Are women over 40 really having a hard time finding a partner on dating site? ( Archived) (54)

Nov 16, 2018 5:02 PM CST Are women over 40 really having a hard time finding a partner on dating site?
charles_nz
charles_nzcharles_nzChristchurch, Canterbury New Zealand1,386 Posts
mollybaby: Most men, and most women, want to date people of approximately their own age.
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Most women, yes, but definitely not most men.

Your average 50 year old male would pick a 20 year old woman if he thought he could.
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Nov 16, 2018 5:08 PM CST Are women over 40 really having a hard time finding a partner on dating site?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
charles_nz: That is an assumption you are making. And a very judgmental one at that.
Which part?
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Nov 16, 2018 5:19 PM CST Are women over 40 really having a hard time finding a partner on dating site?
Tuesday2018
Tuesday2018Tuesday2018mayo, Mayo Ireland1 Threads 230 Posts
charles_nz: Most women, yes, but definitely not most men.

Your average 50 year old male would pick a 20 year old woman if he thought he could.
The only 50 year old men I knew who were interested in 20 year old girls..were creepy slimy pervs ...
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Nov 16, 2018 5:39 PM CST Are women over 40 really having a hard time finding a partner on dating site?
jimgi
jimgijimgiroscommon, Roscommon Ireland3 Threads 1 Polls 978 Posts
Tuesday2018: The post I was replying to, said "your average 50 year old man" and "that's" what I was replying to..
I wonder what defines an "average" 50 year old man?
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Nov 16, 2018 5:53 PM CST Are women over 40 really having a hard time finding a partner on dating site?
Tuesday2018
Tuesday2018Tuesday2018mayo, Mayo Ireland1 Threads 230 Posts
jimgi: I wonder what defines an "average" 50 year old man?
I was going to ask that but didn't want to get caught up in the pedantics of someone else's mind....that keeps changing lol...
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Nov 16, 2018 5:54 PM CST Are women over 40 really having a hard time finding a partner on dating site?
calmheartseeks
calmheartseekscalmheartseeksSomewhere, California USA7 Threads 1 Polls 505 Posts
Molly, this guy posted on my thread and started criticizing my post...

I don’t think he feels well or is upset about something.
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Nov 16, 2018 5:55 PM CST Are women over 40 really having a hard time finding a partner on dating site?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
jimgi: I wonder what defines an "average" 50 year old man?
How would you describe it? laugh
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Nov 16, 2018 6:00 PM CST Are women over 40 really having a hard time finding a partner on dating site?
If a woman might be experiencing menopause, 50% of them, ADMIT to wanting to murder their mates...
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Nov 16, 2018 6:03 PM CST Are women over 40 really having a hard time finding a partner on dating site?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
mykingdomforanam: If a woman might be experiencing menopause, 50% of them, ADMIT to wanting to murder their mates...
Saying you want to do something, and doing it are two totally different things.

Anyway, very few women suffer such extreme menopauses. We always just hear about the ones that do.
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Nov 16, 2018 6:12 PM CST Are women over 40 really having a hard time finding a partner on dating site?
jimgi
jimgijimgiroscommon, Roscommon Ireland3 Threads 1 Polls 978 Posts
calmheartseeks: Molly, this guy posted on my thread and started criticizing my post...

I don’t think he feels well or is upset about something.
I wouldn't lose too much sleep over his ramblings.
He visited a thread I had on the Irish forums to impress us all with his knowledge laugh
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Nov 16, 2018 6:15 PM CST Are women over 40 really having a hard time finding a partner on dating site?
jimgi
jimgijimgiroscommon, Roscommon Ireland3 Threads 1 Polls 978 Posts
jimgi: Prinking or drinking?
Maybe she'd be impress with a nice suit.
Impressed even.

Or maybe she'd be more impressionable.
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Nov 16, 2018 6:22 PM CST Are women over 40 really having a hard time finding a partner on dating site?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
jimgi: Impressed even.

Or maybe she'd be more impressionable.
Maybe it's worth a try grin
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Nov 16, 2018 6:24 PM CST Are women over 40 really having a hard time finding a partner on dating site?
reb56
reb56reb56carthage, Missouri USA55 Polls 8,629 Posts
pKrema: Yes, it is a very difficult age for dating...online and offline...
Men think you are desperate and will settle for just anything that pays attention to you...
Because you are not young anymore, nor you are old enough to date pensioners...
what about 59 yr.olds?
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Nov 16, 2018 6:42 PM CST Are women over 40 really having a hard time finding a partner on dating site?
jimgi
jimgijimgiroscommon, Roscommon Ireland3 Threads 1 Polls 978 Posts
mollybaby: Life would be boring without different types.

Don't say you haven't learned which types of women to avoid dating as a result of being on here?
Once I put the suit on, avoiding them is impossible.
You're the only one that has an issue with it.

You're right though. It's only because of the nutters,that we realise how sane we are.
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Nov 16, 2018 6:47 PM CST Are women over 40 really having a hard time finding a partner on dating site?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
jimgi: Once I put the suit on, avoiding them is impossible.
You're the only one that has an issue with it.

You're right though. It's only because of the nutters,that we realise how sane we are.
It is indeed laugh

I have learned an awful lot about attitudes since joining. I guess because the people we normally associate with have similar backgrounds /views as ourselves.
Seeing the broad expanse of personalities on here has made me definitely know what I like/want and not.
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Nov 16, 2018 6:54 PM CST Are women over 40 really having a hard time finding a partner on dating site?
jimgi
jimgijimgiroscommon, Roscommon Ireland3 Threads 1 Polls 978 Posts
mollybaby: It is indeed

I have learned an awful lot about attitudes since joining. I guess because the people we normally associate with have similar backgrounds /views as ourselves.
Seeing the broad expanse of personalities on here has made me definitely know what I like/want and not.
Shhh. Don't say that too loud. You'll have them on about the cliques again laugh

Going to hit the hay,Moll.
Off 2mor for a wonder & days off have to be more productive than work days laugh
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Nov 16, 2018 6:57 PM CST Are women over 40 really having a hard time finding a partner on dating site?
Kidwell_
Kidwell_Kidwell_South East GBA Province, Buenos Aires Argentina17 Threads 2 Polls 767 Posts
Yes! It's terrible!
Men don't fark me hard as they used to for fear my dentures will come flying out.

crying
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Nov 16, 2018 7:02 PM CST Are women over 40 really having a hard time finding a partner on dating site?
charles_nz
charles_nzcharles_nzChristchurch, Canterbury New Zealand1,386 Posts
To sum up, I think that, having read some of the posts from women over 40 in this thread, we now have a much better idea of why they are finding it difficult to find someone!
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Nov 17, 2018 10:04 AM CST Are women over 40 really having a hard time finding a partner on dating site?
Bajangal
BajangalBajangalMalmö, Skane Sweden4 Threads 34 Posts
charles_nz: To sum up, I think that, having read some of the posts from women over 40 in this thread, we now have a much better idea of why they are finding it difficult to find someone!
Tell me why ?
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Nov 17, 2018 10:05 AM CST Are women over 40 really having a hard time finding a partner on dating site?
Bajangal
BajangalBajangalMalmö, Skane Sweden4 Threads 34 Posts
Kidwell_: Yes! It's terrible!
Men don't fark me hard as they used to for fear my dentures will come flying out.
Love this comment rolling on the floor laughing
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