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Sep 7, 2016 4:39 PM CST Love is blind!
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
truheart1941: nice pic..1to note....why have you dyed your hair black....????????


If you look closely , there's one or two grey hairs beginning to come through.

Is that a new wig you're sporting or are you still using your dead ferrets fur to cover your spam head.dunno tongue laugh lips
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Sep 7, 2016 5:10 PM CST Love is blind!
Saintoflostsocks
SaintoflostsocksSaintoflostsocksArmpitville, Somerset, England UK8 Posts
One2note: Have you, or do you know anyone who has been taken for a ride by a partner??
Have you ever been so smitten with a person, that you're oblivious to what's going on in front of your very eyes or are you so in love with that person, that you choose to ignore advice from friends.. Are you the last person to find out what you already knew but choose to ignore, whether it's a cheating partner or a money grabbing Ho??

Here goes another suicide post..


Yes. I had a work colleague who was spending a lot of time chatting to his 'girlfriend' on his phone, and he proudly showed us the photos of her that she'd been sending him.
She was pretty and ticked all the right boxes, especially as she was making him happy. Only problem was, a couple of us had seen the 'educational' films she'd been in.
I took him to one side and privately showed him one of the many films she'd been in, choosing one that had the same image of one of the photos that she'd sent him. He flat out refused to accept that was her, and continued to chat to her.
Arrangements were made for them to meet up, and he took a week off work to spend some time with her. Predictably, she didn't show.
Only afterwards, he admitted he'd sent her best part of £2K.
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Sep 7, 2016 5:26 PM CST Love is blind!
SuzyQsBread
SuzyQsBreadSuzyQsBreadBrewton, Alabama USA1 Threads 69 Posts
Saintoflostsocks: Yes. I had a work colleague who was spending a lot of time chatting to his 'girlfriend' on his phone, and he proudly showed us the photos of her that she'd been sending him.
She was pretty and ticked all the right boxes, especially as she was making him happy. Only problem was, a couple of us had seen the 'educational' films she'd been in.
I took him to one side and privately showed him one of the many films she'd been in, choosing one that had the same image of one of the photos that she'd sent him. He flat out refused to accept that was her, and continued to chat to her.
Arrangements were made for them to meet up, and he took a week off work to spend some time with her. Predictably, she didn't show.
Only afterwards, he admitted he'd sent her best part of £2K.


Oh yikes wow Poor guy blues
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Sep 7, 2016 6:01 PM CST Love is blind!
One2note: If you look closely , there's one or two grey hairs beginning to come through.

Is that a new wig you're sporting or are you still using your dead ferrets fur to cover your spam head.
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing nooooo.its a rabbits fur..from a woman coat...she threw away...next door.....rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Sep 7, 2016 6:33 PM CST Love is blind!
secretagent09: One said he's not best friends with the guy. It seems it's something he's observing probably cause the guy talks about this woman all the time.

If the guy is happy in his senior years then I wouldn't get involved in his business.

He might tell One to mind his own business. Then a work relationship might suffer.

She's a scammer. If One really wants to help this guy it would be better to show him stories where men have been taken financially by women like this. The guy will never believe what someone says. He needs to read it and even then he might think that she would never do that to him.

If I were in One's shoes I would suggest to the guy to stop sending her stuff, stop calling and see how long it goes before she contacts him again.

I'm not into relationship games but in this case I think it is warranted.

If One wants to avoid having the regret that he didn't tell the guy what's going on he could tell him once. When the ball drops he won't have any regrets.


Yep would agree with most of that.
Hence why I said ''if I had that sort of relationship with him''

They are not friends in the traditional sense but its obvious this guy is looking for validation if he is telling Al about this girl.

I wouldn't give it and warn him about the consequences. thumbs up

teddybear
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Sep 7, 2016 6:34 PM CST Love is blind!
Aragorn11: Yep would agree with most of that.
Hence why I said ''if I had that sort of relationship with him''

They are not friends in the traditional sense but its obvious this guy is looking for validation if he is telling Al about this girl.

