Fight for love. (52)
online now!online now!marlindapClearwater, British Columbia Canada589 PostsIf you have to start fighting for love, there is no love, you are just fighting for a relationship. You will know someone loves you, if they try not to hurt you.
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deedee123xo: In a relationship how do you make the distinction between what you consider fighting for love or to simply walk away.
Getting to know someone and all their sides is quite difficult and can take a lifetime.
Do you stick with someone through thick and thin or do you run when the going gets tough and how do you decide when enough is enough.
Love should be given freely ,by both interested parties.Getting to know someone and all their sides is quite difficult and can take a lifetime.
Do you stick with someone through thick and thin or do you run when the going gets tough and how do you decide when enough is enough.
If it works great, if it doesn't, then walk away , after all there are more fish in the sea.
And sometimes, what we thought was good for us in past times, is not for us after in the present.
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Fight for love.
Love is a feeling. Your feeling. Whom are you going to fight for your feeling?
This forum is rather old one, which gives me lilberty to assume that one or other participant here has already lost someone very significant. Parents most probable, a class mate, a sibling, a cat or two... Death per se doesn't cancel love, see? You still can feel the warmth that those people (or animals) induced in you, when they were alive.
Once I had a cat. I loved him. He died. I cannot have another cat. I don't want a cat I cannot love.
Once I loved a man. He died.
Fighting for a relationship is quite different matter. I did it twice. Lost both times. Not going to do it again. Am I not good enough as am? The exit it there --->
Love is a feeling. Your feeling. Whom are you going to fight for your feeling?
This forum is rather old one, which gives me lilberty to assume that one or other participant here has already lost someone very significant. Parents most probable, a class mate, a sibling, a cat or two... Death per se doesn't cancel love, see? You still can feel the warmth that those people (or animals) induced in you, when they were alive.
Once I had a cat. I loved him. He died. I cannot have another cat. I don't want a cat I cannot love.
Once I loved a man. He died.
Fighting for a relationship is quite different matter. I did it twice. Lost both times. Not going to do it again. Am I not good enough as am? The exit it there --->
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don't see why one should fight for love if you must is not love is just some airy fairy thinking ...addics don't become addicts over night money and meaness destroys most relationships I thinks ..but fight for love no its there or its not
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deedee123xo: In a relationship how do you make the distinction between what you consider fighting for love or to simply walk away.
Getting to know someone and all their sides is quite difficult and can take a lifetime.
Do you stick with someone through thick and thin or do you run when the going gets tough and how do you decide when enough is enough.
Hey ddGetting to know someone and all their sides is quite difficult and can take a lifetime.
Do you stick with someone through thick and thin or do you run when the going gets tough and how do you decide when enough is enough.
@ First it was love so I stood by my man
as unexpected lies ahead with the relationship after fighting for it till I already got in the way off limits.Enough is Enough was my final verdict
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If you have to fight for love it's simply not available to you.
I have better things to do.
I have better things to do.
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deedee123xo: In a relationship how do you make the distinction between what you consider fighting for love or to simply walk away.
Getting to know someone and all their sides is quite difficult and can take a lifetime.
Do you stick with someone through thick and thin or do you run when the going gets tough and how do you decide when enough is enough.
if I have to go beyond what i normally do (which is alot) to have love. I'd rather be single. Why you ask Getting to know someone and all their sides is quite difficult and can take a lifetime.
Do you stick with someone through thick and thin or do you run when the going gets tough and how do you decide when enough is enough.
. She's obviously not really into me. Why you ask . If I've already looked after her and more and she wants more . I wonder why she's in the relationship in the first place 
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deedee123xo: In a relationship how do you make the distinction between what you consider fighting for love or to simply walk away.
Getting to know someone and all their sides is quite difficult and can take a lifetime.
Do you stick with someone through thick and thin or do you run when the going gets tough and how do you decide when enough is enough.
reciprocityGetting to know someone and all their sides is quite difficult and can take a lifetime.
Do you stick with someone through thick and thin or do you run when the going gets tough and how do you decide when enough is enough.
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deedee123xo: In a relationship how do you make the distinction between what you consider fighting for love or to simply walk away.
Getting to know someone and all their sides is quite difficult and can take a lifetime.
Do you stick with someone through thick and thin or do you run when the going gets tough and how do you decide when enough is enough.
As some have already said, “if he is in love with his Tonic and Gin” or another woman, you are his punch bag or you are his “friend with benefits” - love never grows from those situations; only more disrespect. Love yourself first, with all your heart for every scar and imperfection and all the wonderful things within! Love does not need to be fought over, it just happens! Getting to know someone and all their sides is quite difficult and can take a lifetime.
Do you stick with someone through thick and thin or do you run when the going gets tough and how do you decide when enough is enough.
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deedee123xo: In a relationship how do you make the distinction between what you consider fighting for love or to simply walk away.
Getting to know someone and all their sides is quite difficult and can take a lifetime.
Do you stick with someone through thick and thin or do you run when the going gets tough and how do you decide when enough is enough.
hey deedee Getting to know someone and all their sides is quite difficult and can take a lifetime.
Do you stick with someone through thick and thin or do you run when the going gets tough and how do you decide when enough is enough.
a couple of thoughts.....
1) love is a choice. it doesn't fall, climb, drop, run....it's a choice.
2) i believe relationships last when two folks, each have a commitment to the relationship and roles are clearly defined. that means each person chooses the relationship as priority, and they accept/meet whatever's coming down the pike together.
3) change is inevitable. sometimes folks change and stay together. sometimes folks change and they stop choosing love for that other person.
so i don't think it's about 'fighting' for love. it's about choosing love.
and yes, if the commitment to the Us is gone for one of the partners, i don't think i would hang around much longer. i'd either be walking away, or watching them walk away.
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deedee123xo: In a relationship how do you make the distinction between what you consider fighting for love or to simply walk away.
Getting to know someone and all their sides is quite difficult and can take a lifetime.
Do you stick with someone through thick and thin or do you run when the going gets tough and how do you decide when enough is enough.
i never been in situation to fight for love Getting to know someone and all their sides is quite difficult and can take a lifetime.
Do you stick with someone through thick and thin or do you run when the going gets tough and how do you decide when enough is enough.
Hi Dee
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