againchame1eon_againBlueberry, Pennsylvania USA85 Posts
That is such a good question to ask. Even if I were not a news/ politics junkie, I know that I wouldn't be happy with someone that did not take the time to understand the world around him. I guess a lot of people view politics like others would view ballet...like something that doesn't effect them. Pity the fools.

While I wouldn't expect my soulguy to fall in lockstep with my opinions (it is a lovely thought) I would expect him to at least know what he's talking about (should he have have differing opinions) and be willing and able to debate. banana
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Aug 19, 2015 9:13 PM CST If you were not single would you ......
Benny2025
Benny2025Benny2025Somewhere in the US, Ohio USA54 Posts
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Sep 11, 2015 9:11 AM CST If you were not single would you ......
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
Dragos1: If you were not single would you be as obsessed I mean consumed...no, I mean to say "proactive" in things like political debates, Religious "fortitude" or even Intense discussion over the movements of this or that government and so on???

Or?? is it possible that there are some (people} that are truly so happy to make that connection that these other things suddenly are not so important and creating that "New" and "Fantastic" relationship is ¿número uno? is it?

I can think of better things to do with my time & energylaugh
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Sep 11, 2015 4:02 PM CST If you were not single would you ......
Ocee102
Ocee102Ocee102unkown, California USA10 Threads 1,399 Posts
Dragos1: If you were not single would you be as obsessed I mean consumed...no, I mean to say "proactive" in things like political debates, Religious "fortitude" or even Intense discussion over the movements of this or that government and so on???

Or?? is it possible that there are some (people} that are truly so happy to make that connection that these other things suddenly are not so important and creating that "New" and "Fantastic" relationship is ¿número uno? is it?



Are you implying we may be tapping some mysterious source

of spare energy our singledom gifts us with?

giggle
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