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Sparrowgael: It's internet unaccountability...and it's not just here. People say horrible things to each other; treat each other horribly on the internet because they are unaccountable for their actions...and it's spilling over into how we treat each other offline as well. People in general have just become more rude and intolerant. The answer? Don't follow suit. You do you and don't take the trolls personally. I mean, why would you care about what someone like that thinks anyway? Let it go.
u mean we want to watch comedy movie and they are showing us horror movie ? 
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Sparrowgael: It's internet unaccountability...and it's not just here. People say horrible things to each other; treat each other horribly on the internet because they are unaccountable for their actions...and it's spilling over into how we treat each other offline as well. People in general have just become more rude and intolerant. The answer? Don't follow suit. You do you and don't take the trolls personally. I mean, why would you care about what someone like that thinks anyway? Let it go.
Everyone has their idea of what constitutes banter & friendly rivalry .. unfortunately , being an international site, some comments get lost in translation.
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Sparrowgael: It's internet unaccountability...and it's not just here. People say horrible things to each other; treat each other horribly on the internet because they are unaccountable for their actions...and it's spilling over into how we treat each other offline as well. People in general have just become more rude and intolerant. The answer? Don't follow suit. You do you and don't take the trolls personally. I mean, why would you care about what someone like that thinks anyway? Let it go.
Some good advice there!
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Sparrowgael: It's internet unaccountability...and it's not just here. People say horrible things to each other; treat each other horribly on the internet because they are unaccountable for their actions...and it's spilling over into how we treat each other offline as well. People in general have just become more rude and intolerant. The answer? Don't follow suit. You do you and don't take the trolls personally. I mean, why would you care about what someone like that thinks anyway? Let it go.
Ito my nature to look out for those who are on here sometimes facing a ten to one battle...and not enough said on the side of the bullieday person.
I don't believe in standing aside n watchin it all..sometimes I can sometimes I cannot.
I saw an instance of it this evening and couldn't not say something.
I'm by no means perfect I'm by no means always nice but I'm always first to say sorry when I'm not.
I won't stay silent or be silenced tbh I think bullyingt should never win in my book.
Rant over and it's nothing against u..thanks for ur comment
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Deedee123x: Why do some people feel the only way they can relate to someone is by always having a smart word or cruel word to say....what is wrong with their social skills that the only response that springs to their minds is to be cruel and belittle others ..where is the sincerity and genuinity. .....is it considered a mental flaw how some cannot just be kind and sincere and think the only answer is to be cruel and unkind??
think most just want a bit of fun but I understand what your saying some get very mean and intrusive to others hurtfull as well which I think is terrible------ This thread is Archived ------
It was way bitter place 1-2 years before.. so now I see all such comments very normal..[/quote
Which is a sad state of affairs isn't it that uve become so accustomed to people being horrible for no reason n u now think it's normal
Which is a sad state of affairs isn't it that uve become so accustomed to people being horrible for no reason n u now think it's normal
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Deedee123x: Where did u see ur name on that post??
The cap is too small to fit the head
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johnjjm: think most just want a bit of fun but I understand what your saying some get very mean and intrusive to others hurtfull as well which I think is terrible
Hi John thanks for commenting and I'm all.for fun for the teasing n the banter and all that..I can have a laugh as good as anyone and this forum is great for it n its all very lighthearted at the very best of times.
Just the cruelty gets me....sorry for the rant...
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MikeD12: The cap is too small to fit the head
Hi Mike
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Deedee123x: It was way bitter place 1-2 years before.. so now I see all such comments very normal..[/quote
Which is a sad state of affairs isn't it that uve become so accustomed to people being horrible for no reason n u now think it's normal
Which is a sad state of affairs isn't it that uve become so accustomed to people being horrible for no reason n u now think it's normal
We can't change others and we can only ignore their negativity. I also don't like people insulting other. believe me I was also attacked by people many times in past just because I asked something they were like I am from India thus my mentality is like that. started with population, poverty, girl child killing,rapes...(as I am the only one responsible for all India's problems
).Dont spoil your mood..
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ali110: u mean we want to watch comedy movie and they are showing us horror movie ?
You are right big brother..
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Deedee123x: Hi John thanks for commenting and I'm all.for fun for the teasing n the banter and all that..I can have a laugh as good as anyone and this forum is great for it n its all very lighthearted at the very best of times.
