georgie39linstead ,st catherine, Saint Catherine Jamaica1 Threads52 Posts
georgie39OPlinstead ,st catherine, Saint Catherine Jamaica52 posts
We live in a society where people feel that you must have a partner with whom you can live happily ever after and for many people having a partner is a style statement. We watch romantic movies, read romantic novels or look at lovely couples having great time together and then think that we can only have fun if we have a loving partner with us with whom we can spend golden moments of our life.
but relationships take hard work and dedication not just trust and communication . it takes putting up with another person's fault and short comings .
now the question is how much will u put up with? and how hard are u willing to work for your relationship in order for it to work for you?
georgie39: We live in a society where people feel that you must have a partner with whom you can live happily ever after and for many people having a partner is a style statement. We watch romantic movies, read romantic novels or look at lovely couples having great time together and then think that we can only have fun if we have a loving partner with us with whom we can spend golden moments of our life. but relationships take hard work and dedication not just trust and communication . it takes putting up with another person's fault and short comings . now the question is how much will u put up with? and how hard are u willing to work for your relationship in order for it to work for you?
I have to put up with my hand falling asleep in my relationship
georgie39linstead ,st catherine, Saint Catherine Jamaica1 Threads52 Posts
georgie39OPlinstead ,st catherine, Saint Catherine Jamaica52 posts
a lot of things can have a positive or negative impact on our lives even relationship does changes as well but its how we deal with it. when i had my 9 year old i remember just before going in the delivery room there was this girl had her baby and she cried didnt even want to take the baby the nurses had to coaxed her told her its her child now and it is depending on her to be a good mother. what do u say about that?
georgie39linstead ,st catherine, Saint Catherine Jamaica1 Threads52 Posts
georgie39OPlinstead ,st catherine, Saint Catherine Jamaica52 posts
we all go through changes every day we open our eyes some are more visible than others but we can make it be positive or negative , positive means we can learn from it as well as we can sit and do nothing about it . so does relationships we have to know that there will be things that will be hard to cope with u will be sharing your life with someone else now and every day its a challenge not for one person but for both. some people bolt at the first sign of hardness but as i said in the above statement relationship is hard work . its how much u willing to put in.
georgie39: We live in a society where people feel that you must have a partner with whom you can live happily ever after and for many people having a partner is a style statement. We watch romantic movies, read romantic novels or look at lovely couples having great time together and then think that we can only have fun if we have a loving partner with us with whom we can spend golden moments of our life. but relationships take hard work and dedication not just trust and communication . it takes putting up with another person's fault and short comings . now the question is how much will u put up with? and how hard are u willing to work for your relationship in order for it to work for you?
I will put in a lot of work and effort into a relationship.
They are not always easy, and all go through tough patches, but I am willing to weather the storm.
Sometimes though, you have got to realise when you are the only person manning the wheel, and the other is just a passenger. It is then time to stop off at the next tropical island and dump them.
raphael119washington d.c., District of Columbia USA5,181 posts
My first fiancee really changed a few months before the wedding, she would flirt (until I started in on another girl and shed come running back), pms, and started having temper tantrums. I got even though.
I don't claim t0o be a genius or anything other than wanting a genuine lifelong relationship. BUT There is nothing worse than having ones employment, Hobbies and Interests disputed as impossible or being questioned by someone claiming to be educated, holding a Masters degree, yet writes dreadful English without structure or punctuation and using text speak who just takes the piss. Trouble is they cannot take any back !!
georgie39linstead ,st catherine, Saint Catherine Jamaica1 Threads52 Posts
georgie39OPlinstead ,st catherine, Saint Catherine Jamaica52 posts
thats a hot one Rahael some people just hate to see others happy and maybe she was that type she feels she must do as she wants but as soon as it looks as if u will move on she will get jealous . she doesnt want to stay just to make sure u are always there when she needs you like a back up generator . good thing she shows her color before the wedding, unfortunately some dont not until u are in too deep but nothing is holding people together no more.
MikeD12: I don't claim t0o be a genius or anything other than wanting a genuine lifelong relationship. BUT There is nothing worse than having ones employment, Hobbies and Interests disputed as impossible or being questioned by someone claiming to be educated, holding a Masters degree, yet writes dreadful English without structure or punctuation and using text speak who just takes the piss. Trouble is they cannot take any back !!
georgie39: We live in a society where people feel that you must have a partner with whom you can live happily ever after and for many people having a partner is a style statement. We watch romantic movies, read romantic novels or look at lovely couples having great time together and then think that we can only have fun if we have a loving partner with us with whom we can spend golden moments of our life. but relationships take hard work and dedication not just trust and communication . it takes putting up with another person's fault and short comings . now the question is how much will u put up with? and how hard are u willing to work for your relationship in order for it to work for you?
georgie39: yes Track but how many do u see these days 100%? some take it as a profession.
a way to a easy life and when the going get tough they leave , u have no idea how many i have seen fail.
People think of a relationship the same as getting a new tv, they are loyal to it until a better model comes out, then they dump the old one to get the new one.
People are not commodities, if you can't see yourself staying with a person, you shouldn't get involved with that person to begin with (though people can change when in a relationship to something you were not expecting).
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but relationships take hard work and dedication not just trust and communication . it takes putting up with another person's fault and short comings .
now the question is how much will u put up with? and how hard are u willing to work for your relationship in order for it to work for you?