Your ex ( Archived) (41)

Mar 3, 2018 12:48 PM CST Your ex
marlindap: my experience in this situation is, they say they still love you after you have parted, but he never really loved me when we were together. He just never found someone as good as me. Think about how he treated you when you were together, did he have time for you, was he there for you. There are people who only want you because you are gone.


You have to write to him :
I DIDN'T LOSE YOU, YOU LOST ME.
YOU WILL SEARCH FOR ME INSIDE EVERYONE YOU'RE WITH
AND I WON'T BE FOUND

handshake
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Mar 3, 2018 12:56 PM CST Your ex
heavensmile: How if.....
Your ex keep sending you message whenever they wake up in the morning and about to sleep.
They always remember you on first time open eyes and whenever they want to close their eyes.
Always want to know what are you doing, if everything ok with you. remind you for breakfast, lunch n dinner.
Whenever have time in office, they will call you, just want to hear your voice.
They said got used to with that, and cant change even they have other and already living together with her/him.
They said that they still care about you.....
What is that mean?
Are they still love you? or They not happy with their new relationship? or they really care about you?
Or they dont want to loose you? or they not ready to let you with other?



anyone experience this situation? what to do with this?


Sounds obsessive. Be careful with him and keep his at a certain distance at all times.
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Mar 3, 2018 1:10 PM CST Your ex
jac_the_gripper
jac_the_gripperjac_the_gripperTonyrefail, South Glamorgan, Wales UK24 Threads 5,363 Posts
This man does not appear to care for the two women, but a man who only looks after himself.

I agree with Ali, he cheating both women.

If I were in this situation, I think I would be happier being friends with the other woman and not bothering with him. laugh
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Mar 3, 2018 1:21 PM CST Your ex
Let_Us
Let_UsLet_UsAnaheim, California USA9 Threads 1,017 Posts
heavensmile: Complete advice with full explanation. will be reference for consideration.
wise thank you


Is THAT a reference to MY long winded post, Heavenly? (I know! There WAS NO ROOM, to "quote" me!) It's only MY thoughts, about dealing with men. And, having been one MOST of my life, I have SOME 'experience" to draw upon! And you should ALWAYS keep THIS in mind, when dealing with men! ESPECIALLY IF there is/are OTHER women involved! The ONE thing men dread MOST, is having to deal with you ladies in MORE than "one" increments! Trust me on THIS! IF there's ANYTHING "funny" going on, when the OTHER woman gets brought into the conversation, men GET nervous! They DON'T wanna go THERE! Because THEN, they have to start justifying and explaining! kiss wine (I KNOW! You DON'T drink alcohol! So we'll buy YOU a fruit juice! Kiwi, banana, strawberry, with a hint of blackberry, to keep 'em guessing, Heavenly!) hug teddybear
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Mar 3, 2018 1:33 PM CST Your ex
Let_Us
Let_UsLet_UsAnaheim, California USA9 Threads 1,017 Posts
heavensmile: You have to write to him :
I DIDN'T LOSE YOU, YOU LOST ME.
YOU WILL SEARCH FOR ME INSIDE EVERYONE YOU'RE WITH
AND I WON'T BE FOUND


And, since you ADDED this, since I was here, you MIGHT consider taking your OWN advice! HE moved on! Let him KEEP ON moving on! head banger banana yay
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Mar 3, 2018 6:07 PM CST Your ex
Let_Us: Is THAT a reference to MY long winded post, Heavenly? (I know! There WAS NO ROOM, to "quote" me!) It's only MY thoughts, about dealing with men. And, having been one MOST of my life, I have SOME 'experience" to draw upon! And you should ALWAYS keep THIS in mind, when dealing with men! ESPECIALLY IF there is/are OTHER women involved! The ONE thing men dread MOST, is having to deal with you ladies in MORE than "one" increments! Trust me on THIS! IF there's ANYTHING "funny" going on, when the OTHER woman gets brought into the conversation, men GET nervous! They DON'T wanna go THERE! Because THEN, they have to start justifying and explaining! (I KNOW! You DON'T drink alcohol! So we'll buy YOU a fruit juice! Kiwi, banana, strawberry, with a hint of blackberry, to keep 'em guessing, Heavenly!)