Just the cruelty gets me....sorry for the rant...
no you have a point it gets to personal sometimes but I thinks when your here a while same as myself one can have a very rosy pic of what it was like before and I think that's because we were kinda green first while we were here it kinda sucks you in all the banter and we understand now its not all harmlessJust the cruelty gets me....sorry for the rant...
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guysimple: We can't change others and we can only ignore their negativity. I also don't like people insulting other. believe me I was also attacked by people many times in past just because I asked something they were like I am from India thus my mentality is like that. started with population, poverty, girl child killing,rapes...(as I am the only one responsible for all India's problems ).
Dont spoil your mood..
Dont spoil your mood..
Horrible behaviour!!
I sure won't hun ..I'm over them already!!
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......I said this to Anna,,,,the otherday on here.......we were having a banter at each other...,,,nice banter,,,of course,..........in each of us, there are 2 people.....the cyber person....and the real person...speaking for myself....i know i stir people up..hopefully. .....in a nice way without going over the top......I suppose....this is where , we sometimes go wrong.by judging a person by their banter.......
.....again, speaking for myself.......in real life.....i wouldnt say boo to a goose..... but thats the real me....and I hope, a nice person.......Im glad,,,,,Dee/dee....wrote this thred.......(eg) relate.........would feel nice....to be seen as real person.......and not just a cyber person who doesent care.....about others. and this applies to all of us...on here.....not just about me....ALL OF US........thanks for reading this.......if you did..????? pete.
.....again, speaking for myself.......in real life.....i wouldnt say boo to a goose..... but thats the real me....and I hope, a nice person.......Im glad,,,,,Dee/dee....wrote this thred.......(eg) relate.........would feel nice....to be seen as real person.......and not just a cyber person who doesent care.....about others. and this applies to all of us...on here.....not just about me....ALL OF US........thanks for reading this.......if you did..????? pete. ------ This thread is Archived ------
truheart1941: ......I said this to Anna,,,,the otherday on here.......we were having a banter at each other...,,,nice banter,,,of course,..........in each of us, there are 2 people.....the cyber person....and the real person...speaking for myself....i know i stir people up..hopefully. .....in a nice way without going over the top......I suppose....this is where , we sometimes go wrong.by judging a person by their banter....... .....again, speaking for myself.......in real life.....i wouldnt say boo to a goose..... but thats the real me....and I hope, a nice person.......Im glad,,,,,Dee/dee....wrote this thred.......(eg) relate.........would feel nice....to be seen as real person.......and not just a cyber person who doesent care.....about others. and this applies to all of us...on here.....not just about me....ALL OF US........thanks for reading this.......if you did..????? pete.
No I agree with you Pete we can show another side to ourselves when on the Internet.
I have had one major go at you once and I did apologise to you for it and was really sorry for taking it out on you.
I'm still learning about myself which I think we all do really.....I do get quite passionate about seeing people abused in a real nasty horrible way...maybe I'm not cut out for this forum.
I do really enjoy you and ur banter I think ur really funny and lighthearted and I see that ur a lovely person I think the real.person can always be seen through even on here.
Might be my last night on here after this...think I will take my bow and leave it to the thicker skinned people to enjoy and comment.
Maybe I do judge too harshly wud be something I'll think about for sure.
Thanks for leaving this thread on a nice note Pete.
Goodnight and take care x
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truheart1941: ......I said this to Anna,,,,the otherday on here.......we were having a banter at each other...,,,nice banter,,,of course,..........in each of us, there are 2 people.....the cyber person....and the real person...speaking for myself....i know i stir people up..hopefully. .....in a nice way without going over the top......I suppose....this is where , we sometimes go wrong.by judging a person by their banter....... .....again, speaking for myself.......in real life.....i wouldnt say boo to a goose..... but thats the real me....and I hope, a nice person.......Im glad,,,,,Dee/dee....wrote this thred.......(eg) relate.........would feel nice....to be seen as real person.......and not just a cyber person who doesent care.....about others. and this applies to all of us...on here.....not just about me....ALL OF US........thanks for reading this.......if you did..????? pete.
Hi tru..
How nice you are.......How is everything there?Do kids in your neighborhood still show you middle finger
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Deedee123x: No I agree with you Pete we can show another side to ourselves when on the Internet.
I have had one major go at you once and I did apologise to you for it and was really sorry for taking it out on you.
