Jealousy in a relationship is caused by lack of trust ! ( Archived) (20)

Jan 17, 2018 10:18 AM CST Jealousy in a relationship is caused by lack of trust !
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
Jealousy is such a small word, that can cause sooooo.... much heart-ache !!!

Trust is not given easily by responsible human beings:-
- U always wonder !
- Until ur trust is earned !

If u trust someone:-
They can go into a room full of naked people, and not even notice them, or r just not interested !!!
They can work with billions on financials and not even consider gaining anything personally !!!

But Humans r after all Human too:-
Mistakes can be made !!!

In a relationship Human Nature must also be considered !!!

What's ur Take ?


love
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Jan 17, 2018 11:21 AM CST Jealousy in a relationship is caused by lack of trust !
KremaP: Trust is a very fragile thing...
Jealousy isn't always a matter of trust or lack of it...
I choose to trust...until given a solid reason not to...
But once broken it's impossible for me to have it restore for that same person...


KremaP: If that is the real you in the picture, you're a resplendent woman... Trust me!!

kiss heart beating hug teddybear bouquet bowing bowing bowing bowing bowing
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Jan 17, 2018 11:27 AM CST Jealousy in a relationship is caused by lack of trust !
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
Dedovix: how many people, you dont trust, have betrayed you?


Only the ones u trust, can betray u, the rest u just outsiders.
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Jan 17, 2018 11:39 AM CST Jealousy in a relationship is caused by lack of trust !
KremaP
KremaPKremaPAt home, Shumen Bulgaria3,793 Posts
lookn2share: KremaP: If that is the real you in the picture, you're a resplendent woman... Trust me!!






Actually that's my evil twin... uh oh






laugh
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Jan 17, 2018 12:20 PM CST Jealousy in a relationship is caused by lack of trust !
MikeD12
MikeD12MikeD12Broadstairs, Kent, England UK16 Threads 2 Polls 2,809 Posts
Jealousy could also be caused by lack of thrust if she's broody, sees Mums' wit sprog & you can't get her up the duff rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Jan 17, 2018 12:32 PM CST Jealousy in a relationship is caused by lack of trust !
diova
diovadiovaMy Valley, Gauteng South Africa733 Posts
Dedovix: how many people, you dont trust, have betrayed you?


That's a good question professor
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Jan 17, 2018 12:32 PM CST Jealousy in a relationship is caused by lack of trust !
marlindap
marlindapmarlindapClearwater, British Columbia Canada585 Posts
some people deserve trust and some do not, if you found someone here and they do not communicate regularly, it is a good idea to consider what country they come from. Some countries have a culture of where they do not talk much.
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Jan 17, 2018 12:43 PM CST Jealousy in a relationship is caused by lack of trust !
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
There is no way to jealousy, jealousy is the way. wink




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Jan 17, 2018 12:49 PM CST Jealousy in a relationship is caused by lack of trust !
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
galrads: There is no way to jealousy, jealousy is the way.


U don't just get jealous out of thin air
Its caused my someone or thing.
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Jan 17, 2018 3:18 PM CST Jealousy in a relationship is caused by lack of trust !
jac_the_gripper
jac_the_gripperjac_the_gripperTonyrefail, South Glamorgan, Wales UK24 Threads 5,363 Posts
@Lookin2share...

It sounds like melodrama to me. laugh

Just because someone doesn't put the back of their hand to their anguished brow, doesn't mean they don't have feelings.

Jealousy can be a horrible destructive emotion, the acting out thereof utterly useless. You can't control other people, but you can work with your own psyche.

If someone betrays your trust, you grieve, you heal, you move on. Jealousy isn't going to stop them, nor will it make the betrayal go away.
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Jan 17, 2018 6:13 PM CST Jealousy in a relationship is caused by lack of trust !
jac_the_gripper
jac_the_gripperjac_the_gripperTonyrefail, South Glamorgan, Wales UK24 Threads 5,363 Posts
Err, yuck.
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Jan 17, 2018 6:53 PM CST Jealousy in a relationship is caused by lack of trust !
The cause of jealously is varied.
A believe a fear of abandonment is the biggest cause, at least for many people.
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Jan 17, 2018 8:36 PM CST Jealousy in a relationship is caused by lack of trust !
jac_the_gripper: Err, yuck.


jac_the_gripper: Just kidding...I take it back! tongue doh
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Jan 18, 2018 12:34 AM CST Jealousy in a relationship is caused by lack of trust !
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
Kaybee50: The cause of jealously is varied.
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thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up


In many occasions its a mental disease.
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Jan 18, 2018 7:45 AM CST Jealousy in a relationship is caused by lack of trust !
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
Let us.
U r a very sensible creature.
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Jan 18, 2018 7:02 PM CST Jealousy in a relationship is caused by lack of trust !
Bearwoman
BearwomanBearwomanNorthgate, Ohio USA9 Threads 3,267 Posts
I believe the cause of jealousy is someone being in fear that they could end up alone.Or rejected by their partner.
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Jan 19, 2018 10:50 AM CST Jealousy in a relationship is caused by lack of trust !
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
Let_Us: Thank you, Snookie! I DO try to think about "things". And base my actions on rational/logical analysis of the questions/situations. But,in MY experience, most people (especially women) are more in tune with feelings/emotions, than with "cold" logic and "considered" opinion. So, I'm STILL single (and available (-: )!


Someone will taken up on that soon.

Bachelors battle getting used to an in house comfort over a longer than one night stand situation tho.
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Jan 20, 2018 6:23 AM CST Jealousy in a relationship is caused by lack of trust !
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
MsContessa: It may be a personal issue with trust rather than their partners behaviours
Some partners want you to live their life!


Very interesting points and very possible.
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Jan 20, 2018 8:32 AM CST Jealousy in a relationship is caused by lack of trust !
Jealousy in a relationship is caused by lack of trust,

No it is caused by nosy Partners scold

"nosy
'n??zi/Submit
informal
adjective

1. showing too much curiosity about other people's affairs."
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Jan 20, 2018 8:36 AM CST Jealousy in a relationship is caused by lack of trust !
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
nonsmoker: Jealousy in a relationship is caused by lack of trust,

No it is caused by nosy Partners

"nosy
'n??zi/Submit
informal
adjective

1. showing too much curiosity about other people's affairs."


Ns. U r wrong !!!
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