Maybe in a future where they've conquered poverty and disease there will be love rescue centres for tramps and they deal with this scenario all the time. But this isn't the world we live in today. I don't want to help people fall in love, that would be horrible.
Snookums33OPJoburg, Gauteng South Africa5,760 posts
ChesneyChrist: Maybe in a future where they've conquered poverty and disease there will be love rescue centres for tramps and they deal with this scenario all the time. But this isn't the world we live in today. I don't want to help people fall in love, that would be horrible.
I'm very empathetic. If I see someone in real need I will help, giving of mine that they need.
I will not help them fall in love as that is humanly impossible.
But what about the poor people that can't afford to meet and die wishing and hoping ?
There's a major inconsistency in that story... If they're both broke, how can one financially help the other?
Or do you mean, seeing two folks that like each other, and thinking- I'll throw a few grand at that, see what happens... I think such a person would not be on a free dating site. I think all the people who eat caviar and drive a Maserati on here, are living in a fantasy world.
I think it is a success for all when a connection is made and continues on for a long time if not forever. But I also think that if there is a couple or potential couple that are far away from each other that even if a person or a group of people paid for them to meet then how will they get the funds to make it happen again? And of course in many if not most cases the couple will have to show the government that they can support themselves for one of them to move to the new Country and so on. Now as mentioned earlier that if it was meant to be then they will find a way.. This may be very true. But for those reasons I guess I would not feel comfortable buying a ticket for someone to meet another. Now on the other hand if I was crazy rich there might be some moment i would feel different, but that just is not the case. I can also say with confidence and honesty that for the most part I did find a way to explore what I truly believed was going to be a real a true Love between myself and another that I had met here and before I was here as well. This was years ago and I really thought we were going to spend the rest of our lives together. Well, it didn't happen, but it was not for the lack of trying and putting everything I thought I could to be not only reasonable but also optimistic and even forgiving some actions that others might not have. In the end I found that I was alone, what's more is that for the last 5 years I became even more removed.... people, family, friends, many died without notice and though all this is true I still take time to sing and play a happy song. I know that the future is not always what we might have thought. I know this is a bit of a long post but you never know, sometimes people make flash judgements about each of us and never get a chance to meet or really talk to the real person behind the computer or smartphone. I hope for each of us that we come out of here each day with a little bit of hope or at least a feeling of being part of something that is not hateful and that even with the conflicts there is a stronger truth that might break the awful thought that many have just given up. Maybe as we open our minds to a better future we might just become more attractive to someone that we didn't even notice. i know it can happen, it has and it will again most likely..... and the thing is that is when like a magic these things just fall into place.
Snookums33OPJoburg, Gauteng South Africa5,760 posts
Dragos1: I think it is a success for all when a connection is made and continues on for a long time if not forever. But I also think that if there is a couple or potential couple that are far away from each other that even if a person or a group of people paid for them to meet then how will they get the funds to make it happen again? And of course in many if not most cases the couple will have to show the government that they can support themselves for one of them to move to the new Country and so on. Now as mentioned earlier that if it was meant to be then they will find a way.. This may be very true. But for those reasons I guess I would not feel comfortable buying a ticket for someone to meet another. Now on the other hand if I was crazy rich there might be some moment i would feel different, but that just is not the case. I can also say with confidence and honesty that for the most part I did find a way to explore what I truly believed was going to be a real a true Love between myself and another that I had met here and before I was here as well. This was years ago and I really thought we were going to spend the rest of our lives together. Well, it didn't happen, but it was not for the lack of trying and putting everything I thought I could to be not only reasonable but also optimistic and even forgiving some actions that others might not have. In the end I found that I was alone, what's more is that for the last 5 years I became even more removed.... people, family, friends, many died without notice and though all this is true I still take time to sing and play a happy song. I know that the future is not always what we might have thought. I know this is a bit of a long post but you never know, sometimes people make flash judgements about each of us and never get a chance to meet or really talk to the real person behind the computer or smartphone. I hope for each of us that we come out of here each day with a little bit of hope or at least a feeling of being part of something that is not hateful and that even with the conflicts there is a stronger truth that might break the awful thought that many have just given up. Maybe as we open our minds to a better future we might just become more attractive to someone that we didn't even notice. i know it can happen, it has and it will again most likely..... and the thing is that is when like a magic these things just fall into place.
Well I believe the Impossible is possible if ur determined to let it happen.
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I'm sure this senario has played it out quite a few times already !
If everything is above board, and u should be able to check it out first:-
Will u help them ?