I'm still learning about myself which I think we all do really.....I do get quite passionate about seeing people abused in a real nasty horrible way...maybe I'm not cut out for this forum.
I do really enjoy you and ur banter I think ur really funny and lighthearted and I see that ur a lovely person I think the real.person can always be seen through even on here.
Might be my last night on here after this...think I will take my bow and leave it to the thicker skinned people to enjoy and comment.
Maybe I do judge too harshly wud be something I'll think about for sure.
Thanks for leaving this thread on a nice note Pete.
Goodnight and take care x
I have had one major go at you once and I did apologise to you for it and was really sorry for taking it out on you.
I'm still learning about myself which I think we all do really.....I do get quite passionate about seeing people abused in a real nasty horrible way...maybe I'm not cut out for this forum.
I do really enjoy you and ur banter I think ur really funny and lighthearted and I see that ur a lovely person I think the real.person can always be seen through even on here.
Might be my last night on here after this...think I will take my bow and leave it to the thicker skinned people to enjoy and comment.
Maybe I do judge too harshly wud be something I'll think about for sure.
Thanks for leaving this thread on a nice note Pete.
Goodnight and take care x
You can't take it to heart on here.
If somebody annoys you, yes you can attack back, but usually it gets you nowhere except intertwined in an ongoing battle without end.
So your best bet is to avoid that person, and their blogs and posts.
I know you say it is about other people being abused, but there is really nothing you can do about that. We are not moderators. We are just other users. Yes, you can say something once off, but an ongoing battle has no end, and only makes the forums more uncomfortable for everybody.
You can see other ongoing feuds on here I am sure. Sometimes they are fresh ones, but often they are historic, from long time members.
There are some people I find absolutely disgusting because of things they have said and done, especially to other more vulnerable people, but as I say, I am not a moderator, so all I can do is avoid them. Not everybody on here is a nice person, no more than everybody in real life is nice. But here, he can show the nasty side easier.
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I think that it's the anonymity of the internet that makes some people feel as if they have full rein to be as mean and nasty as they choose to me.
But one day they will change their tune when they meet up to someone that may be a little bit bigger and tougher then they are.
But one day they will change their tune when they meet up to someone that may be a little bit bigger and tougher then they are.
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mollybaby: You can't take it to heart on here.
If somebody annoys you, yes you can attack back, but usually it gets you nowhere except intertwined in an ongoing battle without end.
So your best bet is to avoid that person, and their blogs and posts.
I know you say it is about other people being abused, but there is really nothing you can do about that. We are not moderators. We are just other users. Yes, you can say something once off, but an ongoing battle has no end, and only makes the forums more uncomfortable for everybody.
You can see other ongoing feuds on here I am sure. Sometimes they are fresh ones, but often they are historic, from long time members.
There are some people I find absolutely disgusting because of things they have said and done, especially to other more vulnerable people, but as I say, I am not a moderator, so all I can do is avoid them. Not everybody on here is a nice person, no more than everybody in real life is nice. But here, he can show the nasty side easier.
If somebody annoys you, yes you can attack back, but usually it gets you nowhere except intertwined in an ongoing battle without end.
So your best bet is to avoid that person, and their blogs and posts.
I know you say it is about other people being abused, but there is really nothing you can do about that. We are not moderators. We are just other users. Yes, you can say something once off, but an ongoing battle has no end, and only makes the forums more uncomfortable for everybody.
You can see other ongoing feuds on here I am sure. Sometimes they are fresh ones, but often they are historic, from long time members.
There are some people I find absolutely disgusting because of things they have said and done, especially to other more vulnerable people, but as I say, I am not a moderator, so all I can do is avoid them. Not everybody on here is a nice person, no more than everybody in real life is nice. But here, he can show the nasty side easier.
Thanks for that Molly I appreciate it.
I do love the easy going banter and the teasing and Messing....it's all great fun.
I think it's best to avoid them and just stick to my kind of people!!
Maybe I need a big fat chill pill
Thanks and take care
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It's internet unaccountability...and it's not just here. People say horrible things to each other; treat each other horribly on the internet because they are unaccountable for their actions...and it's spilling over into how we treat each other offline as well. People in general have just become more rude and intolerant. The answer? Don't follow suit. You do you and don't take the trolls personally. I mean, why would you care about what someone like that thinks anyway? Let it go.