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Aug 16, 2016 2:32 PM CST suggestions needed
secretagent09
secretagent09secretagent09New Jersey Girl in, North Carolina USA198 Threads 4 Polls 7,230 Posts
awakened_atman: My goal is not to use anybody and I am against it, in fact I teach people in my class to express gratitude for any favours received no matter how big or small
And I will be taking my admissions in Sweden for next autumn intake and it will be my first international travel and for a long stay, so finding someone who makes my stay there better is the goal and not the conclusions whatbyou all have drawn about money making is not true



It is against CS Rules for me to post what your profile says in detail. I'll just use the words you say "materialistic support".
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Aug 16, 2016 2:32 PM CST suggestions needed
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
awakened_atman: Who is asking money by the way?
I need someone with whom I can live as a family and help them asmich as I can on the spiritual path and parallely accomplish my noble mission too.


To quote from your profile: "I need that special someone who could dedicate herself in giving me moral and materialistic support to achieve the goal and by walking along this noble mission with me."

Materialistic support is just that...financial aid, is it not?
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Aug 16, 2016 2:36 PM CST suggestions needed
secretagent09
secretagent09secretagent09New Jersey Girl in, North Carolina USA198 Threads 4 Polls 7,230 Posts
unlaoised: To quote from your profile: "I need that special someone who could dedicate herself in giving me moral and materialistic support to achieve the goal and by walking along this noble mission with me."

Materialistic support is just that...financial aid, is it not?




I took the easy way posting what his profile says cause I don't want the mods after me.

Good for you for having the ..... to do it cheering
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Aug 16, 2016 2:36 PM CST suggestions needed
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
awakened_atman: Well all of you guessed it right!
What's the harm in taking help for a noble cause called education rather than rolling in sense pleasures?

And underestimating or making fun of somebody who needs help for a good cause is nothing but being ignorant and I wish you develop a broader mindset


You want to get to Sueden???? Thats OK.
Find the means to reach Sweden by nobody's help,ONLY by your own
means.
Find a sugar Mommy is not a good cause,unless in your country
moving to another country via a ""Sugar Mommy"" considered
a ""good Cause""
thumbs down thumbs down thumbs down
doh doh doh
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Aug 16, 2016 2:40 PM CST suggestions needed
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
secretagent09: I took the easy way posting what his profile says cause I don't want the mods after me.

Good for you for having the ..... to do it


Ah well, if they get me for posting part of his profile, so be it dunno wave
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Aug 16, 2016 2:41 PM CST suggestions needed
awakened_atman
awakened_atmanawakened_atmanDelhi, India3 Threads 46 Posts
secretagent09: It is against CS Rules for me to post what your profile says in detail. I'll just use the words you say "materialistic support".

I couldn't find any better word which reflects seeking help in a dignified manner and hence used the word "materialistic" and I believe the word materialistic includes all things at the material world viz shelter, food, ect and not just money always scold
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Aug 16, 2016 2:46 PM CST suggestions needed
secretagent09
secretagent09secretagent09New Jersey Girl in, North Carolina USA198 Threads 4 Polls 7,230 Posts
awakened_atman: I couldn't find any better word which reflects seeking help in a dignified manner and hence used the word "materialistic" and I believe the word materialistic includes all things at the material world viz shelter, food, ect and not just money always



Maybe you should get a job instead of doing volunteer work. Then you wouldn't have to "seek help". You look like you are in good health.

So you not only want a woman to pay your tuition, you also want her to pay for a roof over your head and food.