I wouldn't give it and warn him about the possible consequences.


Fixed doh
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Sep 7, 2016 6:37 PM CST Love is blind!
secretagent09
secretagent09secretagent09New Jersey Girl in, North Carolina USA198 Threads 4 Polls 7,230 Posts
Did I say something inappropriate in this thread???

Somebody thinks I did.
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Sep 7, 2016 6:48 PM CST Love is blind!
secretagent09
secretagent09secretagent09New Jersey Girl in, North Carolina USA198 Threads 4 Polls 7,230 Posts
secretagent09: Did I say something inappropriate in this thread???

Somebody thinks I did.



I figured it out. It wasn't an inappropriate thing that I said. It's that I disagreed with the OP and now he's AGAIN sending me email asking why do I hate him.

I don't hate you OP. I even said that the subject for the thread was a good one. I participated several times and you were fine with my posts until I disagreed with you.doh

It's called debating. And stop sending me email.
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Sep 7, 2016 6:54 PM CST Love is blind!
secretagent09: I figured it out. It wasn't an inappropriate thing that I said. It's that I disagreed with the OP and now he's AGAIN sending me email asking why do I hate him.

I don't hate you OP. I even said that the subject for the thread was a good one. I participated several times and you were fine with my posts until I disagreed with you.

It's called debating. And stop sending me email.


Am not sure whats going on laugh
Nothing unusual there irish

But, your story would be one of caution, an intelligent Lady being caught for monies by someone who misrepresented themselves, and should be read by people to educate and urge caution thumbs up

And I say fair play for telling your story, it can't be easy.

teddybear
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Sep 7, 2016 7:13 PM CST Love is blind!
Lonely1
Lonely1Lonely1Ottawa, Ontario Canada76 Threads 21 Polls 1,858 Posts
One2note: Have you, or do you know anyone who has been taken for a ride by a partner??
Have you ever been so smitten with a person, that you're oblivious to what's going on in front of your very eyes or are you so in love with that person, that you choose to ignore advice from friends.. Are you the last person to find out what you already knew but choose to ignore, whether it's a cheating partner or a money grabbing Ho??

Here goes another suicide post..


I WAS being taken for a ride a few times, BUT I have an excellent bs antenna and was able to cut the c$$p before it got too smelly. I believe in Karma laugh

The main thing is that Love is not only blind, but stupid, risky, and costly. Choose your poison.mumbling

And according to the Beebs:

'Cause if you like the way you look that much
Oh, baby, you should go and love yourself
And if you think that I'm still holdin' on to somethin'
You should go and love yourself
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Sep 7, 2016 7:19 PM CST Love is blind!
Lonely1: I WAS being taken for a ride a few times, BUT I have an excellent bs antenna and was able to cut the c$$p before it got too smelly. I believe in Karma

The main thing is that Love is not only blind, but stupid, risky, and costly. Choose your poison.

And according to the Beebs:

'Cause if you like the way you look that much
Oh, baby, you should go and love yourself
And if you think that I'm still holdin' on to somethin'
You should go and love yourself


wave

Hi Lonely,

I disagree. Risky yes, but,
I don't think its stupid nor costly as the rewards far outweigh the costs, if any.

wine
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Sep 7, 2016 7:28 PM CST Love is blind!
Lonely1
Lonely1Lonely1Ottawa, Ontario Canada76 Threads 21 Polls 1,858 Posts
Aragorn11: Hi Lonely,

I disagree. Risky yes, but,
I don't think its stupid nor costly as the rewards far outweigh the costs, if any.


