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Sep 19, 2017 3:27 PM CST Can't relate!!
Deedee123x
Deedee123xDeedee123xLimerick, Ireland69 Threads 4,795 Posts
Why do some people feel the only way they can relate to someone is by always having a smart word or cruel word to say....what is wrong with their social skills that the only response that springs to their minds is to be cruel and belittle others ..where is the sincerity and genuinity. .....is it considered a mental flaw how some cannot just be kind and sincere and think the only answer is to be cruel and unkind??
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Sep 19, 2017 3:34 PM CST Can't relate!!
annaroach
annaroachannaroachLimerick, Ireland217 Threads 6,747 Posts
Deedee123x: Why do some people feel the only way they can relate to someone is by always having a smart word or cruel word to say....what is wrong with their social skills that the only response that springs to their minds is to be cruel and belittle others ..where is the sincerity and genuinity. .....is it considered a mental flaw how some cannot just be kind and sincere and think the only answer is to be cruel and unkind??



I honestly believe that some come here just for the purpose
of being negative, and fault finding,, also to have a go, to provoke reaction..
Nasty , very nasty,,,, i suppose if you can't find a date,,,,dunno confused
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Sep 19, 2017 3:34 PM CST Can't relate!!
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
Deedee123x: Why do some people feel the only way they can relate to someone is by always having a smart word or cruel word to say....what is wrong with their social skills that the only response that springs to their minds is to be cruel and belittle others ..where is the sincerity and genuinity. .....is it considered a mental flaw how some cannot just be kind and sincere and think the only answer is to be cruel and unkind??


I think you've had a few digs at my comments, or don't you see your own flaws!!
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Sep 19, 2017 3:37 PM CST Can't relate!!
Deedee123x: Why do some people feel the only way they can relate to someone is by always having a smart word or cruel word to say....what is wrong with their social skills that the only response that springs to their minds is to be cruel and belittle others ..where is the sincerity and genuinity. .....is it considered a mental flaw how some cannot just be kind and sincere and think the only answer is to be cruel and unkind??


I don't know the answer, but it says everything about that person.
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Sep 19, 2017 3:39 PM CST Can't relate!!
Deedee123x
Deedee123xDeedee123xLimerick, Ireland69 Threads 4,795 Posts
One2note: I think you've had a few digs at my comments, or don't you see your own flaws!!


I only hit back when provoked and even at that I don't think k I have ever been nasty.
I have plenty of flaws being too soft and caring towards people who are picked on for absolutely no reason is one!!.

Can u not even admit to yours??? Let alone say them.
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Sep 19, 2017 3:40 PM CST Can't relate!!
Deedee123x
Deedee123xDeedee123xLimerick, Ireland69 Threads 4,795 Posts
annaroach: I honestly believe that some come here just for the purpose
of being negative, and fault finding,, also to have a go, to provoke reaction..
Nasty , very nasty,,,, i suppose if you can't find a date,,,,


Yes Anna people who fail to work on themselves are very happy to come here and pick on others.

Nothing short of bullying and schoolyard stuff...it's sad
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Sep 19, 2017 3:43 PM CST Can't relate!!
Deedee123x
Deedee123xDeedee123xLimerick, Ireland69 Threads 4,795 Posts
Track16: I don't know the answer, but it says everything about that person.


It sure does hun....sad thing is I don't think they can even see it in themselves which is a crying shame.
Nobody is perfect but to consistently bully others with nastiness n cruelty is in my book a mental illness
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Sep 19, 2017 3:43 PM CST Can't relate!!
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
Deedee123x: I only hit back when provoked and even at that I don't think k I have ever been nasty.
I have plenty of flaws being too soft and caring towards people who are picked on for absolutely no reason is one!!.

Can u not even admit to yours??? Let alone say them.


You've been here 2 minutes and suddenly you know everything about everyone.
Learn to keep you nose out of other people's business if you want to survive on the forums , or you'll make more enemies than friends!
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Sep 19, 2017 3:47 PM CST Can't relate!!
aries1234
aries1234aries1234plymout, Devon, England UK175 Threads 3 Polls 5,672 Posts
Deedee123x: I only hit back when provoked and even at that I don't think k I have ever been nasty.
I have plenty of flaws being too soft and caring towards people who are picked on for absolutely no reason is one!!.

