The Reason Why Women Don't Date "Nice" Guys (69)
but it is also no excuse to use abusive language. No response IS a response
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Forcedhand: I always try and project these things into a real social situation. Maybe internet protocol is radically different from normal established social norms? So internet aside, if a guy said something to a girl face to face then she would reply. She would let him know, at some stage, that she was not interested. However, she would not totally ignore him and say nothing!
It's good that we have our faceless divas like curiositycat and mollybaby to slam some bloke who was just saying "hello". The fact that he got annoyed after eight messages without response doesn't mean he's a threat to life and limb!
I think it's up to the girl, if she doesn't want to reply live with it. She has her own priorities.It's good that we have our faceless divas like curiositycat and mollybaby to slam some bloke who was just saying "hello". The fact that he got annoyed after eight messages without response doesn't mean he's a threat to life and limb!
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did anybody stop and think this could be her abusive x contacting her that she wants no contact with?....obviously he is not a nice guy so lets stop getting men who say they're nice and have nice words confused with actual nice men whose words and actions show he is a great person.....
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Forcedhand: I always try and project these things into a real social situation. Maybe internet protocol is radically different from normal established social norms? So internet aside, if a guy said something to a girl face to face then she would reply. She would let him know, at some stage, that she was not interested. However, she would not totally ignore him and say nothing!
It's good that we have our faceless divas like curiositycat and mollybaby to slam some bloke who was just saying "hello". The fact that he got annoyed after eight messages without response doesn't mean he's a threat to life and limb!
Every little schoolboy learns that when a girl ignores him, she's not interested in a dialogue, and that he should move on. If you haven't learned that by the time you are out of short pants, there's something wrong with you.It's good that we have our faceless divas like curiositycat and mollybaby to slam some bloke who was just saying "hello". The fact that he got annoyed after eight messages without response doesn't mean he's a threat to life and limb!
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Politeness never killed anyone...
If it doesn't work, then ignore...delete and block...
If it doesn't work, then ignore...delete and block...
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deedee123xo: To be honest she could have sent a reply saying to stop contacting her.
Some women think they are above a common decent reply...then feign disgust when the table is turned on them.
I agree with you!Some women think they are above a common decent reply...then feign disgust when the table is turned on them.
(don't faint...)
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pKrema: I agree with you!
(don't faint...)
Are you gay PK?(don't faint...)
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Lookin4missright: Are you gay PK?
Whatever made you think that, lub? 
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pKrema: Whatever made you think that, lub?
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The main reason women don’t like nice guys is because women don’t have the self-confidence to be as bad as they really are.
Teamwork and pro activity are reasons men can be nice but for women the main reason is conflict avoidance. In the psychology of women and their male equivalents(yes-men)If you’re being nice to someone it is because they intimidate you.
Teamwork and pro activity are reasons men can be nice but for women the main reason is conflict avoidance. In the psychology of women and their male equivalents(yes-men)If you’re being nice to someone it is because they intimidate you.
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8 out of 10 nice guys never actually do anything criminal, immoral or embarrassing. He’s normally not a stalker or even a sycophant and usually he’s just a guy who makes it too easy for her.
He just isn’t challenging enough and if you believe his crime to be greater than this it’s because you’re clueless. 80% of nice guy crimes are exaggerated as part of the woman’s coy ploy to deflect and disguise what she is.
He just isn’t challenging enough and if you believe his crime to be greater than this it’s because you’re clueless. 80% of nice guy crimes are exaggerated as part of the woman’s coy ploy to deflect and disguise what she is.
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Nice guys are often attracted to the wrong type of women and eagerly humiliate themselves in a bit to please them...
It goes both ways...
It goes both ways...
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Forcedhand: I always try and project these things into a real social situation. Maybe internet protocol is radically different from normal established social norms? So internet aside, if a guy said something to a girl face to face then she would reply. She would let him know, at some stage, that she was not interested. However, she would not totally ignore him and say nothing!
It's good that we have our faceless divas like curiositycat and mollybaby to slam some bloke who was just saying "hello". The fact that he got annoyed after eight messages without response doesn't mean he's a threat to life and limb!
It means he's a bit dim though.It's good that we have our faceless divas like curiositycat and mollybaby to slam some bloke who was just saying "hello". The fact that he got annoyed after eight messages without response doesn't mean he's a threat to life and limb!
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aries1234: Why not
Nice hat. 
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You know the saying about the apples and the pigs...it's kind of a rule actually...
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And what a "nice guy" really means...
Today when you say "nice" it usually means "hm, well, may be"...
"Nice guy" isn't a compliment anymore...what a shame...
Today when you say "nice" it usually means "hm, well, may be"...
"Nice guy" isn't a compliment anymore...what a shame...
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MisterForYou: You have to feel sorry for us guys when you consider what we have to deal with....
the emotional blackmail, pressing the 'white knight' buttons, playing the 'poor me' spiel,
the emotional manipulation ie 'Do this for me, otherwise it's cold-shoulder time' syndrome.
or the worst...'it's cold shoulder time, simply because I'm in a bad mood' syndrome.
So do you feel sorry for us?- No, I knew it.
I actually said that to a client today...the emotional blackmail, pressing the 'white knight' buttons, playing the 'poor me' spiel,
the emotional manipulation ie 'Do this for me, otherwise it's cold-shoulder time' syndrome.
or the worst...'it's cold shoulder time, simply because I'm in a bad mood' syndrome.
So do you feel sorry for us?- No, I knew it.
Men today have become so used to the all of the above type of women they can no longer recognise a normal one...
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Usually I have blocked them before it goes too far, My recommendation: block & delete. It may seem rude but 's better than the alternative....