I love you not only for what you are, but for what I am when I am with you. ( Archived) (50)

Oct 23, 2019 12:51 PM CST I love you not only for what you are, but for what I am when I am with you.
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
pKrema: Gal, your American often confuses me...
confused I’ll try and rephras that in a later post then
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Oct 23, 2019 12:54 PM CST I love you not only for what you are, but for what I am when I am with you.
raphael119
raphael119raphael119washington d.c., District of Columbia USA19 Threads 3 Polls 5,181 Posts
galrads: What does this saying mean?


“I love you not only for what you are, but for what I am when I am with you. I love you not only for what you have made of yourself, but for what you are making of me. I love you for the part of me that you bring out.”


? Elizabeth Barrett Browning
I think "The last Duchess" by her husband Robert Browning is relevant too!FRom "Manmeet Singh
3 months ago"
"This poem is a great example of the power of narratives in shaping the way we see the world. Not only does Browning critique his own society's values, he leaves us thinking about the treatment of women in both his time and our current time, obviously alongside his comment on the battle between the male and feminine gaze."
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Oct 23, 2019 1:05 PM CST I love you not only for what you are, but for what I am when I am with you.
raphael119
raphael119raphael119washington d.c., District of Columbia USA19 Threads 3 Polls 5,181 Posts
raphael119: I think "The last Duchess" by her husband Robert Browning is relevant too!FRom "Manmeet Singh
3 months ago"
"This poem is a great example of the power of narratives in shaping the way we see the world. Not only does Browning critique his own society's values, he leaves us thinking about the treatment of women in both his time and our current time, obviously alongside his comment on the battle between the male and feminine gaze."
"Whene’er I passed her; but who passed without
Much the same smile? This grew; I gave commands;
Then all smiles stopped together. There she stands
As if alive"

The male and female gaze.
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Oct 23, 2019 1:12 PM CST I love you not only for what you are, but for what I am when I am with you.
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
raphael119: I think "The last Duchess" by her husband Robert Browning is relevant too!FRom "Manmeet Singh
3 months ago"
"This poem is a great example of the power of narratives in shaping the way we see the world. Not only does Browning critique his own society's values, he leaves us thinking about the treatment of women in both his time and our current time, obviously alongside his comment on the battle between the male and feminine gaze."
“The last duchess” written by robert browning was published a year after Elizabeth Barrett Browning‘s death. wave
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Oct 23, 2019 2:15 PM CST I love you not only for what you are, but for what I am when I am with you.
Friskyone
FriskyoneFriskyoneSanta Fe, New Mexico USA271 Threads 26 Polls 4,631 Posts
pKrema: I am kind of conflicted with that statement...
If I need someone to bring the best out of me does it mean I can not be my best when they are not around...?
I will love you for what you already are and not because of what I can make out of you...
Well said. I agree.thumbs up
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Oct 24, 2019 5:16 AM CST I love you not only for what you are, but for what I am when I am with you.
ChesneyChrist
ChesneyChristChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK7,144 Posts
The freedom to live as one wants.. before the 1960s there were Victorian rich kids intent on defying the expectations of society. Romanticism and the choosing of partners around whom all sense of responsibility and restraint dissolve to the ruin of posterity. Decadence rising.
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Oct 24, 2019 8:43 AM CST I love you not only for what you are, but for what I am when I am with you.
ChesneyChrist
ChesneyChristChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK7,144 Posts
And this is the difference between William and Harry. There's the noble path to aristocracy and there is a modern celebrity path to aristocracy the former is a tradition where the latter is effectively appointed by the least amongst us. One is a role model and the other is a fluffer.
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Oct 24, 2019 9:38 AM CST I love you not only for what you are, but for what I am when I am with you.
bodleing2
bodleing2bodleing2Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK84 Threads 6,132 Posts
CuspofMagic: and love myself for what i am with or without you or anyone else...
That's more like it....thumbs up
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Oct 24, 2019 10:29 AM CST I love you not only for what you are, but for what I am when I am with you.
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
Anyone else want to give their two cents before I share my opinion on the meaning behind this stuff?

wave
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Oct 24, 2019 10:30 AM CST I love you not only for what you are, but for what I am when I am with you.
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
brb laugh
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Oct 24, 2019 10:42 AM CST I love you not only for what you are, but for what I am when I am with you.
irish78eyes
irish78eyesirish78eyesMeath/Louth, Louth Ireland22 Threads 6,274 Posts
galrads: Anyone else want to give their two cents before I share my opinion on the meaning behind this stuff?
Jeez can hardly waitroll eyes
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Oct 24, 2019 11:02 AM CST I love you not only for what you are, but for what I am when I am with you.
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
irish78eyes: Jeez can hardly wait
10 9 8 7 .......
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Oct 24, 2019 11:10 AM CST I love you not only for what you are, but for what I am when I am with you.
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
irish78eyes: Jeez can hardly wait
I think it is about something as difficult if not more difficult to communicate than love

Can you dig it?
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Oct 24, 2019 11:18 AM CST I love you not only for what you are, but for what I am when I am with you.
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
irish78eyes: Jeez can hardly wait
Some women do it but it is still something I've seldom seen expressed in the cs forums
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Oct 24, 2019 12:08 PM CST I love you not only for what you are, but for what I am when I am with you.
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
galrads: What does this saying mean?


“I love you not only for what you are, but for what I am when I am with you. I love you not only for what you have made of yourself, but for what you are making of me. I love you for the part of me that you bring out.”


~ Elizabeth Barrett Browning
I think this statement hits both signs of the encouragement coin. Someone could be acknowledging encouragement or someone could be giving encouragement. wine
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Oct 24, 2019 12:37 PM CST I love you not only for what you are, but for what I am when I am with you.
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
I think this statement hits both signs sides of the encouragement coin. Someone could be acknowledging encouragement or someone could be giving encouragement.
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Oct 24, 2019 2:22 PM CST I love you not only for what you are, but for what I am when I am with you.
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
galrads: What does this saying mean?


“I love you not only for what you are, but for what I am when I am with you. I love you not only for what you have made of yourself, but for what you are making of me. I love you for the part of me that you bring out.”


? Elizabeth Barrett Browning
To me, it's a heartfelt way of expressing appreciation towards someone who is a part of your life whether it's a partner, friend, teacher, mentor or anyone else who has had a positive influence on you. wave
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Oct 24, 2019 2:59 PM CST I love you not only for what you are, but for what I am when I am with you.
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
2intrigued: To me, it's a heartfelt way of expressing appreciation towards someone who is a part of your life whether it's a partner, friend, teacher, mentor or anyone else who has had a positive influence on you.
I like heartfelt stuff.... wave
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Oct 24, 2019 6:32 PM CST I love you not only for what you are, but for what I am when I am with you.
M4_Mischief
M4_MischiefM4_MischiefBelleville, Ontario Canada6,250 Posts
poetry is not literal its symbolic.....this poem symbolizes love and the overall essence of how that feels in the presence of your beloved.....heart wings
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Oct 24, 2019 6:37 PM CST I love you not only for what you are, but for what I am when I am with you.
PeKaatje
PeKaatjePeKaatjeAnkeveen, North Holland Netherlands59 Threads 3 Polls 6,334 Posts
so you wanna be4 layed...
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