women go for confidence in a man more than looks (141)
fifitrixibelle: and photographic evidence
Darling Fifi
Now You said that - I did not - but I like it 
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Women's "triggers" are pretty varied in my experience.
I don't find many women interested in me based on either really.
The triggers I've experienced most frequently are displays of compassion/kindness, intelligence and of course the power/alpha crap.
I don't find many women interested in me based on either really.
The triggers I've experienced most frequently are displays of compassion/kindness, intelligence and of course the power/alpha crap.
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MikeD12: Nice legs - shame we can't see your face
Thank you
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Always willing to learn, so I am just making some notes 
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MikeD12: Darling Fifi Now You said that - I did not - but I like it
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Kaybee50: I would be one of those women.
Confidence (not arrogance) is my magnet.
Confidence (not arrogance) is my magnet.
If that were the case, you should have been hooked up by now, considering there are many ugly men with bundles of confidence here.
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2intrigued: Yeppers
Are you telling me there's more to life than looking really really really really really good.
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allthegoodnamest: Are you telling me there's more to life than looking really really really really really good.
Absolutely....no point going through life looking at all the pretty packages that have nothing in them right?
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allthegoodnamest: If that were the case, you should have been hooked up by now, considering there are many ugly men with bundles of confidence here.
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2intrigued: Absolutely....no point going through life looking at all the pretty packages that have nothing in them right?
Errrrrrr.. Right.
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allthegoodnamest: Errrrrrr.. Right.
The lights are on but no one's home....
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Kaybee50: I have to give you credit. That was pretty funny.
Why, I was being serious.
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The great personality has to be wrapped in packaging that is attractive to me.
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allthegoodnamest: Why, I was being serious.
I am enjoying the pleasure of someone special's company, and have been for almost a year now. He is a confident hunkuva man. ------ This thread is Archived ------
I wouldn't mind being unwrapped by some of the women on here
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I think men's opinions of what attract's women will be affected first by what they think of their attractiveness to women, and what have or or not, or feel they have or not to offer.
If they feel they are attractive to women, they look to what they feel they have to offer as the reason, and if they feel unattractive to or over looked by women they'll look to what they think they lack, that others offer as the cause.
A poor, ugly, jerk who feels overlooked has money, looks, and personality as possible reasons to blame for his state of lack. He will most likely choose the trait which is least injurious to his self esteem as the cause.
Most would blame lack of money. Under that paradigm they get to be good people, and the women are cast as gold diggers.
Second would be looks. They get to be genetically disadvantaged(something they don't have to take any personal repsonsiblity for) and women are shallow.
Last would be recognizing that they're just jack asses no one want to be around. Oddly enough the people most likely to choose this as the reason, and problem those in the group it's least likely to apply too.
Men who feel they are attractive/interesting to women will look to the traits they posses/feel they posses that are drawing women to them.
A clumsy wealthy erudite who feels attractive to women isn't likely to think athleticism is more attractive to women than intellect.
If they feel they are attractive to women, they look to what they feel they have to offer as the reason, and if they feel unattractive to or over looked by women they'll look to what they think they lack, that others offer as the cause.
A poor, ugly, jerk who feels overlooked has money, looks, and personality as possible reasons to blame for his state of lack. He will most likely choose the trait which is least injurious to his self esteem as the cause.
Most would blame lack of money. Under that paradigm they get to be good people, and the women are cast as gold diggers.
Second would be looks. They get to be genetically disadvantaged(something they don't have to take any personal repsonsiblity for) and women are shallow.
Last would be recognizing that they're just jack asses no one want to be around. Oddly enough the people most likely to choose this as the reason, and problem those in the group it's least likely to apply too.
Men who feel they are attractive/interesting to women will look to the traits they posses/feel they posses that are drawing women to them.
A clumsy wealthy erudite who feels attractive to women isn't likely to think athleticism is more attractive to women than intellect.
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Ocee102:
Last would be recognizing that they're just jack asses no one want to be around. Oddly enough the people most likely to choose this as the reason,and problem are probably those in the group it's least likely to apply too.
Last would be recognizing that they're just jack asses no one want to be around. Oddly enough the people most likely to choose this as the reason,
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Kaybee50: I am enjoying the pleasure of someone special's company, and have been for almost a year now. He is a confident hunkuva man.
Sounds like a keeper..
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Ocee102: I think men's opinions of what attract's women will be affected first by what they think of their attractiveness to women, and what have or or not, or feel they have or not to offer.
If they feel they are attractive to women, they look to what they feel they have to offer as the reason, and if they feel unattractive to or over looked by women they'll look to what they think they lack, that others offer as the cause.A poor, ugly, jerk who feels overlooked has money, looks, and personality as possible reasons to blame for his state of lack. He will most likely choose the trait which is least injurious to his self esteem as the cause.
Most would blame lack of money. Under that paradigm they get to be good people, and the women are cast as gold diggers.
Second would be looks. They get to be genetically disadvantaged(something they don't have to take any personal repsonsiblity for) and women are shallow.
Last would be recognizing that they're just jack asses no one want to be around. Oddly enough the people most likely to choose this as the reason, and problem those in the group it's least likely to apply too.
Men who feel they are attractive/interesting to women will look to the traits they posses/feel they posses that are drawing women to them.A clumsy wealthy erudite who feels attractive to women isn't likely to think athleticism is more attractive to women than intellect.
If they feel they are attractive to women, they look to what they feel they have to offer as the reason, and if they feel unattractive to or over looked by women they'll look to what they think they lack, that others offer as the cause.A poor, ugly, jerk who feels overlooked has money, looks, and personality as possible reasons to blame for his state of lack. He will most likely choose the trait which is least injurious to his self esteem as the cause.
Most would blame lack of money. Under that paradigm they get to be good people, and the women are cast as gold diggers.
Second would be looks. They get to be genetically disadvantaged(something they don't have to take any personal repsonsiblity for) and women are shallow.
Last would be recognizing that they're just jack asses no one want to be around. Oddly enough the people most likely to choose this as the reason, and problem those in the group it's least likely to apply too.
Men who feel they are attractive/interesting to women will look to the traits they posses/feel they posses that are drawing women to them.A clumsy wealthy erudite who feels attractive to women isn't likely to think athleticism is more attractive to women than intellect.
There is nothing to add to that
Except to look out for the number of men here who say that women are only gold-diggers
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