One2note: Manipulation is certainly apparent in most relationships Molly , which is all the more reason to let the friendship blossom , rather than diving in head first into a relationship. Ok, I may have a bad reputation with some ladies on CS , but I won't compromise my happiness & certainly not my health !
The bad rep. one . People seem to think that a couple of mails & a few chats constitute a relationship & when things turn sour, it's not a pretty sight!
To be honest she could have sent a reply saying to stop contacting her. Some women think they are above a common decent reply...then feign disgust when the table is turned on them.
deedee123xo: To be honest she could have sent a reply saying to stop contacting her. Some women think they are above a common decent reply...then feign disgust when the table is turned on them.
I've had my fair share of ghostings in the past & the same women who no showed, are still amongst us to this very day.
One2note: Maybe they need some sort of ego boost for their sad existence. I really don't have the time or energy to worry about their reasons for not replying
I always try and project these things into a real social situation. Maybe internet protocol is radically different from normal established social norms? So internet aside, if a guy said something to a girl face to face then she would reply. She would let him know, at some stage, that she was not interested. However, she would not totally ignore him and say nothing!
It's good that we have our faceless divas like curiositycat and mollybaby to slam some bloke who was just saying "hello". The fact that he got annoyed after eight messages without response doesn't mean he's a threat to life and limb!
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