TheRedSquirrel87: Make her the focal point of your life. Treat her as the "one" - Behave as if you were a man with absolutely nothing else to do. Be as sappy, needy and creepy as you can possibly be without throwing up all over yourself.
God no, this is catnip to high-maintenance women!!! At last, a man prepared to behave as all men should behave.
That is NOT the way to get rid of a woman. Make an excuse not to talk the next two times. That should do it. If not, say frankly that it doesn't feel right and you're sorry but dragging it out isn't going to be good for either of you.
Elegsabiff: God no, this is catnip to high-maintenance women!!! At last, a man prepared to behave as all men should behave.
That is NOT the way to get rid of a woman. Make an excuse not to talk the next two times. That should do it. If not, say frankly that it doesn't feel right and you're sorry but dragging it out isn't going to be good for either of you.
Your honesty will be refreshingly welcome.
Eleg...I agree...why not give her a few hints...being honest is also a good idea...
BerrySmoothieMy Retreat, Auckland New Zealand4,733 posts
ynotleon69: Have you ever started dating or getting close to someone, then you know you need to break it off? I am facing this with a woman that has been chatting with me. Let's hear a little good advice. And many some creative advice too. Aaaaaaand go!
ynotleon69: Have you ever started dating or getting close to someone, then you know you need to break it off? I am facing this with a woman that has been chatting with me. Let's hear a little good advice. And many some creative advice too. Aaaaaaand go!
allthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK4,697 posts
unlaoised: Funny you say that, I've not met a man who does either
I think men are better at handling rejection , purely for the reason being, they get used to it. Saying that, any woman who t rejects me must have serious mental issues.
allthegoodnamest: I think men are better at handling rejection , purely for the reason being, they get used to it. Saying that, any woman who t rejects me must have serious mental issues.
Wow, you should read some of the responses I get on here for an incling of how men handle rejection
I have met quite a few men for coffee and sometimes for lunch and in the span of time it took to each lunch and converse, if possible, I knew that I wouldn't meet him again.
When walked out the door of the restaurant I politely said I don't think we have a connection. They all understood what I was saying. Maybe they were thinking the same thing too but I didn't want to leave with him thinking he could call me again.
Almost everybody knows within five minutes of meeting someone if you will get along with them. There was one time I knew but I pursued further dates anyway much to my dismay.
123whisperMelbourne, Victoria Australia2,116 posts
southmiami4321: I would start a simple chat and without rounded up the conversation get to the point. If a man is not interested just say it. Won't be any harm you are saving her alot of trouble, time when she can be enjoying someone else.
Yes she can be enjoying someone else ! One door closes for another to open
123whisperMelbourne, Victoria Australia2,116 posts
secretagent09: I have met quite a few men for coffee and sometimes for lunch and in the span of time it took to each lunch and converse, if possible, I knew that I wouldn't meet him again.
When walked out the door of the restaurant I politely said I don't think we have a connection. They all understood what I was saying. Maybe they were thinking the same thing too but I didn't want to leave with him thinking he could call me again.
Almost everybody knows within five minutes of meeting someone if you will get along with them. There was one time I knew but I pursued further dates anyway much to my dismay.
Very honest and gentle respectful way of saying "No hope"
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God no, this is catnip to high-maintenance women!!! At last, a man prepared to behave as all men should behave.
That is NOT the way to get rid of a woman. Make an excuse not to talk the next two times. That should do it. If not, say frankly that it doesn't feel right and you're sorry but dragging it out isn't going to be good for either of you.
Your honesty will be refreshingly welcome.