Anything else?doh
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Aug 16, 2016 2:49 PM CST suggestions needed
awakened_atman
awakened_atmanawakened_atmanDelhi, India3 Threads 46 Posts
chris27292729: You want to get to Sueden???? Thats OK.
Find the means to reach Sweden by nobody's help,ONLY by your own
means.
Find a sugar Mommy is not a good cause,unless in your country
moving to another country via a ""Sugar Mommy"" considered
a ""good Cause""

Let me make it clear, I am not entering Sweden under any ones mercy but by my own merits in academics and by scholarships. I just want my stay there to be progressively successful and I am trying a straight approach to achieve it without any hypocrisy.
So that seems odd to all of you?
See how the world works upside down when things are told straight.
However I have no offence in speaking out my mind cause as far as my conscience knows I ain't up to do anything which goes against my principles comfort
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Aug 16, 2016 2:53 PM CST suggestions needed
secretagent09
secretagent09secretagent09New Jersey Girl in, North Carolina USA198 Threads 4 Polls 7,230 Posts
awakened_atman: Let me make it clear, I am not entering Sweden under any ones mercy but by my own merits in academics and by scholarships. I just want my stay there to be progressively successful and I am trying a straight approach to achieve it without any hypocrisy.
So that seems odd to all of you?
See how the world works upside down when things are told straight.
However I have no offence in speaking out my mind cause as far as my conscience knows I ain't up to do anything which goes against my principles



I will give you credit that you advertised that you are looking for a woman to support you in every way possible so you can get your degree.

Yep, that's a "straight forward approach" hole

You are right on the edge of being a scammer.
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Aug 16, 2016 2:57 PM CST suggestions needed
awakened_atman
awakened_atmanawakened_atmanDelhi, India3 Threads 46 Posts
secretagent09: I will give you credit that you advertised that you are looking for a woman to support you in every way possible so you can get your degree.

Yep, that's a "straight forward approach"

You are right on the edge of being a scammer.


Well since you have decided to keep your view towards me fixed as "scammer", nobody can make you understand what it means cause you intentionally want to see so, perhaps that's the moderators job generally, so what is it you want me to do? Quit CS?
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Aug 16, 2016 2:58 PM CST suggestions needed
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
awakened_atman: Well all of you guessed it right!
What's the harm in taking help for a noble cause called education rather than rolling in sense pleasures?

And underestimating or making fun of somebody who needs help for a good cause is nothing but being ignorant and I wish you develop a broader mindset


No matter,how hard,you try to portrait yourself,about beeing helped
by a Swedish lady, to get in a Swedish Uni.there is reasonable doupt,
that you are looking for a sugar mommy.

grin grin grin
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Aug 16, 2016 3:01 PM CST suggestions needed
secretagent09
secretagent09secretagent09New Jersey Girl in, North Carolina USA198 Threads 4 Polls 7,230 Posts
awakened_atman: Well since you have decided to keep your view towards me fixed as "scammer", nobody can make you understand what it means cause you intentionally want to see so, perhaps that's the moderators job generally, so what is it you want me to do? Quit CS?



I don't want you to leave CS.

I want you to get a job and pay your own way.

You're doing volunteer work now. Is there a reason you aren't working, even at McDonalds.

You will be proud of yourself if you do it that way.
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Aug 16, 2016 3:02 PM CST suggestions needed
awakened_atman: Certain profiles are interesting but unable to communicate with them as they have their settings limited to certain geographical area etc!
You pose a very interesting thread. I know that what I have to say about this may irritate some members, but I really don't care much about that anymore. Look at it this way: The profiles who refuse communication have already done your legwork for you--that is, they have cleanly separated the wheat from the chaff. So, move on to a friendlier bar...I don't know why someone would want to join a singles club on the internet, and then establish those parameters but, still want the ability to do the searches THEY want. So, no matter how "cool" their profile might seem, they have already given me the answer as to whether or not they are cool enough for me. And, if they want their cake and eat it to, as the saying goes, then, they are NOT cool enough for me. Do you understand this?
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Aug 16, 2016 3:06 PM CST suggestions needed
saidmahmoud
saidmahmoudsaidmahmoudHamburg Mitte, Hamburg Germany3 Threads 1 Polls 1,593 Posts
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
sugar mommy !
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oh yeah its really happend here but you must be an african from Ghana have very dark skin to attract sugar mommy
be a man dont be sassy like that using women its something rude
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Aug 16, 2016 3:06 PM CST suggestions needed
secretagent09
secretagent09secretagent09New Jersey Girl in, North Carolina USA198 Threads 4 Polls 7,230 Posts
rohaan: You pose a very interesting thread. I know that what I have to say about this may irritate some members, but I really don't care much about that anymore. Look at it this way: The profiles who refuse communication have already done your legwork for you--that is, they have cleanly separated the wheat from the chaff. So, move on to a friendlier bar...I don't know why someone would want to join a singles club on the internet, and then establish those parameters but, still want the ability to do the searches THEY want. So, no matter how "cool" their profile might seem, they have already given me the answer as to whether or not they are cool enough for me. And, if they want their cake and eat it to, as the saying goes, then, they are NOT cool enough for me. Do you understand this?



