What do people remember the most about you after they first meet you? ( Archived) (78)

Apr 1, 2018 4:42 PM CST What do people remember the most about you after they first meet you?
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
What do people remember the most about you after they first meet you?

A.) What I say
B.) My Posture
C.) My clothes
D.) My Money
E.) My Ego
F.) How I treat them


Go Ahead.... wave
------ This thread is Archived ------
Apr 1, 2018 4:56 PM CST What do people remember the most about you after they first meet you?
Bearwoman
BearwomanBearwomanNorthgate, Ohio USA9 Threads 3,267 Posts
I suppose they might remember the most about me is that I'm very blunt and out spoken.I don't play mind games with anyone and people always know just where they stand with me.
------ This thread is Archived ------
Apr 1, 2018 5:22 PM CST What do people remember the most about you after they first meet you?
rainbowdream2017
rainbowdream2017rainbowdream2017Melbourne, Victoria Australia13 Threads 1 Polls 2,486 Posts
galrads: What do people remember the most about you after they first meet you?

A.) What I say
B.) My Posture
C.) My clothes
D.) My Money
E.) My Ego
F.) How I treat them


Go Ahead....
Of course how people treat each other is the most important, happy spirit of smile, being yourself...but it's not a one side thing. Some people bring the best out of us and others don't!
------ This thread is Archived ------
Apr 1, 2018 8:43 PM CST What do people remember the most about you after they first meet you?
Let_Us
Let_UsLet_UsAnaheim, California USA9 Threads 1,017 Posts
galrads: What do people remember the most about you after they first meet you?

A.) What I say
B.) My Posture
C.) My clothes
D.) My Money
E.) My Ego
F.) How I treat them


Go Ahead....



How would "I" know? I'm NOT them? POORLY phased question, Galrads!

But, to ANSWER your question, it's been brought to my attention (by various people) that it's NOT what "I" HAD ALWAYS imagined it WOULD be (my bright copper/gold hair - when I was younger), but was, in THEIR firmly stated opinion, my eyes! I HAVE been told that I have the "bluest" eyes some have ever seen (although, in the mirror, to ME, they look as "grayish", as they do blue). But I THINK, MORE than the color of my eyes, it's the intensity of my "look" that, makes them "memorable". When I'm in a one on one conversation with a person, I'm FULLY ENGAGED with that person! Pretty much CONSTANT "eye contact" (scrutiny)! ESPECIALLY if it's a female that I find attractive, and thus, AM interested in "knowing" EVERYTHING about! dunno confused handshake cheers grin
------ This thread is Archived ------
Apr 1, 2018 8:56 PM CST What do people remember the most about you after they first meet you?
rainbowdream2017
rainbowdream2017rainbowdream2017Melbourne, Victoria Australia13 Threads 1 Polls 2,486 Posts
Let_Us: How would "I" know? I'm NOT them? POORLY phased question, Galrads!

But, to ANSWER your question, it's been brought to my attention (by various people) that it's NOT what "I" HAD ALWAYS imagined it WOULD be (my bright copper/gold hair - when I was younger), but was, in THEIR firmly stated opinion, my eyes! I HAVE been told that I have the "bluest" eyes some have ever seen (although, in the mirror, to ME, they look as "grayish", as they do blue). But I THINK, MORE than the color of my eyes, it's the intensity of my "look" that, makes them "memorable". When I'm in a one on one conversation with a person, I'm FULLY ENGAGED with that person! Pretty much CONSTANT "eye contact" (scrutiny)! ESPECIALLY if it's a female that I find attractive, and thus, AM interested in "knowing" EVERYTHING about!
Than you must be hipnotising with your eyes. wink laugh
Yes, I was many times told the same thing, my eyes are rare type that changing from green to blue & vice versa but I never thought it's only about colour because in my view, all colour of eyes are beautiful but what makes one outstanding is depth of shinning soul warmth and ability to share warmth of smile. cheers teddybear
------ This thread is Archived ------
Apr 1, 2018 9:08 PM CST What do people remember the most about you after they first meet you?
Mercedes_00online today!
Mercedes_00online today!Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,456 Posts
Hair

Body

Smile

Eye's

Wit

Sense of humour

My laugh

My hair is definitely the first thing people notice I have woman & guys stop me or run up behind me tapping me on the shoulder every single day asking me for advice asking me what shampoo/conditioner I use or they will gently tug on my hair thinking I have extensions.

The rest of my list isn't in any particular order there things I'm often complimented on often.
------ This thread is Archived ------
Apr 1, 2018 9:15 PM CST What do people remember the most about you after they first meet you?
Let_Us
Let_UsLet_UsAnaheim, California USA9 Threads 1,017 Posts
rainbowdream2017: Than you must be hipnotising with your eyes.
Yes, I was many times told the same thing, my eyes are rare type that changing from green to blue & vice versa but I never thought it's only about colour because in my view, all colour of eyes are beautiful but what makes one outstanding is depth of shinning soul warmth and ability to share warmth of smile.


I agree that the amount of "twinkle" in an eye, affects a person's REMEMBRANCE of those eyes, Rainy! And "warmth" of "look/feel" bears a relationship to people's response to a person. But, with ME (I think), it's more the "intensity" of my "attention". When I'm "with" you, I'm ALL 5,000% "IN" TO you! Which (in MY experience, anyway) is kinda rare. Most people are only PARTIALLY "with" you, even in "deep discussion", with you. And you CAN "read" THIS, in a person's "attention". I'm NOT saying it very well, but language has NEVER been MY strong point. dunno handshake hug cheers teddybear
------ This thread is Archived ------
Apr 1, 2018 9:50 PM CST What do people remember the most about you after they first meet you?
HexagonKeySet
HexagonKeySetHexagonKeySetCentral, Waikato New Zealand150 Threads 7 Polls 3,829 Posts
Let_Us: How would "I" know? I'm NOT them? POORLY phased question, Galrads!


