The Reason Why Women Don't Date "Nice" Guys ( Archived) (69)

Nov 4, 2018 12:45 PM CST The Reason Why Women Don't Date "Nice" Guys
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
MisterForYou: Manipulation - emotional, psychological is a science. To some people, it comes naturally.
That's why it's better to take relationships slowly. Not get in too deep before you get to know the person properly.
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Nov 4, 2018 12:46 PM CST The Reason Why Women Don't Date "Nice" Guys
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
One2note: Manipulation is certainly apparent in most relationships Molly , which is all the more reason to let the friendship blossom , rather than diving in head first into a relationship.
Ok, I may have a bad reputation with some ladies on CS , but I won't compromise my happiness & certainly not my health !
Snap grin
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Nov 4, 2018 12:57 PM CST The Reason Why Women Don't Date "Nice" Guys
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
mollybaby: Snap
I wasn't aware you had the same monkey on your back ??
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Nov 4, 2018 1:01 PM CST The Reason Why Women Don't Date "Nice" Guys
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
One2note: I wasn't aware you had the same monkey on your back ??
Which monkey is that?
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Nov 4, 2018 1:02 PM CST The Reason Why Women Don't Date "Nice" Guys
Mercedes_00
Mercedes_00Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,465 Posts
Never date a woman with hairy arm pits as that's a bad sign a real bad sign
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Nov 4, 2018 1:05 PM CST The Reason Why Women Don't Date "Nice" Guys
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
mollybaby: Which monkey is that?
The bad rep. one .
People seem to think that a couple of mails & a few chats constitute a relationship & when things turn sour, it's not a pretty sight!
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Nov 4, 2018 1:06 PM CST The Reason Why Women Don't Date "Nice" Guys
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
No laugh
See #33
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Nov 4, 2018 1:07 PM CST The Reason Why Women Don't Date "Nice" Guys
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
Mercedes_00: Never date a woman with hairy arm pits as that's a bad sign a real bad sign
But an easy choice when you are clueless as to what to buy her for Christmas !professor laugh
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Nov 4, 2018 1:08 PM CST The Reason Why Women Don't Date "Nice" Guys
deedee123xo
deedee123xodeedee123xoLimerick, Ireland15 Threads 3,538 Posts
To be honest she could have sent a reply saying to stop contacting her.
Some women think they are above a common decent reply...then feign disgust when the table is turned on them.

dunno
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Nov 4, 2018 1:10 PM CST The Reason Why Women Don't Date "Nice" Guys
ysabeljhen
ysabeljhenysabeljhenFlying Fish Cove, Christmas Island71 Threads 2 Polls 1,874 Posts
mollybaby: That's why it's better to take relationships slowly. Not get in too deep before you get to know the person properly.
I second the motionthumbs up
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Nov 4, 2018 1:10 PM CST The Reason Why Women Don't Date "Nice" Guys
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
mollybaby: No
See #33
That's all good & fine in theory Molly, but some people can handle rejection better than others handshake devil laugh
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Nov 4, 2018 1:13 PM CST The Reason Why Women Don't Date "Nice" Guys
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
deedee123xo: To be honest she could have sent a reply saying to stop contacting her.
Some women think they are above a common decent reply...then feign disgust when the table is turned on them.
I've had my fair share of ghostings in the past & the same women who no showed, are still amongst us to this very day.
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Nov 4, 2018 1:14 PM CST The Reason Why Women Don't Date "Nice" Guys
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
One2note: That's all good & fine in theory Molly, but some people can handle rejection better than others
Of course.

And you generally know which ones will, and which to avoid totally.
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Nov 4, 2018 1:19 PM CST The Reason Why Women Don't Date "Nice" Guys
deedee123xo
deedee123xodeedee123xoLimerick, Ireland15 Threads 3,538 Posts
One2note: I've had my fair share of ghostings in the past & the same women who no showed, are still amongst us to this very day.
Possibly because they think they are all that...when they really are fooling themselves.

To be nice and polite in saying thanks but no thanks doesn't really take that much energy.

But as you said they are still here 7 and 8 years later....speaks enough about their character.
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Nov 4, 2018 1:25 PM CST The Reason Why Women Don't Date "Nice" Guys
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
mollybaby: Of course.

And you generally know which ones will, and which to avoid totally.
You would think a man of my experience would learn by previous mistakes , but I have this uncontrollable urge to go where angels fear to tread !doh laugh
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Nov 4, 2018 1:26 PM CST The Reason Why Women Don't Date "Nice" Guys
secludedStar
secludedStarsecludedStarUtah, USA25 Threads 2,288 Posts
"why don't Women Date Nice Guys?"

Its simple really. -- They stop dating and get married. wink
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Nov 4, 2018 1:27 PM CST The Reason Why Women Don't Date "Nice" Guys
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
deedee123xo: Possibly because they think they are all that...when they really are fooling themselves.

To be nice and polite in saying thanks but no thanks doesn't really take that much energy.

But as you said they are still here 7 and 8 years later....speaks enough about their character.
Maybe they need some sort of ego boost for their sad existence. I really don't have the time or energy to worry about their reasons for not replying
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Nov 4, 2018 1:59 PM CST The Reason Why Women Don't Date "Nice" Guys
deedee123xo
deedee123xodeedee123xoLimerick, Ireland15 Threads 3,538 Posts
One2note: Maybe they need some sort of ego boost for their sad existence. I really don't have the time or energy to worry about their reasons for not replying
Then dont worry handshake
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Nov 4, 2018 2:19 PM CST The Reason Why Women Don't Date "Nice" Guys
aries1234
aries1234aries1234plymout, Devon, England UK175 Threads 3 Polls 5,672 Posts
ysabeljhen: I second the motion
Isabel my budz, where have you been , i missed youhug bouquet
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Nov 4, 2018 2:44 PM CST The Reason Why Women Don't Date "Nice" Guys
I always try and project these things into a real social situation. Maybe internet protocol is radically different from normal established social norms? So internet aside, if a guy said something to a girl face to face then she would reply. She would let him know, at some stage, that she was not interested. However, she would not totally ignore him and say nothing!

It's good that we have our faceless divas like curiositycat and mollybaby to slam some bloke who was just saying "hello". The fact that he got annoyed after eight messages without response doesn't mean he's a threat to life and limb!
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