Yes, its for your thread.
Kiwi Mojito or Manggo lassi plz
wine
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Mar 3, 2018 6:44 PM CST Your ex
DoubleFantasy
DoubleFantasyDoubleFantasyLondon, Greater London, England UK562 Posts
heavensmile: How if.....
Your ex keep sending you message whenever they wake up in the morning and about to sleep.
They always remember you on first time open eyes and whenever they want to close their eyes.
Always want to know what are you doing, if everything ok with you. remind you for breakfast, lunch n dinner.
Whenever have time in office, they will call you, just want to hear your voice.
They said got used to with that, and cant change even they have other and already living together with her/him.
They said that they still care about you.....
What is that mean?
Are they still love you? or They not happy with their new relationship? or they really care about you?
Or they dont want to loose you? or they not ready to let you with other?



anyone experience this situation? what to do with this?


This sounds like (possibly boarding on) stalking or harassment

Not sure of your laws over there...but if it bothers you - it could be a matter for the police to deal with (or they may advise you to get a restraining order against this moron) thumbs down
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Mar 3, 2018 6:50 PM CST Your ex
HexagonKeySet
HexagonKeySetHexagonKeySetCentral, Waikato New Zealand150 Threads 7 Polls 3,829 Posts
heavensmile: How if.....
Your ex keep sending you message whenever they wake up in the morning and about to sleep.
They always remember you on first time open eyes and whenever they want to close their eyes.
Always want to know what are you doing, if everything ok with you. remind you for breakfast, lunch n dinner.
Whenever have time in office, they will call you, just want to hear your voice.
They said got used to with that, and cant change even they have other and already living together with her/him.
They said that they still care about you.....
What is that mean?
Are they still love you? or They not happy with their new relationship? or they really care about you?
Or they dont want to loose you? or they not ready to let you with other?
anyone experience this situation? what to do with this?


I'm surprised you need to ask for two reasons ... 1) do phones in Indonesia not have a BLOCK NUMBER function ? 2) This is not a 'teen magazine forum' it's for grown ups !
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Mar 3, 2018 6:53 PM CST Your ex
Mercedes_00online today!
Mercedes_00online today!Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,483 Posts
An ex is an ex for one or more reasons
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Mar 3, 2018 7:22 PM CST Your ex
Let_Us
Let_UsLet_UsAnaheim, California USA9 Threads 1,017 Posts
heavensmile: Yes, its for your thread.
Kiwi Mojito or Manggo lassi plz



doh I HATE being dumb! What's a "Mojito"? And how do you SAY that? I'm thinking "Mo - heat - to" in my head. But THAT may be because I'm USE to the Spanish "j"s sounding like "h"s. confused dunno hug bouquet
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Mar 3, 2018 9:19 PM CST Your ex
Let_Us: I HATE being dumb! What's a "Mojito"? And how do you SAY that? I'm thinking "Mo - heat - to" in my head. But THAT may be because I'm USE to the Spanish "j"s sounding like "h"s.
http://foodpunch.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/04/Kiwi-Virgin-Mojito.jpg
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Mar 3, 2018 10:07 PM CST Your ex
askmrknowitallno
askmrknowitallnoaskmrknowitallnosan jose,ca, California USA14 Posts
You are not dumb, you were naive, and innocent. Those traits are good.
There is a you that you show everyone. There is a you inside of you that you MUST only show to special people. You made a mistake this man was not worthy, it happens. YOU didn't do any thing wrong !!