My thoughts exactly ...
------ This thread is Archived ------
Apr 1, 2018 10:10 PM CST What do people remember the most about you after they first meet you?
rainbowdream2017
rainbowdream2017rainbowdream2017Melbourne, Victoria Australia13 Threads 1 Polls 2,486 Posts
Let_Us: I agree that the amount of "twinkle" in an eye, affects a person's REMEMBRANCE of those eyes, Rainy! And "warmth" of "look/feel" bears a relationship to people's response to a person. But, with ME (I think), it's more the "intensity" of my "attention". When I'm "with" you, I'm ALL 5,000% "IN" TO you! Which (in MY experience, anyway) is kinda rare. Most people are only PARTIALLY "with" you, even in "deep discussion", with you. And you CAN "read" THIS, in a person's "attention". I'm NOT saying it very well, but language has NEVER been MY strong point.
As long man doesn't come too close in my space (in my face ) that may be the "intensity " of being a good listener. wine gift
------ This thread is Archived ------
Apr 1, 2018 11:36 PM CST What do people remember the most about you after they first meet you?
Harbal
HarbalHarbalSouth Yorkshire, England UK49 Threads 3 Polls 2,248 Posts
rainbowdream2017: my eyes are rare type that changing from green to blue & vice versa

I've seen Christmas lights that do that, rainbow, but never eyes. I bet you make a very memorable impression on the people you meet.
wave
------ This thread is Archived ------
Apr 2, 2018 12:28 AM CST What do people remember the most about you after they first meet you?
my smile flirty
------ This thread is Archived ------
Apr 2, 2018 1:19 AM CST What do people remember the most about you after they first meet you?
Stargazer111
Stargazer111Stargazer111Faro, Portugal1 Threads 38 Posts
galrads: What do people remember the most about you after they first meet you?

A.) What I say
B.) My Posture
C.) My clothes
D.) My Money
E.) My Ego
F.) How I treat them


Go Ahead....


F) How I treat them.
------ This thread is Archived ------
Apr 2, 2018 1:31 AM CST What do people remember the most about you after they first meet you?
robbyreal
robbyrealrobbyrealPlaya Flamenca, Valencia Spain171 Posts
My lopsided smile

My funny gestures ( which my students always told me )

My Wolverhampton accent ( it’s known as yamyam)

My chicken legs ( if I’m wearing shorts )



grin
------ This thread is Archived ------
Apr 2, 2018 1:33 AM CST What do people remember the most about you after they first meet you?
Harbal
HarbalHarbalSouth Yorkshire, England UK49 Threads 3 Polls 2,248 Posts
Mercedes_00: Will you marry me

Don't fall for it, M, he'll change once he's got you.
------ This thread is Archived ------
Apr 2, 2018 1:52 AM CST What do people remember the most about you after they first meet you?
Mercedes_00online today!
Mercedes_00online today!Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,456 Posts
------ This thread is Archived ------
Apr 2, 2018 1:56 AM CST What do people remember the most about you after they first meet you?
Mercedes_00: I just spat my cuppa over my keyboard
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
------ This thread is Archived ------
Apr 2, 2018 2:05 AM CST What do people remember the most about you after they first meet you?
Mercedes_00online today!
Mercedes_00online today!Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,456 Posts
That was the truth too laugh
------ This thread is Archived ------
Apr 2, 2018 3:46 AM CST What do people remember the most about you after they first meet you?
rainbowdream2017
rainbowdream2017rainbowdream2017Melbourne, Victoria Australia13 Threads 1 Polls 2,486 Posts
Harbal: I've seen Christmas lights that do that, rainbow, but never eyes. I bet you make a very memorable impression on the people you meet.
Thank you for giving smiling twinkle in my eyes. laugh lips
------ This thread is Archived ------
Apr 2, 2018 3:54 AM CST What do people remember the most about you after they first meet you?
Harbal
HarbalHarbalSouth Yorkshire, England UK49 Threads 3 Polls 2,248 Posts
rainbowdream2017: Thank you for giving smiling twinkle in my eyes.

I bet the twinkle in your eyes is irresistible, rainbow. hug
------ This thread is Archived ------
Apr 2, 2018 4:06 AM CST What do people remember the most about you after they first meet you?
rainbowdream2017
rainbowdream2017rainbowdream2017Melbourne, Victoria Australia13 Threads 1 Polls 2,486 Posts
Harbal: I bet the twinkle in your eyes is irresistible, rainbow.
If you say so...wink laugh
Amazing how we crossed the bridge ...to pleasent peacful communication. hug
Thank you. wine
------ This thread is Archived ------
Post Comment - Post a comment on this Forum Thread

This Thread is Archived

This Thread is archived, so you will no longer be able to post to it. Threads get archived automatically when they are older than 3 months.

« Go back to All Threads
Message #318

Stats for this Thread

4,225 Views
77 Comments
by galrads (2,264 Threads)
Created: Apr 2018
Last Viewed: 10 hrs ago
Last Commented: Apr 2018

Share this Thread

We use cookies to ensure that you have the best experience possible on our website. Read Our Privacy Policy Here