What have I got myself into? ( Archived) (39)

Feb 19, 2016 5:47 PM CST What have I got myself into?
Elegsabiff
ElegsabiffElegsabiffMotril-ish, Andalusia Spain24 Threads 20 Polls 695 Posts
TheRedSquirrel87: Make her the focal point of your life. Treat her as the "one" - Behave as if you were a man with absolutely nothing else to do. Be as sappy, needy and creepy as you can possibly be without throwing up all over yourself.


God no, this is catnip to high-maintenance women!!! At last, a man prepared to behave as all men should behave. smitten

That is NOT the way to get rid of a woman. Make an excuse not to talk the next two times. That should do it. If not, say frankly that it doesn't feel right and you're sorry but dragging it out isn't going to be good for either of you.

Your honesty will be refreshingly welcome. roll eyes
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Feb 19, 2016 5:53 PM CST What have I got myself into?
loulou77
loulou77loulou77Vancouver, British Columbia Canada1 Threads 1,555 Posts
Elegsabiff: God no, this is catnip to high-maintenance women!!! At last, a man prepared to behave as all men should behave.

That is NOT the way to get rid of a woman. Make an excuse not to talk the next two times. That should do it. If not, say frankly that it doesn't feel right and you're sorry but dragging it out isn't going to be good for either of you.

Your honesty will be refreshingly welcome.



Eleg...I agree...why not give her a few hints...being honest is also a good idea...thumbs up wine
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Feb 20, 2016 5:18 AM CST What have I got myself into?
BerrySmoothie
BerrySmoothieBerrySmoothieMy Retreat, Auckland New Zealand3 Threads 4,733 Posts
ynotleon69: Have you ever started dating or getting close to someone, then you know you need to break it off?
I am facing this with a woman that has been chatting with me. Let's hear a little good advice. And many some creative advice too. Aaaaaaand go!



Be honest with her and straight up.

Don't let it drift.

Let her down gently now, rather than later.
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Feb 20, 2016 5:30 AM CST What have I got myself into?
sophiasummer
sophiasummersophiasummerNorthland, New Zealand112 Threads 6,528 Posts
ynotleon69: Have you ever started dating or getting close to someone, then you know you need to break it off?
I am facing this with a woman that has been chatting with me. Let's hear a little good advice. And many some creative advice too. Aaaaaaand go!


NO not getting off that easydancing dog
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Feb 20, 2016 5:51 AM CST What have I got myself into?
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
sophiasummer: NO not getting off that easy


At last , an honest woman.laugh

I've never known a woman who handles rejection with grace..
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Feb 20, 2016 6:08 AM CST What have I got myself into?
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
allthegoodnamest: At last , an honest woman.

I've never known a woman who handles rejection with grace..


Funny you say that, I've not met a man who does either dunno
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Feb 20, 2016 6:09 AM CST What have I got myself into?
Johnny5IA
Johnny5IAJohnny5IAFuengirola, Andalusia Spain39 Threads 1 Polls 721 Posts
unlaoised: Funny you say that, I've not met a man who does either

Now you have, Moi!!
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Feb 20, 2016 6:14 AM CST What have I got myself into?
Rosie1505
Rosie1505Rosie1505Portnoo, Donegal Ireland4 Posts
Just tell her. The truth you don't see a future together. And that she deserves more. ....simple as that
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Feb 20, 2016 6:14 AM CST What have I got myself into?
Rosie1505
Rosie1505Rosie1505Portnoo, Donegal Ireland4 Posts
Just tell her. The truth you don't see a future together. And that she deserves more. ....simple as that
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Feb 20, 2016 6:14 AM CST What have I got myself into?
Rosie1505
Rosie1505Rosie1505Portnoo, Donegal Ireland4 Posts
Just tell her. The truth you don't see a future together. And that she deserves more. ....simple as that
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Feb 20, 2016 6:21 AM CST What have I got myself into?
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
unlaoised: Funny you say that, I've not met a man who does either


I think men are better at handling rejection , purely for the reason being, they get used to it.
Saying that, any woman who t rejects me must have serious mental issues.
cheering laugh
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Feb 20, 2016 7:40 AM CST What have I got myself into?
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
Johnny5IA: Now you have, Moi!!


So you say...laugh
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Feb 20, 2016 7:41 AM CST What have I got myself into?
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
allthegoodnamest: I think men are better at handling rejection , purely for the reason being, they get used to it.
Saying that, any woman who t rejects me must have serious mental issues.


Wow, you should read some of the responses I get on here for an incling of how men handle rejection uh oh
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Feb 20, 2016 7:44 AM CST What have I got myself into?
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
unlaoised: Wow, you should read some of the responses I get on here for an incling of how men handle rejection


...and it's not just me, every single one of the women I've spoken to here have told the same story
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Feb 20, 2016 10:53 AM CST What have I got myself into?
secretagent09
secretagent09secretagent09New Jersey Girl in, North Carolina USA198 Threads 4 Polls 7,230 Posts
I have met quite a few men for coffee and sometimes for lunch and in the span of time it took to each lunch and converse, if possible, I knew that I wouldn't meet him again.

When walked out the door of the restaurant I politely said I don't think we have a connection. They all understood what I was saying. Maybe they were thinking the same thing too but I didn't want to leave with him thinking he could call me again.

Almost everybody knows within five minutes of meeting someone if you will get along with them. There was one time I knew but I pursued further dates anyway much to my dismay.
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Feb 20, 2016 11:57 AM CST What have I got myself into?
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
unlaoised: Wow, you should read some of the responses I get on here for an incling of how men handle rejection


are you sure that they are real men? confused
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Feb 26, 2016 6:03 AM CST What have I got myself into?
123whisper
123whisper123whisperMelbourne, Victoria Australia13 Threads 2 Polls 2,116 Posts
southmiami4321: I would start a simple chat and without rounded up the conversation get to the point. If a man is not interested just say it. Won't be any harm you are saving her alot of trouble, time when she can be enjoying someone else.
thumbs up Yes she can be enjoying someone else !cheering One door closes for another to open wink
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Feb 26, 2016 11:02 PM CST What have I got myself into?
123whisper
123whisper123whisperMelbourne, Victoria Australia13 Threads 2 Polls 2,116 Posts
secretagent09: I have met quite a few men for coffee and sometimes for lunch and in the span of time it took to each lunch and converse, if possible, I knew that I wouldn't meet him again.

When walked out the door of the restaurant I politely said I don't think we have a connection. They all understood what I was saying. Maybe they were thinking the same thing too but I didn't want to leave with him thinking he could call me again.

Almost everybody knows within five minutes of meeting someone if you will get along with them. There was one time I knew but I pursued further dates anyway much to my dismay.
thumbs up Very honest and gentle respectful way of saying "No hope"wine
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Feb 26, 2016 11:25 PM CST What have I got myself into?
sophiasummer
sophiasummersophiasummerNorthland, New Zealand112 Threads 6,528 Posts
paint your face green chuck a couple of tulips on your head and say
"I'm in love with fieeooooonaaaa"


handshake

cheers
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