Snookums33OPJoburg, Gauteng South Africa5,760 posts
Jealousy is such a small word, that can cause sooooo.... much heart-ache !!!
Trust is not given easily by responsible human beings:- - U always wonder ! - Until ur trust is earned !
If u trust someone:- They can go into a room full of naked people, and not even notice them, or r just not interested !!! They can work with billions on financials and not even consider gaining anything personally !!!
But Humans r after all Human too:- Mistakes can be made !!!
In a relationship Human Nature must also be considered !!!
KremaP: Trust is a very fragile thing... Jealousy isn't always a matter of trust or lack of it... I choose to trust...until given a solid reason not to... But once broken it's impossible for me to have it restore for that same person...
KremaP: If that is the real you in the picture, you're a resplendent woman... Trust me!!
Jan 17, 2018 12:32 PM CST Jealousy in a relationship is caused by lack of trust !
marlindapClearwater, British Columbia Canada585 Posts
marlindapClearwater, British Columbia Canada585 posts
some people deserve trust and some do not, if you found someone here and they do not communicate regularly, it is a good idea to consider what country they come from. Some countries have a culture of where they do not talk much.
Just because someone doesn't put the back of their hand to their anguished brow, doesn't mean they don't have feelings.
Jealousy can be a horrible destructive emotion, the acting out thereof utterly useless. You can't control other people, but you can work with your own psyche.
If someone betrays your trust, you grieve, you heal, you move on. Jealousy isn't going to stop them, nor will it make the betrayal go away.
Snookums33OPJoburg, Gauteng South Africa5,760 posts
Let_Us: Thank you, Snookie! I DO try to think about "things". And base my actions on rational/logical analysis of the questions/situations. But,in MY experience, most people (especially women) are more in tune with feelings/emotions, than with "cold" logic and "considered" opinion. So, I'm STILL single (and available (-: )!
Someone will taken up on that soon.
Bachelors battle getting used to an in house comfort over a longer than one night stand situation tho.
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Trust is not given easily by responsible human beings:-
- U always wonder !
- Until ur trust is earned !
If u trust someone:-
They can go into a room full of naked people, and not even notice them, or r just not interested !!!
They can work with billions on financials and not even consider gaining anything personally !!!
But Humans r after all Human too:-
Mistakes can be made !!!
In a relationship Human Nature must also be considered !!!
What's ur Take ?