IN THE FUTURE, take this LOVE and share it with another, LOVE will allow you to create HEAVEN right here on earth. But you must be careful with whom you share your LOVE, for if you share Your LOVE with a fool, he will surely break your HEART, and even the very fires of hell, don't equal the pain of ONE BROKE HEART.
be careful not to give your heart to a fool.
Good Luck (smile).
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Mar 3, 2018 11:59 PM CST Your ex
askmrknowitallno: You are not dumb, you were naive, and innocent. Those traits are good.
There is a you that you show everyone. There is a you inside of you that you MUST only show to special people. You made a mistake this man was not worthy, it happens. YOU didn't do any thing wrong !!

IN THE FUTURE, take this LOVE and share it with another, LOVE will allow you to create HEAVEN right here on earth. But you must be careful with whom you share your LOVE, for if you share Your LOVE with a fool, he will surely break your HEART, and even the very fires of hell, don't equal the pain of ONE BROKE HEART.
be careful not to give your heart to a fool.
Good Luck (smile).


You are right, who can share the love easily then break it, not worth for that love itself.
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Mar 4, 2018 2:21 AM CST Your ex
DoubleFantasy: This sounds like (possibly boarding on) stalking or harassment

Not sure of your laws over there...but if it bothers you - it could be a matter for the police to deal with (or they may advise you to get a restraining order against this moron)


Still not that serious to involve police. Maybe he try to play with emotion. not ready to loss us, and not allow us to forget him. so.....keep sending reminder that he is there, still care of us.
But he forget, that only show us, he is not honest n loyal in relationship.
Maybe if we taken him back, he will do the same with us.
When one hand hold us, other hand text to his ex.
doh
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Mar 4, 2018 3:20 AM CST Your ex
DoubleFantasy
DoubleFantasyDoubleFantasyLondon, Greater London, England UK562 Posts
heavensmile: Still not that serious to involve police. Maybe he try to play with emotion. not ready to loss us, and not allow us to forget him. so.....keep sending reminder that he is there, still care of us.
But he forget, that only show us, he is not honest n loyal in relationship.
Maybe if we taken him back, he will do the same with us.
When one hand hold us, other hand text to his ex.


I have seen it happen...a grown man turning in to a teenager scold
Just do whatever you feel is the best
It seems to be a "fatal attraction" of sorts. Something I would hate - just because its such an ugly time waste.teddybear
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Mar 4, 2018 4:33 AM CST Your ex
DoubleFantasy: I have seen it happen...a grown man turning in to a teenager
Just do whatever you feel is the best
It seems to be a "fatal attraction" of sorts. Something I would hate - just because its such an ugly time waste.


what do u mean? confused
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Mar 4, 2018 4:57 AM CST Your ex
DoubleFantasy
DoubleFantasyDoubleFantasyLondon, Greater London, England UK562 Posts
heavensmile: what do u mean?


For a start - three is a crowd

Secondly - Watch the film "fatal attraction" you will then know there are such things as "buddy boilers" and you cant get rid of them, try as you might.

Due to these reasons I believe the gun is half-cocked, to say the least.
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Mar 4, 2018 7:07 PM CST Your ex
jac_the_gripper: This man does not appear to care for the two women, but a man who only looks after himself.

I agree with Ali, he cheating both women.

If I were in this situation, I think I would be happier being friends with the other woman and not bothering with him.


good idea, make friendship with their new patner. and show her what they did behind her ?confused
we should not hurt her for not her mistake. wink
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Mar 5, 2018 7:38 AM CST Your ex
rainbowdream2017
rainbowdream2017rainbowdream2017Melbourne, Victoria Australia13 Threads 1 Polls 2,486 Posts
ali110: It means he wants to live with you both
Somebody with true love don't do that , please do not be offended but that's cheating , with you and her
You're fair and wise man.wine
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Mar 5, 2018 8:17 AM CST Your ex
rainbowdream2017: You're fair and wise man.
Thank you , I love you grin laugh please never mind just fun
Hi rainbow wine
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