Did you read the whole thread Ro?
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Aug 16, 2016 3:06 PM CST suggestions needed
Gianfranco42
Gianfranco42Gianfranco42Syracuse, New York USA1 Posts
KremaP: It's called "personal preferences"...
The lady is correct. Why would you want to contact someone whom you think is right for you, when all you are judging them by is their appearance or some other attribute that you have in common. There are reasons that women have established preferences. It saves them and YOU from wasting time.
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Aug 16, 2016 3:10 PM CST suggestions needed
After reading all of the posts in this thread...
it brought up another question! (for me, anyway)

Say, for instance:

You find the female that fulfills what you are seeking.
You continue your education,
with her help (financially or whatever)...

When you have reached your goal
of what you are striving for (education),
what then happens to the one that aided
you financially reach your goal?

Do you just toss her to the side, now that she has
served and contributed to your purpose?

Do you say, "Thank you ma'am, see ya"?
Then go about your way?

Or do you strive to make this an "everlasting" love,
where romance may flourish?

I can't help but think "free ride" on this issue...
Just my opinion
~JOHN~
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Aug 16, 2016 3:11 PM CST suggestions needed
Gianfranco42: The lady is correct. Why would you want to contact someone whom you think is right for you, when all you are judging them by is their appearance or some other attribute that you have in common. There are reasons that women have established preferences. It saves them and YOU from wasting time.
Why not just join a card club or square dance group then, and forget about the internet entirely? I don't think you understand what I am trying to convey. If you don't want to participate on the internet, then there are alternatives in every community, where you can actually see and meet and discern people. It is disingenuous to want to be able to do this yourself, yet restrict others from doing the same. Don't use social media if it really isn't what you want. (duh)
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Aug 16, 2016 3:12 PM CST suggestions needed
TheresMyFriend: After reading all of the posts in this thread...
it brought up another question! (for me, anyway)

Say, for instance:

You find the female that fulfills what you are seeking.
You continue your education,
with her help (financially or whatever)...

When you have reached your goal
of what you are striving for (education),
what then happens to the one that aided
you financially reach your goal?

Do you just toss her to the side, now that she has
served and contributed to your purpose?

Do you say, "Thank you ma'am, see ya"?
Then go about your way?

Or do you strive to make this an "everlasting" love,
where romance may flourish?

I can't help but think "free ride" on this issue...
Just my opinion
~JOHN~
I don't see where he is wanting a free ride--but, I have an open mind if you can tell me. Thanks
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Aug 16, 2016 3:12 PM CST suggestions needed
awakened_atman: Let me make it clear, I am not entering Sweden under any ones mercy but by my own merits in academics and by scholarships. I just want my stay there to be progressively successful and I am trying a straight approach to achieve it without any hypocrisy.
So that seems odd to all of you?
See how the world works upside down when things are told straight.
However I have no offence in speaking out my mind cause as far as my conscience knows I ain't up to do anything which goes against my principles
If you are unable, at the age of 35, to provide for your own food, shelter, and basic needs, then it is highly unlikely that you will find a woman who finds you partner-material.

You have a noble endeavour that you are reaching for?
Then achieve by your own merit one step at a time. Anything worth having is worth working hard for.
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