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Nov 15, 2020 6:52 AM CST Ready made family
tomcatty
tomcattytomcattyCoral Bay, Paphos, Paphos Cyprus368 Threads 6 Polls 6,885 Posts
am divorced and my children are independent.

My recent g/f of six years has a family of three girls, ranging from primary school to university in age, they are wonderful girls and we get on.

She calls them my ready-made family.

Would you take on a ready-made family??????
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Nov 15, 2020 6:56 AM CST Ready made family
Dan_777
Dan_777Dan_777Nowhereland, Murcia Spain3 Threads 439 Posts
Nope!
A baby, maybe, but not grown up kids...and not at my age anyway.

Once you've reached 60 your own kids should have left the nest by then.
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Nov 15, 2020 7:04 AM CST Ready made family
tomcatty
tomcattytomcattyCoral Bay, Paphos, Paphos Cyprus368 Threads 6 Polls 6,885 Posts
Dan_777: Nope!
A baby, maybe, but not grown up kids...and not at my age anyway.

Once you've reached 60 your own kids should have left the nest by then.
The younger one is six years old, and the older girls are at uni, I can still be a father for them, they don't have a male role model, I suppose I'm better than nothinglaugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh maybe.
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Nov 15, 2020 7:06 AM CST Ready made family
Aruena
AruenaAruenaNuuk, Sermersooq Greenland2 Threads 2 Polls 110 Posts
No, I want to meet a single (widowed, divorced) man with grown-up children who live independent lives. That being said, my chances to find anyone soon are pretty slim. laugh

Either I have to date someone a lot older than me (and that doesn't seem too appealing hole ) or I have to stay single until I reach a certain age, so those men don't seem too old any more. laugh

No love for me for some more time... moping
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Nov 15, 2020 7:12 AM CST Ready made family
TheDino1
TheDino1TheDino1Belfast, Antrim Ireland139 Threads 1 Polls 5,029 Posts
tomcatty: am divorced and my children are independent.

My recent g/f of six years has a family of three girls, ranging from primary school to university in age, they are wonderful girls and we get on.

She calls them my ready-made family.

Would you take on a ready-made family??????
I find it harder to except a partner that has a cat or dog..
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Nov 15, 2020 7:15 AM CST Ready made family
tomcatty
tomcattytomcattyCoral Bay, Paphos, Paphos Cyprus368 Threads 6 Polls 6,885 Posts
You are still a valuable catch, just let it happen, you may find love. or a soul mate.

I want her, but she comes as a package.
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Nov 15, 2020 7:18 AM CST Ready made family
tomcatty
tomcattytomcattyCoral Bay, Paphos, Paphos Cyprus368 Threads 6 Polls 6,885 Posts
TheDino1: I find it harder to except a partner that has a cat or dog..
What's wrong with cat'slaugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh
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Nov 15, 2020 7:24 AM CST Ready made family
Aruena
AruenaAruenaNuuk, Sermersooq Greenland2 Threads 2 Polls 110 Posts
tomcatty: You are still a valuable catch, just let it happen, you may find love. or a soul mate.
I know I will - just not yet. laugh
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Nov 15, 2020 7:26 AM CST Ready made family
TheDino1
TheDino1TheDino1Belfast, Antrim Ireland139 Threads 1 Polls 5,029 Posts
tomcatty: What's wrong with cat's
They as accepting as children..laugh
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Nov 15, 2020 7:27 AM CST Ready made family
TheDino1
TheDino1TheDino1Belfast, Antrim Ireland139 Threads 1 Polls 5,029 Posts
TheDino1: They as accepting as children..
*Aren't as
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Nov 15, 2020 7:27 AM CST Ready made family
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
tomcatty: am divorced and my children are independent.

My recent g/f of six years has a family of three girls, ranging from primary school to university in age, they are wonderful girls and we get on.

She calls them my ready-made family.

Would you take on a ready-made family??????
Yes, as long as they are trained by you to shine my shoes and fetch the paper, more fire wood, my slippersa d my beer and wine
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Nov 15, 2020 7:36 AM CST Ready made family
tomcatty
tomcattytomcattyCoral Bay, Paphos, Paphos Cyprus368 Threads 6 Polls 6,885 Posts
galrads: Yes, as long as they are trained by you to shine my shoes and fetch the paper, more fire wood, my slippersa d my and
Keep taking the pills, for a small fee I'll write you some new linesgrin
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Nov 15, 2020 7:51 AM CST Ready made family
Dan_777
Dan_777Dan_777Nowhereland, Murcia Spain3 Threads 439 Posts
tomcatty: The younger one is six years old, and the older girls are at uni, I can still be a father for them, they don't have a male role model, I suppose I'm better than nothing maybe.
You...better than nothing!! As a role model???wow laugh
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Nov 15, 2020 7:57 AM CST Ready made family
tomcatty
tomcattytomcattyCoral Bay, Paphos, Paphos Cyprus368 Threads 6 Polls 6,885 Posts
Dan_777: You...better than nothing!! As a role model???
Well I've brought up one brood. none of them are axe murdererslaugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh
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Nov 15, 2020 7:59 AM CST Ready made family
Dedovix
DedovixDedovixBig Place, Central Serbia Serbia12 Threads 1 Polls 5,492 Posts
how many Pedro's do we have on CS uh oh
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Nov 15, 2020 8:25 AM CST Ready made family
tomcatty
tomcattytomcattyCoral Bay, Paphos, Paphos Cyprus368 Threads 6 Polls 6,885 Posts
Dedovix: how many Pedro's do we have on CS
can you speak English on here??
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Nov 15, 2020 9:28 AM CST Ready made family
Taralyn
TaralynTaralynFunk Island, Newfoundland Canada3 Threads 907 Posts
tomcatty: Well I've brought up one brood. none of them are axe murderers
Maybe not axe murderers but you've stated on here that one is gay and that doesn't sit well with your beliefs. That doesn't bode well for a child that isn't yours should they come out.
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Nov 15, 2020 9:54 AM CST Ready made family
Oxycodone
OxycodoneOxycodonePula, Central Croatia Croatia1,285 Posts
Yes of course I would accept my partners children, and beyond.wine
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Nov 15, 2020 9:58 AM CST Ready made family
tomcatty
tomcattytomcattyCoral Bay, Paphos, Paphos Cyprus368 Threads 6 Polls 6,885 Posts
Oxycodone: Yes of course I would accept my partners children, and beyond.
I agree with youthumbs up
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Nov 15, 2020 11:47 AM CST Ready made family
tomcatty: am divorced and my children are independent.

My recent g/f of six years has a family of three girls, ranging from primary school to university in age, they are wonderful girls and we get on.

She calls them my ready-made family.

Would you take on a ready-made family??????
Tough call. The “ ideal” ready- made family(s), such as “ The Brady Bunch” and “My Three Sons” ( yes, this antique sit- com starring Fred MacMurray pioneered mixed/ blended families with a foster- son and later, the widower getting married and the sons now having a new Mom.) The Brady Bunch pioneered the exclusion dislike, with Carol once saying, “ the only “ steps” in this house are the ones that go up to the bedrooms”. I’m from a home with “ steps”, but it wasn’t lovely at all, and I lived with my grandparents from 10 on...I’m not saying you shouldn’t consider it, tomcatty, but th sails need to be firmly set and everyone on the same silk route and frequency.teddybear
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