Toxic & Negative People - How to get rid of them! (101)
Just ignore them 
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abrakadabra: Just ignore them
Lol. That's easier said than done in most cases. They just don't want to know that you want nothing to do with them, and just continues!------ This thread is Archived ------
As long as we always look on the bright side, nothing is impossible!!! Remember that always?
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smiley963: As long as we always look on the bright side, nothing is impossible!!! Remember that always?
Yes boss 
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MikeD12: Could it be that she moved from Jo'berg to Capetown ?
hmmm, could be right there uncle Mike 
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Bnaughty
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Snooks
Do not cross the line Snooks!
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Snooks
Do not cross the line Snooks!
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Lookin4missright: hmmm, could be right there uncle Mike ( . )( . )
I like Big ( . ) ( . ) too 
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I just became tired of all the drama and blocked them out of my life.I dreaded to do so but I had no other choice.
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Boring...
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Kidwell_: Boring...
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smiley963: Lol. That's easier said than done in most cases. They just don't want to know that you want nothing to do with them, and just continues!
That comes with the territory, it's an open public forum.------ This thread is Archived ------
Tuesday2018: I find the use of the word toxic a really nasty way to describe another human being......chemicals are labelled toxic...not some person who's probably got all sorts of problems to deal with....it's highly judgemental too.....
Agreed.And now even masculinity is "toxic"......?
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smiley963: Toxic:
1. Don't Expect Them To Change. ...
2. Establish And Maintain Boundaries. ...
3. Don't Be Pulled Into Crises. ...
4. Focus On The Solution. ...
5. Own Your Difficulties And Weaknesses. ...
6. Understand Projection. ...
7. Know They May Resist. ...
8. Choose Your Battles Carefully
9. Surround Yourself With Healthy Relationships
Negative:
1. Negativity feeds of attention. ...
2. Be honest, and if you can, tell them that they are being negative. ...
3. Use “positivity triggers” to eliminate negativity. ...
4. Be aware of your own reality. ...
5. Steer away from conflicts. ...
6. See negative people as opportunities for growth
7. Those Who Are Self-Centered
8. Those Who Keep Disappointing You
A lot of this self-help literature is just what careerists made up to attack the laid back. Not everybody is that opportunistic and mercenary.1. Don't Expect Them To Change. ...
2. Establish And Maintain Boundaries. ...
3. Don't Be Pulled Into Crises. ...
4. Focus On The Solution. ...
5. Own Your Difficulties And Weaknesses. ...
6. Understand Projection. ...
7. Know They May Resist. ...
8. Choose Your Battles Carefully
9. Surround Yourself With Healthy Relationships
Negative:
1. Negativity feeds of attention. ...
2. Be honest, and if you can, tell them that they are being negative. ...
3. Use “positivity triggers” to eliminate negativity. ...
4. Be aware of your own reality. ...
5. Steer away from conflicts. ...
6. See negative people as opportunities for growth
7. Those Who Are Self-Centered
8. Those Who Keep Disappointing You
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bodleing2: I agree, the use of the word toxic to describe a person is quite distasteful and reflects more on the person using it than the person it's aimed at.
Apart from that, I believe there's no such thing as a 'toxic' person, a toxic relationship, maybe.
You are Toxic!!!!Apart from that, I believe there's no such thing as a 'toxic' person, a toxic relationship, maybe.
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ChesneyChrist: A lot of this self-help literature is just what careerists made up to attack the laid back. Not everybody is that opportunistic and mercenary.
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I simply remove myself from the picture. Taking a step back, find a safe, quiet place in nature with it's inherent purity. Then I take some time to clear my mind, specifically focussing on getting my mind as quiet as possible. Setting aside the daily drama until my soul starts breathing again.
Nature is my salvation. If I don't get my nature fix at regular intervals, I suffer from withdrawal symptoms...
Nature is my salvation. If I don't get my nature fix at regular intervals, I suffer from withdrawal symptoms...
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diova: I simply remove myself from the picture. Taking a step back, find a safe, quiet place in nature with it's inherent purity. Then I take some time to clear my mind, specifically focussing on getting my mind as quiet as possible. Setting aside the daily drama until my soul starts breathing again.
Nature is my salvation. If I don't get my nature fix at regular intervals, I suffer from withdrawal symptoms...
Yes, nature is great at healing all ailments. The question is: What if you don't have all that free time on your hands, what heals you then?Nature is my salvation. If I don't get my nature fix at regular intervals, I suffer from withdrawal symptoms...
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1. Don't Expect Them To Change. ...
2. Establish And Maintain Boundaries. ...
3. Don't Be Pulled Into Crises. ...
4. Focus On The Solution. ...
5. Own Your Difficulties And Weaknesses. ...
6. Understand Projection. ...
7. Know They May Resist. ...
8. Choose Your Battles Carefully
9. Surround Yourself With Healthy Relationships
Negative:
1. Negativity feeds of attention. ...
2. Be honest, and if you can, tell them that they are being negative. ...
3. Use “positivity triggers” to eliminate negativity. ...
4. Be aware of your own reality. ...
5. Steer away from conflicts. ...
6. See negative people as opportunities for growth
7. Those Who Are Self-Centered
8. Those Who Keep Disappointing You