Can u not even admit to yours??? Let alone say them.
I suppose he can't help being a complete misogynist rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing wine
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Sep 19, 2017 3:48 PM CST Can't relate!!
Deedee123x
Deedee123xDeedee123xLimerick, Ireland69 Threads 4,795 Posts
One2note: You've been here 2 minutes and suddenly you know everything about everyone.
Learn to keep you nose out of other people's business if you want to survive on the forums , or you'll make more enemies than friends!


And who made u King of the forum??
I have every right to my say whether I'm here two minutes or two years.
Someone like you is a very easy read I'm afraid I didn't need to even be here two minutes to figure you out!!

Go find urself a woman or man wat ever ur preference n maybe Ull find ur a happier person for it n don't need to resort to putting others down to make urself feel better about yourself.
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Sep 19, 2017 3:49 PM CST Can't relate!!
Deedee123x
Deedee123xDeedee123xLimerick, Ireland69 Threads 4,795 Posts
aries1234: I suppose he can't help being a complete misogynist


I actually feel really sorry for him I genuinely think there's a chip.missing there
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Sep 19, 2017 3:50 PM CST Can't relate!!
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
aries1234: I suppose he can't help being a complete misogynist


A Misogynist hates women.. I don't discriminate!professor
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Sep 19, 2017 3:50 PM CST Can't relate!!
Deedee123x: It sure does hun....sad thing is I don't think they can even see it in themselves which is a crying shame.
Nobody is perfect but to consistently bully others with nastiness n cruelty is in my book a mental illness


It is a mental illness, which in most cases unfortunately will never get treated.

Just tried to send you a mail but your settings blocked me lol. Just wanted to say hi :)
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Sep 19, 2017 3:50 PM CST Can't relate!!
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
Deedee123x: I actually feel really sorry for him I genuinely think there's a chip.missing there


Another dig??
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Sep 19, 2017 3:51 PM CST Can't relate!!
Deedee123x: Why do some people feel the only way they can relate to someone is by always having a smart word or cruel word to say....what is wrong with their social skills that the only response that springs to their minds is to be cruel and belittle others ..where is the sincerity and genuinity. .....is it considered a mental flaw how some cannot just be kind and sincere and think the only answer is to be cruel and unkind??


It was way bitter place 1-2 years before..laugh so now I see all such comments very normal..head banger
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Sep 19, 2017 3:52 PM CST Can't relate!!
Deedee123x: Why do some people feel the only way they can relate to someone is by always having a smart word or cruel word to say....what is wrong with their social skills that the only response that springs to their minds is to be cruel and belittle others ..where is the sincerity and genuinity. .....is it considered a mental flaw how some cannot just be kind and sincere and think the only answer is to be cruel and unkind??
you have asked an important ,valuable and valid question Deedee , I would say we are living among a community of different minds and attitudes , the best way is to keep ourselves happy by ignoring unkind and aggressive people , I think we should not distrub ourselves due to other's unkind and cruel attitudes wine
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Sep 19, 2017 3:53 PM CST Can't relate!!
Deedee123x
Deedee123xDeedee123xLimerick, Ireland69 Threads 4,795 Posts
One2note: Another dig??


Where did u see ur name on that post??
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Sep 19, 2017 3:55 PM CST Can't relate!!
Deedee123x
Deedee123xDeedee123xLimerick, Ireland69 Threads 4,795 Posts
Track16: It is a mental illness, which in most cases unfortunately will never get treated.

Just tried to send you a mail but your settings blocked me lol. Just wanted to say hi :)


How's that?? I havnt my account set to block any emails hun??
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Sep 19, 2017 3:57 PM CST Can't relate!!
Deedee123x: How's that?? I havnt my account set to block any emails hun??


Your mail settings will only allow those from western Europe. If however you wouldn't mind a mail from me, you can send one to me and that will allow me to be able to write you back.
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Sep 19, 2017 3:57 PM CST Can't relate!!
One2note: You've been here 2 minutes and suddenly you know everything about everyone.
Learn to keep you nose out of other people's business if you want to survive on the forums , or you'll make more enemies than friends!


So this is the reason I made more enemies than friends here..uh oh conversing
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