I believe that the more you look for love the more impossible it feels... Once you sit back and relax and stop flooding your head with visionaries and fantasies, love will come and sit next to you quietly... Or may be it was there all the time...?!
If after a certain time you simply give up in the idea of there being a 'one for you'.
What measures have you in place to replace that....
Ha ha, you beat me to it... I was going to post a similar thing, only about *would you join a pay site*... Yeah, nothing doing here, people either too far away, too different, too not interested, so it's a zero result from me... I've made the first moves, here and in other free sites, and to be honest, it was match.com which gave the most positive result... That said, pof and CS both came up with a couple of respondents who've become good friends (one particularly so) , that's where I am now.... Going forward, who knows, but I'm not going to fret over a single life if that's what's ahead....
pKrema: I believe that the more you look for love the more impossible it feels... Once you sit back and relax and stop flooding your head with visionaries and fantasies, love will come and sit next to you quietly... Or may be it was there all the time...?!
Looking for love is like a fish in the sea looking for water.
Love is our natural state of being, like you said, it was there all the time.
If after a certain time you simply give up in the idea of there being a 'one for you'.
What measures have you in place to replace that....
Hi dee
To be frank, I don't have any measures in place …
I figure things will happen if and when they're meant to happen, with regard to the idea of there being a 'one for me' …
Finally, I'm to a point where I'm content and live a fulfilled life. Sure - it could be better, and it could be worse … but I no longer dream of getting married and having a family, and I'm at peace with that - it's a choice I have made for the time being.
Don't be a bunch of woosies....love is out there...when you see her, and you feel it, hunt her down, woo her, romance her, drag her home caveman style if you have to. Love does not belong to the faint-hearted.
If after a certain time you simply give up in the idea of there being a 'one for you'.
What measures have you in place to replace that....
No matter how happy you make me there are thousands of women who could make me happier. “The one” is found trying out any number of the 100000 that would suffice, and in reality a tenth of those is probably the one. It’s all a numbers game you have to keep playing.
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If after a certain time you simply give up in the idea of there being a 'one for you'.
What measures have you in place to replace that....