That's based on your experience. But on reading some of above posts.sigh

I think I will gladly pay $1 for a good time. OK, maybe $100 today, and the next time free. All right, all right, I will support my kids until they are 21. cheering

BUT: I will not pay $1,000 for an air pie, or a fart in the wind for that matter. rolling on the floor laughing
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Sep 8, 2016 4:05 AM CST Love is blind!
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
truheart1941: your luck has just changed..put your coat on..your just pulled...


I can't believe my luck these days... laugh

wave bouquet
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Sep 8, 2016 4:07 AM CST Love is blind!
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
One2note: A smart woman would have married him , knowing full well of his "away-day activities " then took him to the cleaners.


There are people doing this, but I prefer to earn my own money and be with someone for mushy reasons like love. conversing
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Sep 8, 2016 4:21 AM CST Love is blind!
sophiasummer
sophiasummersophiasummerNorthland, New Zealand112 Threads 6,528 Posts
I worry about my friend going to the Philippines to meet a bride.


dunno
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Sep 8, 2016 4:26 AM CST Love is blind!
epirb
epirbepirbDannevirke, Hawke's Bay New Zealand32 Threads 2 Polls 7,379 Posts
sophiasummer: I worry about my friend going to the Philippines to meet a bride.
with good reason Sophi , can't they choose a another spot like Aussie .
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Sep 8, 2016 4:38 AM CST Love is blind!
sophiasummer
sophiasummersophiasummerNorthland, New Zealand112 Threads 6,528 Posts
epirb: with good reason Sophi , can't they choose a another spot like Aussie .


No he could have met a women here there must be lots of Philippine Groups here? he said they are so much more submissive,(I slapped his ears)
What are you thinking!doh
But he's off to Philippines to chose a bride???????

He is such a good friend but I am not about to annoy him.

comfort

Hi epirbwave
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Sep 8, 2016 4:54 AM CST Love is blind!
epirb
epirbepirbDannevirke, Hawke's Bay New Zealand32 Threads 2 Polls 7,379 Posts
sophiasummer: No he could have met a women here there must be lots of Philippine Groups here? he said they are so much more submissive,(I slapped his ears)
What are you thinking!
But he's off to Philippines to chose a bride???????

He is such a good friend but I am not about to annoy him.



Hi epirb
hope hes going to be alright , I watched an Asian bride have a bloody good go at her NZ buba husband in the Dannevirke supermarket carpark . Submissive was not what I saw coming from her . Hope fully that will be the only surprise for your mate .
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Sep 8, 2016 5:15 AM CST Love is blind!
diova
diovadiovaMy Valley, Gauteng South Africa733 Posts
One2note: Have you, or do you know anyone who has been taken for a ride by a partner??
Have you ever been so smitten with a person, that you're oblivious to what's going on in front of your very eyes or are you so in love with that person, that you choose to ignore advice from friends.. Are you the last person to find out what you already knew but choose to ignore, whether it's a cheating partner or a money grabbing Ho??

Here goes another suicide post..


Here's the thing, I must be the dumbest woman ever to walk this earth. I believe everything a man tells me!

Which poses the question, do I learn? Me... laugh

So I am pretty darn stupid and I like your new pic, you sure are one fine looking dandy wave
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Sep 8, 2016 5:18 AM CST Love is blind!
sophiasummer
sophiasummersophiasummerNorthland, New Zealand112 Threads 6,528 Posts
epirb: hope hes going to be alright , I watched an Asian bride have a bloody good go at her NZ buba husband in the Dannevirke supermarket carpark . Submissive was not what I saw coming from her . Hope fully that will be the only surprise for your mate .


Hope he can handle the trolley dollygrin Honestly he's committed, he has pick of them when he goes there. I cant believe it?
Me and my friends have known him for so long!
He came out of his 3rd marriage 5 years ago.

He just wants and feels he needs to have a women.

I shake my head, yet he is such a nice guy. No I have not had a relationship with him, he is a good friend.
I might feed her to the pigs if she is lying.

How bad is that.
don't know how it works.
Just looking after a friend.


sigh
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